before someone says it yes I am a 17 year old virgin

[Tomato God]

But fir those who want to help me out there is this girl on my bus that is super cute and I you her number today and I was wondering if it was to soon to text her and if I should wait and how long

And if you are a girl that would be double helpful to get input from the female perspective

 

[HiddenSound]

Naow do et naow

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

I would text her if I felt like it, that's how a man acts. Just talk to her, get to know her. Why would you want to wait and do that?

 

[Tomato God]

I would text her if I felt like it, that's how a man acts. Just talk to her, get to know her. Why would you want to wait and do that?

Several people told me it would make me look desperate.

 

[Pumpkin Ninja]

If you know what you're gonna say then I don't see why you won't text now.

 

[spade3dg]

Niqqa text her now. This might be your only chance to find love. Dont b|tch out. Do it man. I lost my virginity at 13. What is taking you so long. Be a man. Love that b|tch. Impregnate her then leave.

 

[Tomato God]

If you know what you're gonna say then I don't see why you won't text now.

I don't though.

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

Several people told me it would make me look desperate.

Or make you seem like your interested in her. She gave you her phone number to contact her.

Just be like Hi, how are you? How's your day going, ask her about herself, what she likes. Blah blah blah

 

[10th]

Don't be outcome dependant, that's what makes you ask such a question in the first place. Text her when you want to, if you're reaction seeking she won't be able to respect you as a man and she'll lose attraction, be nice but freestyle it, there is no one way to do it.

 

[TimothyTheTomato]

Show her that tomato swagg my niigga

 

[Tennis Robot]

I'll be a 19 year-old one in 36 days. :/

 

[Lightbringer]

If you wait, she will forget about you. She gave you the number either because she was interested or out of pity.

What you don't want to do is text her every hour or every day. Text her every other day and if she's interested, she'll start texting you. If not, then don't hold your breath.

 

[NineSNS]

Text her. She's expecting it.

You don't give your number to someone if you don't expect to hear from them.

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

If you wait, she will forget about you. She gave you the number either because she was interested or out of pity.

What you don't want to do is text her every hour or every day. Text her every other day and if she's interested, she'll start texting you. If not, then don't hold your breath.

This as well. ^^^^^^^

 

[EmotionalRockfish]

Did you give her your number? If not, you can send her a hello so you can exchange numbers and have a conversation from there. I'd say do it when you get some free time.

Now, if either of you were flirting when she gave you her number, she'd probably be pretty excited to get a text whenever.

 

[Tomato God]

If you wait, she will forget about you. She gave you the number either because she was interested or out of pity.

What you don't want to do is text her every hour or every day. Text her every other day and if she's interested, she'll start texting you. If not, then don't hold your breath.

I did it guys. You will find out whether not I fail soon

Id bet fifty bucks it was a fake number

 

[Lightbringer]

I did it guys. You will find out whether not I fail soon

Id bet fifty bucks it was a fake number

One other thing and this is probably specifically in your age group. Sometimes girls, at least when I was 17, do like it when you text them constantly and they don't respond because they like to see how anxious you get.

Remember girls telling me that. But I would still probably try to refrain from doing that.

 

[Stark]

I always wait till I get home, it can wait. Don't text on the spot cause then you'd seem too desperate, but I don't get numbers daily lml don't get me twisted.

 

[Tomato God]

One other thing and this is probably specifically in your age group. Sometimes girls, at least when I was 17, do like it when you text them constantly and they don't respond because they like to see how anxious you get.

Remember girls telling me that. But I would still probably try to refrain from doing that.

I think I am just gonna get a puppy because that is confusing and scary.

 

[Mellow]

just don't be too clingy. Make the *****es want u not u chasing dem. Unless they fine af. Fine girls ain't nun but trouble. If she's like a 7-9 go for it