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Kishi Uzumaki

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Been yourself is not something that always work specially, when you've some unattractive behaviors and qualities but like you said there's no meaning in pretending to be something else that one is not but a person can cultivate them attractive qualities and behaviors in them and become someone who truly have them qualities in them .
 

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Why do I feel like you posted this after a break-up..? Lol

But seriously, everything you said is true and is relative common sense. Being yourself is genuine, and in turn you will attract genuine people. People who lie to attract people are typically the people who crave the attention a relationship brings rather than the actual attraction that is at the core of a true relationship.
 

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i agree with you to a certain extend, being honest is key to the success of a long lasting relatioship but you're not gonna drop all facts and info about yourself in the first dates, i think one should let the other know little by little what he's like.
Also i dont believe totally in the part of being yourself, a relatioship is supposed to make you a better person, so instead of just being yourself one should try to be the best version of yourself you can be
 

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Don't listen it's human nature to want and like those with good looks money power

People who don't have that claim it doesn't matter yet they are depressed and divorce
 

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Relationships... i guess a few of you have them... and a few of you are about to get one?
some of you don't want it and some of you feel that you can't have it.
but don't give up on that, ever.

i just wanted to tell you guys a few thoughts... for your own good?
when you're starting to talk to a girl/boy that you like...
please be yourself... just act 100% natural...
you don't have to brag, you don't have to act "cool"...
just do whatever you'd normally do? or else it'll backfire...

if your crush says she hates coffee... don't tell her you hate it too if you don't...
if your crush doesn't like playing video games... but you do? then tell her you like it...
if your crush ask you questions like; do you play a lot of video games? do you watch anime? porn?
don't tell her what you think she wants to hear... just tell her straight from your heart Yes or No.
NEVER HIDE ANYTHING. or it'll backfire, just like i said earlier.

i've noticed from my past relationships that all my boyfriends have told me they don't play games, they go to the gym all the time, they like to watch romantic movies, they love my kind of food...

but after a year i'm starting to noticing when they're slowly pulled back to who they were before they met me?
they start playing games, don't have time for me, they never actually went to the gym, they hate all the movies that i'd like to watch and they're never up for eating what i want to eat...

and at that moment... i get trust issues... what else they been lying about? is anything true at all?
or they just lied all the time so that i'd like them more? that's just awful.

anyway, i can't keep this much lengthier than it is... i just wanted to give you a hint...
always be yourself... or it'll backfire... and 99% chance you'd end up breaking up or being unhappy.

if someone doesn't like you for who you are, then it's their loss...
and you're not a great match, easy as that...
i'm warning you...

always try to find someone who likes you for who you are, promise yourself that.


edit: most of all people don't suddenly "change" they revert to who they were... :3
and that makes people break up or stop loving each other...

// Your emotional neighborhood Everztar
Well I was thinking that most of the people knew it o_O.
Anyway I gave up long time ago.... Everyone saying that it will come when I'm not looking for it etc but I don't believe it no more. My hopes are long time gone.
 

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Well I was thinking that most of the people knew it o_O.
Anyway I gave up long time ago.... Everyone saying that it will come when I'm not looking for it etc but I don't believe it no more. My hopes are long time gone.
If you followed the Naruto series like I have than you would know that giving up is not the answer to achieving your goals. Learn from Naruto and keep moving forward. Reach your dreams no matter how long it takes.
 

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It's sad when you enter a relationship, only to find that two years later, you're both completely different people...and not compatible in the slightest. Sadly I made that realisation myself just recently =/

Kinda sucks, because I thought he'd be the guy I'd have my happily ever after with xD butttt life goes on.
 
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I may have in the past. I still never knew you had normal history of making those other threads. Lol
Hahah, alright! well i've made quite a lot of threads, but not many are in my "latest threads" because many was deleted and many is too old :/
the threads currently in my "latest threads" are those i made when i was about to quit the base (mostly trolling/goofing around) :/
 
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