Attractiveness Booster!!!

kimb

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Is it just me, or does women/men being in a relationship with someone make them more attractive to you?

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Backstory (for anyone who cares)
For a few months, I've had a 6/10 coworker I work with who's been throwing heavy signals @ me since the first shift we worked together, but I never honestly reciprocated. Partly because I've tried the whole "relationship w/ a coworker" thing in the past, and it ended in a dumpster fire of a break up that really ****ed up my flow of work, but mostly because I don't really find her too attractive (plus she seemed too easy, which turned me off to her even more).

Fastfoward to this week; we're scheduled to work the same shift Monday and she comes into work looking better than usual, as if she put effort into looking good (hair done, nails done, make up, now 7/10), but that shit doesn't phase me in the slightest. We get to talking later in the shift, and somewhere along the convo she brings up the fact she's now seeing someone. I congratulate her, and don't think about it for the rest of the shift.

Tuesday comes along, and I can't get the thought of her out of my mind. Like, I don't even see her romantically, I honestly just want to XXX. I've been fantasizing about straight up stealing her away from her bf, like on some primal urge. The only reason why I haven't acted yet is because I respect the bro code, but **** me, I can't stop thinking about it. :elmo:

I can't tell if it's the slightly new look or what, but maaaaan!!! I need some advice, I need some prayer, God help me.

Jesus stop me now, cause I'm gonna finesse.
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Dreckerplayer

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Hmmm...

it's psychology, i guess.All psychology...

And, lmao, is that her picture?
 

Ōkami

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I suppose.

Wanting something you can't have.
 

Guardian of the Rain

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Well, it helps that you’re aware of this and not completely oblivious.

Just have some discipline, man. There are plenty of fish. Why attempt to hook one that you let go and who now has been caught by another man?

...I think I went too far with the fish analogy, but you know what I mean.
 

Onii Chan

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Its common knowledge to not go after co-workers...
 

Konno

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I'm dealing with quite the same situation
It's really hard not to let your passion and lust take over you.
But it's so good if you do
 

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Nobody cares get a life you pathetic loser, and if you mess with a guys missus you are confirmed scum and deserve to be publicly ostracized.
 

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It's cause she ain't looking around no more. She's confident and doing her own thing. You prolly weren't attracted to her back then because you could have her. Humans are usually attracted to things/people they don't have. It's psycological.
 

HashiraMadara

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> someone in a relationship in 2017

:lmao:
In the city I live in it's almost impossible to find a single guy! There are extremely few guys so it created the atmosphere that anyone in a relationship is as getable as a "single" person. So much so that a girl telling me she's is in a relationship makes no difference to me.
 

Donald J Trump

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Shut your fooking mouth! You'll do nuttin! Trying to ruin someone's new relationship even though you let her go before? I can see from the way you write, you're a bitc*. You fookin weasel.

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It’s probably a little of both.

Either way we only here for a minute, and she just started seeing him. Go for it, from the sound of it I doubt you’ll be interested after one time anyway.
 

kimb

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Nobody cares get a life you pathetic loser, and if you mess with a guys missus you are confirmed scum and deserve to be publicly ostracized.

Shut your fooking mouth! You'll do nuttin! Trying to ruin someone's new relationship even though you let her go before? I can see from the way you write, you're a bitc*. You fookin weasel.

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LOL, Okay, okay. I get where you guys are coming from. I was thinking maybe it would be less of an offense if I don't straight finesse her and I just start talking to her on the side until she leaves her main from her own volition, but that still feels like a ****boy move.

I've definitely calmed down since last night (when I posted this); I think it was my friends that boosting me up to make a move on her was what made me obsess about it. That and I haven't ****ed since the fall semester started. Thanks for not holding back; the harsh comments made me self reflect a little. I'm still a little thirty, but I'm gonna try my best to control myself.
 
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