Bro advice.

[Hipster Madara]

I would dump her.

 

[ChocolateBear]

Brah they probably forked if she stayed the night on top of that lying about texts asking people if they miss her? Don't play the fool is all I can say

 

[danielalfaro]

i'd say get out of the relationship she was not honest at the beggining, and think about it, would you sleep in your ex girlfriend house if you really love your curent one ? i personally would not do that to my gf

 

[Kiiszame]

Ex's always screw things up..
Good luck bro. I say leave her.

 

['Toxic]

love sucks, that's all.

 

[xXBlazinNinXx]

Look, you can do something back go to one of your exs. But that's just in the "******* handbook"

It's up to you. That would of spark some old emotions they had but you gotta wonder"What made them breakup?" If it was a mistake the guy did then she's an idiot and going back with him even though he made the **** up.

Or if it was her fault then shit son....you think she is doing something behind your back?

I don't know your situation or the background of your relationship only you do. So my question is......How much you care about her?

If you do fight for her.
If you don't let her a$$ go and let her be a hoe

 

[know it all]

I sympathize with you man. It's happened to me once or twice. She most likely did something of a sexual nature with her ex. It doesn't matter if her friend was there with her. If she tried hiding it, that only confirms that she's cheating on you. Tell her to be honest, say you won't be mad, no matter what she did, and ask her what happened. If she does admit to it (she probably won't) you can go full rage mode on that hoe.

 

[Noob Davies]

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[SpaceTime]

Ok, just a little pre story.​

My gf went to this college town and she saw one of her exes. Later on she would tell me that she did love him, but anyway, he cried and explained that he wanted her back. She said she didn't want any part in it.

So we're sleeping together, and in the middle of the night I get up and she calls me his fcking name. She says "Dennis?" In getting up I woke her up.

Anyway, I asked her why she would call me that, and she says "i really don't know", and I asked her what all happened with her and her ex and she said he cried and blah blah blah. But later that day I told her to be honest about everything and she said she stayed at his house with her friend.

What do you think it means?

Think it sparked some emotional shit in her and she misses him?

I was put in a similar position with my ex, long story short I ended dumping her. THE SAME EXACT THING HAPPENED, I woke up to get a drink of water because I was thirsty at night and she woke up all dazed from sleep and called me Joey, my name is Alex, there were also problems when she left for her college (she transferred out of the state) she also met her BF there who she in the same way, left to be at his house with her friend (who I've known for very long and trust very much). All these things didn't really get to me too much. I felt as though if she had the nerve to tell me about what had happened and when confronted she told me everything, that she wasn't hiding anything. Their was my mistake, turns out, after the whole drama when she came back for thanksgiving she told me she slept with the guy and yaadadadadadadada. Point is:

If you feel as though she is different and your situation is better go for it. Once I heard her tell me that, I broke with her immediately, she cried and apologized, I accepted it, and walked away, no matter how much she was telling me to stay and telling me to work it out because in the long run, my trust was violated and I ended up losing more than she did.

Regardless of my PoV, I understand yours is a different one, with different people and I acknowledge the fact that she hasn't done the latter. But I made the mistake of trusting and it ended up biting me in the ass.

You have to think really hard and figure out what it is that you want and if you're willing to forgive, no matter the advice given. Just make a wise decision, and save yourself the struggle!!

 

[The Alchemist]

Idk. Just use some Common Sense.

^This.
But personally I wouldn't stand for it. You're the man and you're supposed to be the one who wears the pants. Be understanding but be smart and don't let her game you. Make it her decision on what to do and tough it out.

 

[Jin Hayami]

Same exact thing happened with me and my ex wife after we split. I hit it.
She says she loved him and spent the night at his house. Ditch the bitch. She cheated.
Think about it how awkward would it be to stay at someone's house after they cried and begged for you back and not sleep with them. Don't fall for it if someone confesses their love to you and you shoot them down are you gonna stick around? HELL NO.

 

[repulse]

Figure out why she slept over his friend. Forget about the friend, could be used as a cover-up. Ask her WHY she slept at his house.

 

[sasuke007]

same happend to me, dont waste yor life on a mabey
if you stay it's gonna hurt a lot more later
it's better to leave her with your dignity then for
her leave you broken, as was my case


follow your instints luke may commen sense be with you

 

[DeathandHealing]

READ THIS.

Forget her man. Do not bother. The Larger majority of young girls do not know and understand what love is.
If she cared about you she would not have cheated. There is NO excuse to ever justify that action. NONE.
She wasn't thinking loving you the entire time she cheated on you. Only afterwards when she "Messed up" she feels
bad only because she knows her benefits with you are in danger, That's it.

Someone asking for forgiveness in itself is a selfish act. Be the bigger person and move on, Don't friend her or anything.
Forget her. She does not need to have any of the pleasures of having you in her life.

We have all been there. I had an ex i loved with all my heart for years, I worked hard and gave up so much to be with her. She even got a tattoo on her ring finger when we were engaged. She "messed up" and lied for months. But she was the bigger person to walk away because she knew she didn't deserve me. You need to be the one to walk away. Because if she knows you will take her back she will just do it again and again. You won't forget about it and it will **** you up mentally.

I can honestly make a loooong list but it will always come down to one thing: Moving on. believe me within a few weeks, Days she will be with someone else spewing the same lines she used on you, making the same promises and so forth. it's sad but that's honestly were the "dating" world is today. And the reason why "jerks" are born.

 

[The Western Wheel]

But in all seriousness. You should sympathizes with her. In all honesty humble yourself and try to be the best person for her. That way she won't look into the past and cry.

THIS.

Indeed, doesn't mean shit, just your ego gettting hurt. Just talk indeed about it.

 

[Resurrected Orochimaru]

Admittedly, it doesn't look good. You should never jump to conclusions though; talk to her about it, face to face. And make sure you're honest with each other. And if something actually did happen, well you know what to do. Best of luck man.

 

[PureSkillz]

She said she stayed at her ex's house with a friend?

That's real shady..

If it was overnight, there's a very good chance she cheated, sorry bro..

 

[Koha]

Definite signs of cheating.... Dude, you HAVE to leave before this escalates. There's no way in hell after being in a two year relationship with you she would still be into her ex, well feelings do come back, but not to the point where she'd mistake your name for his. She's definitely been in regular contact with this kid, and the whole spending the night as his house with a friend makes absolutely no sense. She more than likely slept with him.... She's deleting texts and she's putting an accusatory tone in her voice every time you try and get straight answers from her? "OH!? YOU DON'T TRUST ME?!" ... Do the math. =\ Don't break your heart over a bxtch. (Not a woman of course, but a bxtch.)

 

[TheBrightSide]

Give her an ultimatum. If she values your relationship more than this other guy she will choose you. Dont leave any room for discussion on this. Thats the smartest decision you can make. Let it be known youre not going to wait around and possibly let other interactions happen with this guy for her to make a decision.

 

[CommonSense]

Thanks guys, all of this helped.

She swears nothing happened, I took her virginity and she shows displeasure in other guys.

Like we were on a break and she said every guy she "made out" with weren't good kissers.

I decided to trust her because she's really the only bright thing in my life besides my good friends. I wouldn't want to mess anything up over my trust issues and my lack of knowing.

She cried last night cause I wouldn't believe her.

BUUUUUT, ALL of you, not just SOME, but all of you guys helped in one way or another.