Bisexual

[Reji]

Umm..... Hi

I'm a 7th grader, I love to hang out with my friends and have fun butt there's just one problem...... I kinda like guys and girls.. And some how my best friend figured it out and told another one of my friends when she was mad at me in 6th grade. and now almost all of my guy classmates don't even want to be near me. I'm always with the girls because when I'm by myself I feel weak and vulnerable and I hate myself for that. I have an extremely religious family and they hate everything gay. My mom always tells me that I could tell her anything but I know that's not true. I hate my self so much, one night I decided to cut myself, and now there's this 6th grader that's always messing with me now I'm always shaking and I feel like I'm about to cut myself again, there are some mornings where I don't even want to wake up. I wonder why I have to suffer everyday because of my sexual preferance. It's not my fault right?????? I just want to know. I'm scared of myself and I don't know what I'll do. I just really need someone to talk with please. I'm scared :'(

 

[wridacule]

you're just at that shitty age where petty stuff like this is important... i'm not saying your sexual orientation is petty, just that you can lose friends over it. i know you've heard it a thousand times before but heres a thousand and one. anyone who would treat you different over something like this wasn't a real friend to begin with

 

[Reji]

Thanks

 

[wridacule]

Thanks

np man. you need to talk at all vm or pm. i remember how much school sucked. being the fat kid with acne was pure hell....

 

[Reji]

I'll keep that in mind

 

[Jazzy..]

First of all, being bisexual is not bad at all. So don't hate yourself for being attracted to both genders. Don't be scared either.
If people make fun of you for it then just ignore them. They're just immature. Just be yourself and don't let anyone make you feel like you aren't normal because you are.

 

[ITACHIUCHIA101]

AP2K is bi too i think, and he fits in just fine. idc if your gay, straight, lesbian, or bi as long as you respect me i respect you

 

[wridacule]

AP2K is bi too i think, and he fits in just fine. idc if your gay, straight, lesbian, or bi as long as you respect me i respect you

I dont think he's bi.... i think he just hates ignorant rednecks xd

 

[ITACHIUCHIA101]

also just beat the shi* out of the 6th grader and if you can't hmu and i will :scorps: we NBers have to stick together you know, also there is nothing wrong with you. it would be like someone being hated for liking brown more than yellow. people need something to hate to make them feel superior.

 

[ITACHIUCHIA101]

I dont think he's bi.... i think he just hates ignorant rednecks xd

he is the one with the Deidara ava right? (god i hope i didnt just mix them up o.o)

 

[Prince of Persia TTT]

Hey bro
f**k all and live life like a baws
this age is somewhat responsible for it
need any help
pm or vm me xd

 

[Reji]

Thanks ^.^ made me feel better

 

[Hexuze]

Stop being bisexual. Problem solved... :O

No but seriously who cares what others think as long as you're happy and you're not harming your body, then I see nothing wrong with it. Lay off the cutting yourself though, suck it up. If someone doesn't accept you cause you're bisexual just ignore their ass. Good Luck

 

[~Sky~]

Well, one things for certain, and that's that you are who you are. Of course it's not your fault.

You shouldn't punish yourself for being who you are, nor should you care about what others think. As long as you have someone to be friends with, you'll be fine. Just make sure you have good friends, not bad ones.

By the way, all that stuff goes away once your in high school. At the grade you're in, maturity level=0.

Concerning the matter of your family is a completely different story. It will be fine if they truly care about you.

Family should always come first. If you don't want to tell them, don't. If you do, do it. Either way, they will always love you, even if it's hard to see, or imagine.

All that matters is if you can make yourself the best you you can be. Accept who you are, and make yourself great, because we all have greatness inside us. Keep a positive attitude, keep your head up, and keep moving forward. We're all one of a kind, forgive the people who make fun of you, for they have yet to realize who they themselves are. You have an advantage: You know who you are.

That's the most important thing in the world. Be proud of it.

 

[Hippy]

Umm..... Hi

I'm a 7th grader, I love to hang out with my friends and have fun butt there's just one problem...... I kinda like guys and girls.. And some how my best friend figured it out and told another one of my friends when she was mad at me in 6th grade. and now almost all of my guy classmates don't even want to be near me. I'm always with the girls because when I'm by myself I feel weak and vulnerable and I hate myself for that. I have an extremely religious family and they hate everything gay. My mom always tells me that I could tell her anything but I know that's not true. I hate my self so much, one night I decided to cut myself, and now there's this 6th grader that's always messing with me now I'm always shaking and I feel like I'm about to cut myself again, there are some mornings where I don't even want to wake up. I wonder why I have to suffer everyday because of my sexual preferance. It's not my fault right?????? I just want to know. I'm scared of myself and I don't know what I'll do. I just really need someone to talk with please. I'm scared :'(

Like they said 7th grade won't mean crap while your in high school, your true friends would be like no crap we knew since we were in (what ever grade) or they just won't care, just joke around show the people who reject you that you don't really care about it and move on confront them saying that they are immature and they are cut off your life and tell them to be honest they're trash to the world because they don't accept people for who they are. And don't cut yourself that means they win if they get to you, parents will act wierd with you for a little but eventually it will be old news time heals most things. Plus during high school people go to all types of different schools usually unless your in a small town obviously, so you won't be seeing all those people anyways or they wont really remember you if they're that blind to life.
I had a friend who came out the closet used to be my best friend until he became a prick (not related to his sexual orientation) but I said I knew forever and I wasn't surprised and brushed off the subject like if we were talking about the weather lol.

 

[Jack Spicer]

Don't be afraid of being bisexual. That's who you are. Always be yourself and don't be afraid. Be happy.


Don't cut yourself. That's not right. Middle school was hell for me. I got lucky finding friends my 11 and 12 grade years, which I'm currently in 12th. Hopefully you have more luck.


Just remember, everyone goes through this pain of school, drama, and for you, accepting yourself, but you're not alone as you think. Just be happy, be yourself, don't harm yourself, and good things will happen.