Can best friends of opposite gender fall in love with each other....?

Blitz3d

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I have always been pondering over this thought because my girl best friends ex is finishing school in a couple of weeks and somehow my "dormant" feelings have started to awaken again after 7 months.. But I always tell my self that i cant because I would be risking my friendship with her for some stupid feelings that im not sure are even true. Idk what the heck ive been doing lately.. Looking at all the stuff about "star sign compatibility" just cause ive heard some stuff about the Pisces-Pisces combination....

Im really scared of what would happen if i confess to her a second time and i don't want to lose her. But the thing is if i hide it, wouldn't that just destroy the whole principle of "telling each other everything' and "not keeping secrets from each other"?

I've been thinking with this formula mainly in my head:

Friendship > Romantic Love

What can I do? I tell myself i dont like her, yet i look at all the photos we have together on my ipad and just stare at them for periods of time.. and she's always on my mind cause shes one of the people who changed my personality to an extent..

Your thoughts? Much thanks :)
 

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Trying to worm my way out of the friendzone... I already gave up trying to on the last girl i liked.. LOL

so basically im always hardening myself against romantic love..
 

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But I really love my best friend in a platonic way and i don't want that to change unless she likes me first...
 

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I have always been pondering over this thought because my girl best friends ex is finishing school in a couple of weeks and somehow my "dormant" feelings have started to awaken again after 7 months.. But I always tell my self that i cant because I would be risking my friendship with her for some stupid feelings that im not sure are even true. Idk what the heck ive been doing lately.. Looking at all the stuff about "star sign compatibility" just cause ive heard some stuff about the Pisces-Pisces combination....

Im really scared of what would happen if i confess to her a second time and i don't want to lose her. But the thing is if i hide it, wouldn't that just destroy the whole principle of "telling each other everything' and "not keeping secrets from each other"?

I've been thinking with this formula mainly in my head:

Friendship > Romantic Love

What can I do? I tell myself i dont like her, yet i look at all the photos we have together on my ipad and just stare at them for periods of time.. and she's always on my mind cause shes one of the people who changed my personality to an extent..

Your thoughts? Much thanks :)

on the bold fonts. I can't believe there is still a human existing on believing zodiac signs compatibility shits. hahaha

Just give it a try if you can't control yourself for falling inlove with her. step by step, give her a sign that you love her. and the best thing I could advice is, you should be prepared for whatever happens. your situation is a risk, you will also lost not just your infantuation platonic love but also a bestfriend.

hope this advice is good since I am at work rushing to give yA a cookies of thoughts
 
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