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Thanks guys, all of this helped.

She swears nothing happened, I took her virginity and she shows displeasure in other guys.

Like we were on a break and she said every guy she "made out" with weren't good kissers.

I decided to trust her because she's really the only bright thing in my life besides my good friends. I wouldn't want to mess anything up over my trust issues and my lack of knowing.

She cried last night cause I wouldn't believe her.

BUUUUUT, ALL of you, not just SOME, but all of you guys helped in one way or another.
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she should have told the truth right off but she didn't, just ask yourself why did she do such a thing, she should not have anything to worry about that, did she ?? but she didn't told you, this tells that she deliberately didn't wanted you to know that incident, and its pure chance that you came to know about that

man!!!!!! you are in real shit now
it's time to man up and f**k up before you get F**KED up !!!!

i hope you find someone better suited for you

peace..........

P.S. but remember if you really love her a lot this whole thing really doesn't matter at all even if she had cheated and leaved you, it don't matter at all cuz you know you love her with all your heart and that's what is worth of all the pain
 
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Listen, if she cried when she was telling you the truth about her being over at his house "with a friend" (yeah right), then that means she has indeed ****ed him since she misses him and she wanted to relive her moments with him. she likes you but she probably sees a chance at getting back together with him. which is why all thats on her mind is him. Like when she called you his name. If she has to delete a message so u don't see it then obviously its something she doesnt want you to know which could hurt her relationship with you. The reason she is acting like this is because she is unsure that things will work out with him again. she wants it to but if it doesnt, she is just going to fall back to you. so right now she is trying to get with him, u are the second option at the moment, sorry to say. She is just going to keep lying and stalling until she either dumps u to go back with him, or they do more shit and it doesnt work out, but they STILL did shit behind ur back. She's trying her options. Personally id smack the fk out of a bitch for trying to play me, then kick her out the damn house.
 

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If she eventually cried then she has emotions racking up high and she has either done/or has something on her mind. You'd have to look at what she's told you and put it all together.

1: She runs into an ex of hers and he cries and tells her he wants her back

2: She goes to his house also "With a friend" (It is possible she may have lied about that as well but we cannot be for certain) and says she didn't do anything

3: She doesn't tell you about this and in the middle of the night she calls you the Exe's name.

4: You guys are talking about it (Not sure exactly what went down) But she starts crying, if nothing really happened she wouldn't have cried.

Now if we put everything together, she has either attempted to do something with him or has already done something with him. But I'm not a wizard so I couldn't possibly know the truth, but If you want to know the truth you and her have to talk about it and be honest with each other.
 

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Ok, just a little pre story.​

My gf went to this college town and she saw one of her exes. Later on she would tell me that she did love him, but anyway, he cried and explained that he wanted her back. She said she didn't want any part in it.

So we're sleeping together, and in the middle of the night I get up and she calls me his fcking name. She says "Dennis?" In getting up I woke her up.

Anyway, I asked her why she would call me that, and she says "i really don't know", and I asked her what all happened with her and her ex and she said he cried and blah blah blah. But later that day I told her to be honest about everything and she said she stayed at his house with her friend.

What do you think it means?

Think it sparked some emotional shit in her and she misses him?
she is emotionally confused U_U U should talk to her & show her why u are her man/guy & why the ex is an Ex
 

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this is all bad... how do you know he was crying, she probably just said that as an excuse so you stay with her untill she is ready to move on... sorry to say this but they once dated don't be a fool and think nothing happened... now the question is do you want to stay in this relationship with a girl you can't trust, and are you going to be able to get over it?
 

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she should have told the truth right off but she didn't, just ask yourself why did she do such a thing, she should not have anything to worry about that, did she ?? but she didn't told you, this tells that she deliberately didn't wanted you to know that incident, and its pure chance that you came to know about that

man!!!!!! you are in real shit now
it's time to man up and f**k up before you get F**KED up !!!!

i hope you find someone better suited for you

peace..........

P.S. but remember if you really love her a lot this whole thing really doesn't matter at all even if she had cheated and leaved you, it don't matter at all cuz you know you love her with all your heart and that's what is worth of all the pain
yeah just go ahead and be that creepy guy thats in love with someone else's chick. totally worth it just knowing that you love her!
 

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Don't worry about it, because it never helps. If she did nothing, you have nothing to worry about. If she cheated of some sort, you have nothing to worry about, because then she doesn't deserve you. But if possible, you should get her to talk about it, that would be the best solution
 

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well she didn't tell you all of the truth right away which is a bad sign already. My advice would be to just sit her down and ask her what she wants. Either she wants him or she wants you. she has to decide because otherwise shes just wasting your time and its not fair you or him truthfully. Girls always want to play games like this, you have to tell her like it is and stop her from doing so
 
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