[Discussion] Cheating and if it's valid.

[~Ethereal~]

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[Sasuke tyeezy]

Haven't watched it but I can tell you now, cheating will never be validated.

If you're unhappy to the point where you seek out somebody else just leave, and you obviously don't love your current partner because you voluntarily did something that could really hurt them & diminish whatever relationship you have.

 

[DominiqueX]

Haven't watched it but I can tell you now, cheating will never be validated.

If you're unhappy to the point where you seek out somebody else just leave, and you obviously don't love your current partner because you voluntarily did something that could really hurt them & diminish whatever relationship you have.

+1
I agree.

 

[~Ethereal~]

Haven't watched it but I can tell you now, cheating will never be validated.

If you're unhappy to the point where you seek out somebody else just leave, and you obviously don't love your current partner because you voluntarily did something that could really hurt them & diminish whatever relationship you have.

Exactly. XD

 

[Punk Hazard]

Don't care what the video says, if you cheat, you're trash.

 

[Umari Senju]

Haven't watched it but I can tell you now, cheating will never be validated.

If you're unhappy to the point where you seek out somebody else just leave, and you obviously don't love your current partner because you voluntarily did something that could really hurt them & diminish whatever relationship you have.

Yup this pretty much covered it. It's a very hurtful thing to do and not fair to the one being cheated on or yourself for staying in relationship you obviously don't desire to be in.

 

[Ricardo]

This reminded me of School Days (The anime)

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[Gitch]

Cheating doesnt always mean you are not well in your relationship ...
Sure close minded people cant understand all the factors that comes into play ...

Not saying its a good thing and that it cant hurt the partner , but you always got to think a bit further than the tip of your nose ...(frenchy expression)

 

[Nardo]

ASAPScience :x3:

 

[-Punk-]

I agree with what ricker said.

Be honest with the person you are with, tell him/her you don't wanna be together anymore before doing that shit. Hell don't even date if you are gonna cheat with the first person that talks to you pretty.

 

[iNotorious]

This reminded me of School Days (The anime)

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Cancerous anime

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[DominiqueX]

Cheating doesnt always mean you are not well in your relationship ...
Sure close minded people cant understand all the factors that comes into play ...

Not saying its a good thing and that it cant hurt the partner , but you always got to think a bit further than the tip of your nose ...(frenchy expression)

@bold
What? Would you like to enlighten us close-minded people, dear almighty dude?

Fun to the side, it is pretty simple.
If you can't be honest in a relationship, you are trash. Love is based on honesty. If you lack honesty, then don't be in a relationship, simple. There is never a legit reason to cheat, everyone is responsible for their respective actions and has to be able to think about the consequences before someone decides to be unfaithful to the current partner.

 

[Sex]

Never valid.

 

[Gitch]

@bold
What? Would you like to enlighten us close-minded people, dear almighty dude?

Fun to the side, it is pretty simple.
If you can't be honest in a relationship, you are trash. Love is based on honesty. If you lack honesty, then don't be in a relationship, simple. There is never a legit reason to cheat, everyone is responsible for their respective actions and has to be able to think about the consequences before someone decides to be unfaithful to the current partner.

Sure I can enlighten you sir
Sometimes qhen you are in a relationship you can get bored (both partners) .
Some open minded couples will even add "guests" to their *** life to get out of the same old routine , its exciting to them.
Now take the same situation but with only one open minded person in the couple .... That said person could want to get some extra excitation , explore whats unexplored and get out of boredom ...
Not because he or she doesnt like is partner , but for excitation and get out of routine !
And again , im not saying its ok , but its all a question of point of view .... For the most part of the planet monogamy is the norm.
While for other countries polygamy is the norm ... Dont tell me im wrong , its the human nature and all a question of whats accepted in a certain area or not ...

Open your minds

Ps. I got cheated on in the past and I know it hurts ... Even more knowing it wasnt out of boredom and routine .... The relationship wasnt even old !
I just quit that ******

 

[roark]

I think when you cheat you lose respect to your partner, so why keep a relationship like that? You are humiliating your partner.
I couldn't be with someone that I have no respect, and that and that is not loyal to me. The problem, in most cases, is not the *** itself, but the trust.

If the two can't control themselves, or if the relationship get boring, they can have a open relationship, i see no problem with it.

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

of course theres science behind it. theres science and reason behind almost anything if you try hard enough. the video was forcing for subject material lol

doesnt make it valid though, thats all dependent on those involved

 

[roark]

of course theres science behind it. theres science and reason behind almost anything if you try hard enough. the video was forcing for subject material lol

doesnt make it valid though, thats all dependent on those involved

science is an analytical method and measurement of certain object, science tries to study everything, but does not mean it understand all the studying. Science is a process, it does not mean that the process is finished.


a person who says that science explains almost everything is the same as a religious fanatic who says that religion is the answer to everything, or an atheist or nihilistic fanatic who denies everything.

 

[Gitch]

I think when you cheat you lose respect to your partner, so why keep a relationship like that? You are humiliating your partner.
I couldn't be with someone that I have no respect, and that and that is not loyal to me. The problem, in most cases, is not the *** itself, but the trust.

If the two can't control themselves, or if the relationship get boring, they can have a open relationship, i see no problem with it.

I like your reasoning but I will give you a situation and tell me what you think of it ....

Suppose you are in a relationship with a guy for 7 years , got 2 kids and have a nice house .
All your life , you wanted to try something sexually ( 3some , **** , bondage or whatever ) but your love , even if you spoke with him of your desire stay closed to everything .
You love him and love your life in general.
You then have an opportunity to try those things you wanted before , without the risk of getting caught ... What would you do ?

 

[Gitch]

I think when you cheat you lose respect to your partner, so why keep a relationship like that? You are humiliating your partner.
I couldn't be with someone that I have no respect, and that and that is not loyal to me. The problem, in most cases, is not the *** itself, but the trust.

If the two can't control themselves, or if the relationship get boring, they can have a open relationship, i see no problem with it.

I like your reasoning but I will give you a situation and tell me what you think of it ....

Suppose you are in a relationship with a guy for 7 years , got 2 kids and have a nice house .
All your life , you wanted to try something sexually ( 3some , **** , bondage or whatever ) but your love , even if you spoke with him of your desire stay closed to everything .
You love him and love your life in general.
You then have an opportunity to try those things you wanted before , without the risk of getting caught ... What would you do ?

And again id like to add that I dont try to make it seem valid or saying its a good thing , just having a nice discussion and trying to see others point of views.

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

science is an analytical method and measurement of certain object, science tries to study everything, but does not mean it understand all the studying. Science is a process, it does not mean that the process is finished.


a person who says that science explains everything is the same as a religious fanatic who says that religion is the answer to everything, or an atheist or nihilistic fanatic who denies everything.

youre trying way too hard, can you not read? -___-

of course theres science behind it. theres science and reason behind almost anything if you try hard enough. the video was forcing for subject material lol

doesnt make it valid though, thats all dependent on those involved