Bro advice.

[Supreme x Uchiha]

Ok, just a little pre story.​

My gf went to this college town and she saw one of her exes. Later on she would tell me that she did love him, but anyway, he cried and explained that he wanted her back. She said she didn't want any part in it.

So we're sleeping together, and in the middle of the night I get up and she calls me his fcking name. She says "Dennis?" In getting up I woke her up.

Anyway, I asked her why she would call me that, and she says "i really don't know", and I asked her what all happened with her and her ex and she said he cried and blah blah blah. But later that day I told her to be honest about everything and she said she stayed at his house with her friend.

What do you think it means?

Think it sparked some emotional shit in her and she misses him?

Dude, don't listen to these 12 year olds who've never had a relationship that say you should dump her.. how do YOU feel? You should forgive her b/c she hasn't called you by his name before right?.. only because of the state she's in right now did she call you his name. It'll passs over soon, don't worry about it.

 

[CommonSense]

if you really like her, just try to get over it.. if happens again then its a bad sign.. if not just dump her..

I can't get over it, it always comes up.

And why I made this post is cause I just seen a message she sent to someone DIFFERENT from her ex. Her asking "Do you miss me?" and it made me think about it.

 

[villain55]

The longer you say the harder its going to be. My uncle had the same situation and he took his easy way out but ours was sad and sorrow

 

[Colonel Armstrong]

yes she misses him. at the very least she was in a bed with you and was thinking about him enough that she called you his name. if she was kinda half sleep and she did that then i understand but then if she was up and aware and she did that then she might have been up that night just thinking about the situation that happened between him and her. be careful man and let her know that if you two are gunna continue that she must keep it 100(be real) with you.

 

[9 tails uzumaki]

dude shes most likely cheating on u and if she isnt she most likely will, i know this cuz i went thru the same thing bro

 

[CommonSense]

Dude, don't listen to these 12 year olds who've never had a relationship that say you should dump her.. how do YOU feel? You should forgive her b/c she hasn't called you by his name before right?.. only because of the state she's in right now did she call you his name. It'll passs over soon, don't worry about it.

This happened like 2 months ago and I think about it sometimes but another ****ed up thing got me thinking about it.

 

[KuraiandAlbel]

We been together for almost 2 years. But she lied about staying at his house and tried to keep it away from me.

I don't know if I should sympathize with her cause she said he was crying and she didn't have any part in it.

Two years? That is quite awhile. Too long for one of you two to just throw it away. However, her trying to keep that from you is a major no no. First off, I would be totally pissed if I was you. She should have been honest with you. Just to know you more, but is there a reason that she might have not been honest with you right away? Like...are you a jealous guy? Sometimes that can factor into things.

My next question is... Do you love her? Sure, that might seem like a stupid question, but I do have to ask. Also, perhaps your girlfriend needs to ask herself that too. If she loves you. Things like this should not happen, not if you guys love each other.

 

[Trippy Sage of all Dank]

if you really like her, just try to get over it.. if happens again then its a bad sign.. if not just dump her..

This. And good luck, OP. Life is complicated, to say the least.

 

[YowYan]

Dump her before she does you. Less emotional damage if you do it first

 

[crcdbz]

She's probably cheating on u bro dump the h@#!

 

[Dubbuoo]

Sakura alert

EDIT:

i'd try talk things out and ask her friend what went down... if she was even there with your girl...

you could go straight up and vent things out by dumping her and she'll be more desperate and try resolve things then you'll have a better understanding of what went down, the next step i'd go and bash the **** out of that guy

 

[CommonSense]

Two years? That is quite awhile. Too long for one of you two to just throw it away. However, her trying to keep that from you is a major no no. First off, I would be totally pissed if I was you. She should have been honest with you. Just to know you more, but is there a reason that she might have not been honest with you right away? Like...are you a jealous guy? Sometimes that can factor into things.

My next question is... Do you love her? Sure, that might seem like a stupid question, but I do have to ask. Also, perhaps your girlfriend needs to ask herself that too. If she loves you. Things like this should not happen, not if you guys love each other.

Yeah I get jealous a lot, but it's justified. She can be sketchy at times.

Yeah I do love her but bull shit with her and other guys is ****ed up.

 

[Jellal Fernandes]

Dude, don't listen to these 12 year olds who've never had a relationship that say you should dump her.. how do YOU feel? You should forgive her b/c she hasn't called you by his name before right?.. only because of the state she's in right now did she call you his name. It'll passs over soon, don't worry about it.

When girls are in the state of feeling bad about their X..You already know what to do..Im no 12 year old but if that was me i would get smart and see what's she really hiding..I don't like to invade their space but checking her cellphone for any clues... wouldn't be a bad idea.
@common sense.

 

[KuraiandAlbel]

So what should I be thinking?

She also got a text from some dude that night, and I waited till the morning to tell her I saw it and she said she only got a text from her friend. And she deleted the texts from the guy so I guess I will never know.

I can't get over it, it always comes up.

And why I made this post is cause I just seen a message she sent to someone DIFFERENT from her ex. Her asking "Do you miss me?" and it made me think about it.

This happened like 2 months ago and I think about it sometimes but another ****ed up thing got me thinking about it.

^^^^ All that right there should tell you that something is wrong with the relationship. The moment your partner starts deleting mysterious texts from guys that she obviously does not want you knowing about, shows that she is trying to hide more than just texts. You should seriously ask her what is going on. Even to the point on if she has been cheating on you. Justify your reasoning. You have every reason so ask her this question. Do not let all this eat at you. Get it out in the open, if you do not, it will also eat away at your relationship.

 

[villain55]

Dude, don't listen to these 12 year olds who've never had a relationship that say you should dump her.. how do YOU feel? You should forgive her b/c she hasn't called you by his name before right?.. only because of the state she's in right now did she call you his name. It'll passs over soon, don't worry about it.

Lol I'm not 12 and I been through relationships so stfu and don't judge people over the internet. But yeah it depends how you feel no one else's

 

[CommonSense]

When girls are in the state of feeling bad about their X..You already know what to do..Im no 12 year old but if that was me i would get smart and see what's she really hiding..I don't like to invade their space but checking her cellphone for any clues... wouldn't be a bad idea.
@common sense.

She gets all hawk eyed and stuff and tries to say I don't trust her.

I just did, and saw her asking some other dude if they missed her.

 

[KuraiandAlbel]

Yeah I get jealous a lot, but it's justified. She can be sketchy at times.

Yeah I do love her but bull shit with her and other guys is ****ed up.

That is completely understandable. She seems like she is sketchy. Was she like this when you first got together or has it been happening more recently?

I agree. It is completely f**ked up. Read my other post on what I think you should do. I sure hope all this is helping.

 

[CommonSense]

^^^^ All that right there should tell you that something is wrong with the relationship. The moment your partner starts deleting mysterious texts from guys that she obviously does not want you knowing about, shows that she is trying to hide more than just texts. You should seriously ask her what is going on. Even to the point on if she has been cheating on you. Justify your reasoning. You have every reason so ask her this question. Do not let all this eat at you. Get it out in the open, if you do not, it will also eat away at your relationship.

Another thing is.

That guy she got the text from LATE at night the reason she deleted is "she didn't want me to get jealous" but my response to that is she didnt know I was gonna see it.. so why delete it? ya know

 

[Dredd]

Get even by shouting her best friend's name during intercourse.

 

[CommonSense]

That is completely understandable. She seems like she is sketchy. Was she like this when you first got together or has it been happening more recently?

I agree. It is completely f**ked up. Read my other post on what I think you should do. I sure hope all this is helping.

Not at all, just morerecently and yes it is helping.

Advice from ya'll are forming my own thoughts and it's good.