Their portrayals, how they play their roles, how "human" they are, how they fit and live in the crafted world and society by author.
I can make small analysis for the listes characters because there are too many factors what makes a character "well written" in their own rights; but that would be time consuming.
Judging by that, I can tell why you like Lee, Neji and etc.
Well, everyone has their own opinion on what makes a character well written or not. My point is that Overall, The characters i listed ablove are well written in all aspects.