[Debate] Do looks matter, does background matter, does personality matter, does brain matter?

[HashiraMadara]

When you're looking for a partner it's common to be faced with such questions. More often than not You end up loving the very same person you thought you hated the likes of. Love always seem to disrupt your idea of "perfect guy" , "wedding type girl". It doesn't hurt though to spoil your self with an imaginary list of what do you want in a partner:

I want a woman that:

*Watches anime XD
*Worshiping Lord Itachi
*Who is not easily influenced by her friends <== this is the most important in my case.
I don't fuss much about looks, thinking(brain) etc

What do you want in your partner =D?

 

[Urda]

Soulmate? We have to connect on some spiritual level type shit. That's they only why I can describe the perfect girl.

 

[HashiraMadara]

Soulmate? We have to connect on some spiritual level type shit. That's they only why I can describe the perfect girl.

Looking at your answer I can already tell you do believe in Mind over matter XDXD

 

[Hachiman]

Anime and Itachi ? XD

I just want my partner (not wife) to be

Less emotionally attached
Practical and Independent
Who doesn't give a **** about love relationships
Believes in short and sweet pleasures
Loves to fight
And the most Important thing
Shouldn't give a **** about me and my affairs.

Looks and other shit doesn't interest me.

 

[DominiqueX]

Looks don't really matter to me.
As long as someone doesn't look like a toothless Gollum or a meth-junky, which isn't hard to achieve, I'm fine with the look.

What really matters to me is the personality. Don't care if the personality of the potential partner is similar to mine or the complete opposite. It just has to fit between the person and me. It just has to feel right. In addition to that, I believe that sharing multiple interests is also important. How else would a relationship work if one side doesn't like what the other side is doing all the time? What do you talk about then?

 

[HashiraMadara]

Anime and Itachi ? XD

I just want my partner (not wife) to be

Less emotionally attached
Practical and Independent
Who doesn't give a **** about love relationships
Believes in short and sweet pleasures
Loves to fight
And the most Important thing
Shouldn't give a **** about me and my affairs.

Looks and other shit doesn't interest me.

What the f*ck XD You just described a douchebag

 

[Yatori]

Anime and Itachi? :kk:

 

[Deadlift]

When you're looking for a partner it's common to be faced with such questions. More often than not You end up loving the very same person you thought you hated the likes of. Love always seem to disrupt your idea of "perfect guy" , "wedding type girl". It doesn't hurt though to spoil your self with an imaginary list of what do you want in a partner:

I want a woman that:

*Watches anime XD
*Worshiping Lord Itachi
*Who is not easily influenced by her friends <== this is the most important in my case.
I don't fuss much about looks, thinking(brain) etc

What do you want in your partner =D?

I won't be lying here, to me looks matter. Not saying I want a sexy hot chick like the ones you see in a rap music video, but I must like a woman in physical appearance too.
Background doesn't matter as I'm not racist nor I would have a problem in dating a girl richer or more poor than me. Of course if she shares my phislosophy of life it would be cool, but anyway I won't be forcing her in that, as she doesn't have to try to force me on giving up on mine.
Personality matters quite a lot, I don't wanna a femi-nazi or a girl who can't formulate a single phrase without saying curse words, or who screams and burps, or says blasphemies or other gross things most of women here do. She has to be loyal, as I'm loyal with her.
Brain matters of course, have you ever dated a pretty girl who reasons like she is six? It's not cool xd
Also, I don't like women who smoke or do unhealthy things, as I don't wanna look like a son who carries his old mum when we are 40

 

[JENchuuriki]

Looks isn't important although that person would have to be in a good shape and good hygiene because it means he takes care of himself.
Also, I like someone who I can talk to about anything and everthing and vice versa to him. Open communication/Honesty is the key to a good and long lasting relationship. Although, it is really a good one if both of you has common interests.
Oh and I like someone, who's calm when I get mad LOL. Doesn't act like **** and all that drama.

Overall, I like someone who's independent, has dreams to achieve, and in the same page as me (like, serious. NO playthings)

 

[Marin]

It all matters.

Spoiler

still forever alone

 

[HashiraMadara]

Brain matters of course, have you ever dated a pretty girl who reasons like she is six? It's not cool xd
Also, I don't like women who smoke or do unhealthy things, as I don't wanna look like a son who carries his old mum when we are 40

I thought brain mattered too XD until I meet a clumsy dumb yet elegant cute girl 3 years ago. We used to laugh at her late responses and she would even admit to be a slow thinker. I went from judging her into head over heels on her clumsiness. That was a dumb ****** by judgement yet I was lost in love.
Sometimes a girl's weakness you can find them attractive

 

[Styles]

Mexican or Asian girls ftw. :bdpf:

 

[HashiraMadara]

Mexican or Asian girls ftw. :bdpf:

Looking for a trophy wife there jimbo =D

 

[Yatori]

Mexican or Asian girls ftw. :bdpf:

i knew it you gonna post this :snick:

 

[Hachiman]

What the f*ck XD You just described a douchebag

Still Better than your Itachi fapping girl XD

 

[Deadlift]

I thought brain mattered too XD until I meet a clumsy dumb yet elegant cute girl 3 years ago. We used to laugh at her late responses and she would even admit to be a slow thinker. I went from judging her into head over heels on her clumsiness. That was a dumb ****** by judgement yet I was lost in love.
Sometimes a girl's weakness you can find them attractive

Boh I don't know, I'm not prone to give the sentence of stupid or intelligent so it all depends.
More than that, the problem is that it seems that the prettier the girls are, the grosser they behave. It drives me crazy :/

 

[HashiraMadara]

Still Better than your Itachi fapping girl XD

Hey, hol up!!!! Itachi solos your favourite :|

 

[HashiraMadara]

Boh I don't know, I'm not prone to give the sentence of stupid or intelligent so it all depends.
More than that, the problem is that it seems that the prettier the girls are, the grosser they behave. It drives me crazy :/

That's the psychology of growing up being called pretty. A gentlemen from humble begins had too many struggles to flaunt his success. When one grows up pretty and having fans all over. She doesn't learn to reach out to the ungifted/misfortunate/struggling. She never worked for her beauty, she shows it and people are already running around trying to satisfy her. So they usually don't study much(pretty brings busy night schedule etc) and use their strong point for success: Trophy Wife

 

[baul 24]

No matter how much explaination people give in this NB they all secretly want wife / partner like sakura and hinata so they love you no matter how much you abuse them and love you unconditionally even though you are dumb / idiot later being a beauty pageant herself

 

[HashiraMadara]

It all matters.

Spoiler

still forever alone

XD edgrwtvw