Band Problems

[~Dream~]

I know this is the wrong section. I made this thread in the chatterbox section but got only 1 reply. I'm sorry for breaking the rules but I really need help.

Sorry but I couldnt make any. I need excuses for not bring my TRUMPET to school. I joined band and I havent call my notes right even though I practice 1-3 hours a day. I want to quit band but theres 3 more months left. What do I do? I hate having to go to school without a instrument. I work the hardest in the band but I suck the most in band. All the other trumpet players do better than me all the time and me having to sit with them clapping for them. Because of this I hate Music but I like to listen to it. I will never join band even if its a instrument that I know how to play.Guys I'm scared to go to band now. I'm 12 years old. Advice will be praised

 

[Tobinator]

Well if you hate it so much, than quit. Find something that makes you happy.

 

[~Dream~]

But if I quit then everyone will laugh at me and Friends n members of Naruto Base told me that quiting isnt a good choice. I dont know what to do. Something in my school sometimes even makes me want to commit suicide..

 

[Yuka]

But if I quit then everyone will laugh at me and Friends n members of Naruto Base told me that quiting isnt a good choice. I dont know what to do. Something in my school sometimes even makes me want to commit suicide..

Please don't give up because the more you practice the better you become

 

[Musashibo]

This is the wrong section, but you should have just tried to make it more visible in some ways. Hopefully the mods understand this and just move it to the appropriate area.

OT: This is just a emotional moment your having regardless if it's serious or not.

If you wish to quit then quit, but due to the fact you didn't yet means you still hold a meaning towards the club or class.

If this meaning is of fear then this is something you must overcome and get by, which will then allow you to quit.

Since you said people will laugh and make fun of you, i'd say bluntly to just let them. As much as it might make them laugh and make fun of, you had the courage of making a decision for yourself. This is no laughing matter and if they actually continue to mess with you, I'd unfortunately say that they are not your friends and make sure to ask a teacher or role model for help in that situation.

You should understand that quitting is probably a bad thing in most cases since running away from difficult tasks through your life is bad, but you need to know your limits. Learn from experience and if you truly think you shouldn't be doing something then just don't do it and just enjoy it from afar. Music can be loved through playing or listening, not just one only.

 

[~Dream~]

Thank you so much for the advice I've matured up a bit