Can someone help? What should I do?

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Hi guys. So, currently, I'm in a complicated situation. I'm in the last year of high schoool. I'm good with everyone in my classroom, they're all fine. There are those who I consider closer to me, who I consider friends.
Then, there is this guy. He was one of those who I considered friends. He was not a very good person, he is selfish, he always thinks that he and his opinions are correct(like a fanboy), but I took him as a friend.

I started to notice that this guys barely paid atttention to what I said, he barely wanted to talk to me, taht was very annoying. I started to get myself away from him, but I didnt stop talking to him.

Then, something happened. He and 3 of those I consider friends did something, something that was supposed to help me(only 2 of then wanted to help) or was supposed to be a joke. But what they did was actually very mean. After I found out, I got really angry at them, so I talked to them, in an angry way. The 3 of them acknowledged their mistake and apologized. This guys, on the other hand, made a drama when I talked to him, and he said "no, you're angry at me so I get angry at you as well and we're done here".
With this sentence, I concluded that he doesn't care with me, not even to pretend he is my friend. The ****** guy betrayed me, a complete ****** he is.

The problem is,he talks to all the people I consider as friends, he is always arround them, and I don't want to see that guy's face, but I have to talk with my friends. In this situation, what do you guys think I should do?
Thanks for your attention and for the help.
 
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avoid dat guy,,,, whatever he does,, just avoid him like a boss
I'm already doing this. I avoid him all the time. The problem is, I don't want to lose the company of those who I consider friends, but this guy talks to all of them. I avoid him when they're arround, but by doing this, I avoid my friends as well, and I don't want this.
 

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Depends, what did they do. Because you are basically saying "they did something, and I don't like something...so is that something bad....is he a **** for doing something". I can't say what to do unless you say what something is. And if you aren't comfortable sayin what they did, then just ejaculate in his coffee. Then when you see him around you won't get mad, you'll think...."hehh he drank my cum".
What could go wrong with following this advice? I think nothing
 

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Depends, what did they do. Because you are basically saying "they did something, and I don't like something...so is that something bad....is he a **** for doing something". I can't say what to do unless you say what something is. And if you aren't comfortable sayin what they did, then just ejaculate in his coffee. Then when you see him around you won't get mad, you'll think...."hehh he drank my cum".
What could go wrong with following this advice? I think nothing
I won't say what they did, but even they acknowledged that it was very bad, it was bullshit. The problem is not what they did, but how they reacted. The other 3 apologized, but the guys just said that as I was angry at him, he would be angry to, and that was done for it. He acted as he was right, he didn't care about me, he didn't even pretend he cared. That was thr momment I noticed he was not my friend.
 

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So what if you have mutual friends? Doesn't mean you have to talk to him. Dont make a big deal of things regarding what hapoened with him. Put that part in the past. Move on and maintain your friendships with the friends you have, whether or not they are mutual with this person.

You are all individuals at the end of the day. Similar thing happened to m many years ago, but i aimply just stopped talking to the person but kept my other friends. Whats meant to be will be.
 
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So what if you have mutual friends? Doesn't mean you have to talk to him. Dont make a big deal of things regarding what hapoened with him. Put that part in the past. Move on and maintain your friendships with the friends you have, whether or not they are mutual with this person.

You are all individuals at the end of the day. Similar thing happened to m many years ago, but i aimply just stopped talking to the person but kept my other friends. Whats meant to be will be.
But how do I talk to them when the traitor as*hole is arround? Should I just pretend he is not there?
 

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Talk to your friends about him, if they are truly your friends they will understand that you don't want to associate with him but still associate with them as you once did before.
 
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I'm already doing this. I avoid him all the time. The problem is, I don't want to lose the company of those who I consider friends, but this guy talks to all of them. I avoid him when they're arround, but by doing this, I avoid my friends as well, and I don't want this.
some hings depend on your friends,, i had same kind of problem back when i was in school.. lamo.. one guy wwas my friend and he betrayed me,,, he even told my frinds that i am bad guy and i betrayed him,, but i never gives shitt about what he said ,, i wasn affeted whatever he did at that time,,, but yeah my frinds who are closed to me they fully supported me,, dont avoid yyour other freinds bro
 

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some hings depend on your friends,, i had same kind of problem back when i was in school.. lamo.. one guy wwas my friend and he betrayed me,,, he even told my frinds that i am bad guy and i betrayed him,, but i never gives shitt about what he said ,, i wasn affeted whatever he did at that time,,, but yeah my frinds who are closed to me they fully supported me,, dont avoid yyour other freinds bro
Of course, I wont avoid then, but what should I do when the traitor is talking to them?
 

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Of course, I wont avoid then, but what should I do when the traitor is talking to them?
nthing go talk your freinds be cool,,, and dont give shitt about dat moron.... pretend like you just dont care about him,, ignore him.. dont talk to him like you said he dosent exist
 

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But how do I talk to them when the traitor as*hole is arround? Should I just pretend he is not there?
If there are a group of you you are not obliged to talk to this person. Neither do you need to show any attitude. Simply enjoy your friendship with the others. Acknowledging someones presence does not mean you have to be frie ds with them, it keeps you in a mutual place within yourself where you can just move on from things. Experience has taught you about this person so you already know he's not someone to keep as a personal friend. I wouldnt even bother pretending either. Ignore him without being rude or having attitude about it (as attitude will only show that you're bothered).
 

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Just ignore him bro. ignore him , anytime he tries to get on your nerves or anybody tries too, just ignore them and be the better man in that way, you defeat those guys and not Be the loser, when you take on stress you're only being their puppets, talk to your friends when you can even if he is around ignore him and speak to your pals.

and if the friends prefer him over you.. well ignore them too, you can always get better friends and trust me being by yourself is more worth than being in a crowd
 
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I think you're completely overreacting on this, just ignore him, and last time i checked that wasn't and isn't a very hard thing.
 
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