lol, i have tons of nice things. i wake up everyday and am so grateful for the life ive created for myself straight up
ive had stalker fans who take kind gestures and make it toxic or obsessive to keep getting attention. usually they dont have too much positivity in their lives so they focus on you instead and hold on too that one positive feeling you gave them obsessively, i had one chick follow me through 6 cities, it was crazy. balance doesnt really have anything to do with that its perspective, just like how if you think you can never have nice things, you probably wont. you dont really know what people are going through who react like that
unless you want it to bother you or they get like physical and you have to defend yourself. its better to just let them have that and focus on your life and create more to be grateful for