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Hi, so yeah i'm back. (7th grader)Well i guess my problem this time is that my Best friend and her "Friend" are always so lovey-dovey with each other. It's not that I don't mind it its just that when they do it I feel lonely. I feel lonely because about three years ago I was kinda falling for this guy (I'm a boy btw) and I chickened out on telling him how I felt. and I guess when I see my friend with her "boyfriend" I feel sad and alone. I really don't know what to do, so if anyone could help me please do!
 

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So your friend has a girlfriend, right? A bit confusing with the "boyfriend" part ^^;

Euhm, anyway, I'll try to give some advice. It's natural that you feel like the third wheel, whenever you're around them and they act all lovey dovey. Especially if you didn't dare to ask the boy out who you were crushing on.
You could still ask him out, if you want to.
As for your friends; well, you can't forbid them for acting all lovey dovey, but you could ask that they limit their PDA a bit when they are around you. Not completely forbid them from acting upon their feelings, but ask if they want to take into account your feelings as well.
I'm sure they'll be willing to adjust their PDA a bit if you ask it

Don't know if this was useful advice ^^;
 

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Being the third wheel sucks. For obvious reasons you listed. Just troll the ever living crap out of them. Make it as awkward and irritating as possible. Everything becomes fine at that point.
 

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Whatever happened to that guy you were crushing on? Look him up and face rejection. Maybe you'll get together..


We all hate being the third wheel, I'm sure though. Just sucks.
 

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do what you want to do. everybody else is doing what they want to do. why can't you?
 

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Befriend your friend's significant other as best you can and deal with it. Being the third wheel sucks, but it's doable. Just hold out until you find someone special for yourself.
 

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Man, you'll find someone soon. Try joining an LGBT club at your school or finding more bisexual/gay guys. Here in my school, there's many .
It sucks to be the 3rd wheel, but don't worry so much about it. It's high school, you'll meet the right guy one day.
 

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you tell him again... if he says no.. move on. you'll find someone.
 

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Man, you'll find someone soon. Try joining an LGBT club at your school or finding more bisexual/gay guys. Here in my school, there's many .
It sucks to be the 3rd wheel, but don't worry so much about it. It's high school, you'll meet the right guy one day.

I wish my school had a club like that. Where do you live at? My school would never even dream of a club like that.


3rd wheel sucks majorly. Even when you're just hanging out in general, the couple is so lovey dovey. One of my friends left my theatre class to be with his girlfriend, who he has many classes with already and sees her constantly, and me never. Uncool move, especially for a junior in high school (I'm senior) Stupid young love. xd So, yeah, I feel the third wheel pain OP.
 
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