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pinkspider2000
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Io suggest you give her time to figure this out because until she is sure about her feelings it is going to be a problem for you and if this keeps on going you
cant waste your life on a girl who you can never be sure truly loves you. Give it some time and if it doesn't work out it was never meant to be and I am sure
you are a great guy you can find someone who will love you with all her heart so be patient and good luck
cant waste your life on a girl who you can never be sure truly loves you. Give it some time and if it doesn't work out it was never meant to be and I am sure
you are a great guy you can find someone who will love you with all her heart so be patient and good luck
KuraiandAlbel
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Just to let you know, I am a girl. And to me, one person is good enough. I would hate myself if I had more than one boyfriend. I am all about being faithful to the one I love (or at least interested in romantically). If I even thought about cheating on my boyfriend, I would at least have the courtesy to break it off with him first. There would be no point in being with that person if I was interested in others. That is just my opinion though and I know some people think differently.
7th Biggest OP Fan
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Well since you are already talking to her, I'll just say this. Talk to her friend she went over there with. It's good getting more opinions of the situations. If she can't give u a name right away, it might be a sign of cheating. If she does, say you want to call that friend and talk with them and ask them what happened. You have a right to know. If she doesn't, huge red flag. When you talk to the friend say something along the line of this.
"Hi its *insert your name here*. I got a question for you. When you went to go see *insert guys name here* with *insert your gf's name here* what happened. How many times did you go over there? and whatever else you want to know. If the friend cant answer this stuff really. You can figure out what's going on from there and know what to do.
Good luck man.
"Hi its *insert your name here*. I got a question for you. When you went to go see *insert guys name here* with *insert your gf's name here* what happened. How many times did you go over there? and whatever else you want to know. If the friend cant answer this stuff really. You can figure out what's going on from there and know what to do.
Good luck man.
The cool thing about having next to null living expenses while working tax free in a foreign country is that you come back to the States with a lot of money and have a lull in employment.
Being single, fiscally responsible, and willing to travel can pay huge dividends.
Or were you talking about the detail with which I offer my opinion and give advice?
I've been through some traumatic events and seen sides of myself that I regret having ever allowed to rise to the surface. If I can help someone gain just that slight edge in perspective that helps them to avoid spending as much time falling for the same pit-falls, then it's a job well done.
I mean... just look at some of the other 'advice' thrown around in this thread. If I didn't make an honest effort, few would (and none would have my experience and thorough nature).
I always find this approach to be kind of funny.
Is there a store where I may go and browse through girlfriends? Will there be used-girlfriend salesmen trying to push me into buying the "Family Package" complete with a 3-kid discount?
I mean... finding a girl who is not currently tied up with some douche is hard enough. Those that aren't are often going through some kind of emotional issues after the last guy they dated (guys like me like to help - but that's automatic placement into the friend-zone where you will forever be condemned to hear about the guys that mistreat them...). A select few have somehow missed having any kind of serious relationship - but the only people who seem to be able to break down those walls of ice are serial rapists.
Finding someone who is both capable, willing, and desiring of a companionship with you is no simple feat. Sure - it's nothing to get a cute girl to go eat on your dime. Not all that difficult to get a girl in bed if you so desire. One who cares for you and wants to be an active part of your life... that's more difficult to come by. Even when you do - circumstance and differences of expectations can really throw things out of whack.
Scooby Doo
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I'd rather not say anything...If a girl is not over her ex, that's screwed to begin with at all.
UnrealSoul
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Dude she fcked her ex. Don't believe that nonsense she told you.
Leave her man... a woman does not go to an ex's house for no talk. They go their for the birds and the bees
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Leave her man... a woman does not go to an ex's house for no talk. They go their for the birds and the bees
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FitzChivalry Farseer
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Theres only one way to solve this. . . . . Youre gonna have to rasengan her butt. You should know, its •CommonSense•
