[Discussion] Cheating and if it's valid.

kimb

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God, this thread is bringing back so many bad memories.

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Haven't watched it but I can tell you now, cheating will never be validated.

If you're unhappy to the point where you seek out somebody else just leave, and you obviously don't love your current partner because you voluntarily did something that could really hurt them & diminish whatever relationship you have.

Good one mate +rep
 

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I have never cheated.
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Sure I can enlighten you sir :)
Sometimes qhen you are in a relationship you can get bored (both partners) .
Some open minded couples will even add "guests" to their *** life to get out of the same old routine , its exciting to them.
Now take the same situation but with only one open minded person in the couple .... That said person could want to get some extra excitation , explore whats unexplored and get out of boredom ...
Not because he or she doesnt like is partner , but for excitation and get out of routine !
And again , im not saying its ok , but its all a question of point of view .... For the most part of the planet monogamy is the norm.
While for other countries polygamy is the norm ... Dont tell me im wrong , its the human nature and all a question of whats accepted in a certain area or not ...

Open your minds :p

Ps. I got cheated on in the past and I know it hurts ... Even more knowing it wasnt out of boredom and routine .... The relationship wasnt even old !
I just quit that ****** :)
I think someone watches a little too much porn. I'll just say that is a weirdass fetish.
 

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And again , im not saying its ok , but its all a question of point of view

Sure, it's always a question of point of view.
I mean, some people thought it was right to gas millions of jews to death. Or to wage war against each other. Or to fly fully occupied airplanes into skyscrapers. Or to rape and murder other people just because they can. Or to rob a bank. The list is long.
 

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What's wrong with you people... it's called sharing!
 

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I like your reasoning but I will give you a situation and tell me what you think of it ....

Suppose you are in a relationship with a guy for 7 years , got 2 kids and have a nice house .
All your life , you wanted to try something sexually ( 3some , **** , bondage or whatever ) but your love , even if you spoke with him of your desire stay closed to everything .
You love him and love your life in general.
You then have an opportunity to try those things you wanted before , without the risk of getting caught ... What would you do ?

problematic situation. I think it depends if the said fetish is requirement for the person to be satisfied sexually or is just a curiosity.

Moreover, if is so important, why the person is in a relationship with someone who does not share the same sexual tastes? there are things that we have to give up on a relationship. Not everything is in our way all the time, so we need to settle priorities.

If the partner doesn't agree with the other having *** with others or attending specific clubs to satisfy the desires, I see nothing wrong with divorce.

The biggest problem would be the division of assets, since children can survive with separated parents, and lot of couples are divorced nowadays. So, again, the issue is what is more important to the individual: material stability , or sexual/ emotional satisfaction.

I particularly think that some people aren't supposed to be married or because they have urges and are not happy when they settle down. If they are honest with themselves, I don't see problem staying single. Getting married is no requirement to have children, provided that marriage is only a contract.

But imo, in our said scenario, if i were happy in every aspect on my marital life, and my only issue was a sexual curiosity, i would give up and stay on the relationship. I don't think is worth betray my partner due to that. But honestly, I don't have a strange fesith, so I can't imagine how would be to deal with having a great curiosity to the point of not being satisfied more with normal ***. In this case, if *** was important to me and the partner don't agree and don't want to share me with anyone, I would ask for divorce. I say this because I would consider cheating only if it was something really important to me.



youre trying way too hard, can you not read? -___-
omg you are so smart, how is that possible? ok i edited there and put a almost before everything.
 
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