Are you a guy who can't get a girl?

[-Punk-]

Yep .................................

 

[naruto legend]

Don't expire yet man, please, don't go towards the light

I am between light and darkness my good man

 

[Bad Touch Yakushi]

Aha, funny you mention this. I'm in one of those pathetic '1 year of not getting over the last girl' funk.

There's this really cute girl and she likes me and I like her and still but ugh...i'm just not feeling it. So yeah, maybe I am one of those 'guys who can't get girls' aha.

 

[~WastelandSociety~]

I'm the guy that don't care about getting a woman....women now are all like used cars.You don't want to be in it nor do you want to be around it.
It's hard to find a woman that is a virgin,that haven't been sleeping around with other guys :|

 

[Grim]

I know plenty of those

this ^

how low standards people on NB have

 

[Klaroline]

Yeah because I don't like girls bahaha

 

[Strawberry]

How about girls who can't get any guys.

ive never heard of this women could pull some moves and get it on

 

[L Lawliet]

How about girls who can't get any guys.

OH, THE IRONY.

Finally, a thread that doesn't say "all girls in this generation are trash"

I'm not a guy but this is pretty interesting...




Hmmm.....is that really your case? Or are you one of the girls who turn down nice guys? Y'know, leave em heartbroken and whatnot....*cough*

You're my heroine.

i need to know why i cannot get a handsome guy.........
.................joking

But of course you're joking, my dear.

There's one right here.

OMG Seriously?!

Aha, funny you mention this. I'm in one of those pathetic '1 year of not getting over the last girl' funk.

There's this really cute girl and she likes me and I like her and still but ugh...i'm just not feeling it. So yeah, maybe I am one of those 'guys who can't get girls' aha.

You and I both. *fistbump*

 

[Zachfri]

I hate how some american guys are brainwashed to believe "men have to bring something to the table". Isn't it true that God created woman from man, and God created woman FOR man? Not the other way around folks.

 

[HadouKage]

I read several dozen stories a year from miserable, lonely guys who insist that women won't come near them despite the fact that they are just the nicest guys in the world. I can explain what is wrong with this mindset, but it would probably be better if I let Alec Baldwin explain it:
[video=youtube_share;8kZg_ALxEz0]http://youtu.be/8kZg_ALxEz0[/video]
In this case, Baldwin is playing the part of the attractive women in your life. They won't put it as bluntly as he does -- society has trained us not to be this honest with people -- but the equation is the same. "Nice guy? Who gives a shit? If you want to work here, close."
So, what do you bring to the table? Because the Zooey Deschanel lookalike in the bookstore that you've been daydreaming about moisturizes her face for an hour every night and feels guilty when she eats anything other than salad for lunch. She's going to be a surgeon in 10 years. What do you do?

"What, so you're saying that I can't get girls like that unless I have a nice job and make lots of money?"
No, your brain jumps to that conclusion so you have an excuse to write off everyone who rejects you by thinking that they're just being shallow and selfish. I'm asking what do you offer? Are you smart? Funny? Interesting? Talented? Ambitious? Creative? OK, now what do you do to demonstrate those attributes to the world? Don't say that you're a nice guy -- that's the bare minimum. Pretty girls have guys being nice to them 36 times a day. The patient is bleeding in the street. Do you know how to operate or not?
"Well, I'm not sexist or racist or greedy or shallow or abusive! Not like those other douchebags!"
I'm sorry, I know that this is hard to hear, but if all you can do is list a bunch of faults you don't have, then back the **** away from the patient. There's a witty, handsome guy with a promising career ready to step in and operate.

Does that break your heart? OK, so now what? Are you going to mope about it, or are you going to learn how to do surgery? It's up to you, but don't complain about how girls fall for jerks; they fall for those jerks because those jerks have other things they can offer. "But I'm a great listener!" Are you? Because you're willing to sit quietly in exchange for the chance to be in the proximity of a pretty girl (and spend every second imagining how soft her skin must be)? Well guess what, there's another guy in her life who also knows how to do that, and he can play the guitar. Saying that you're a nice guy is like a restaurant whose only selling point is that the food doesn't make you sick. You're like a new movie whose title is This Movie Is in English, and its tagline is "The actors are clearly visible."

I think this is why you can be a "nice guy" and still feel terrible about yourself.


Credit to Comedy writer David Wong.

Different people have different taste this can't some up for everyone
When I met my girlfriend in the 11th grade, I was a mess. No hang time, messed up braids, acne all over my face, I was in fact undatable. But surprisingly so, she'll still went out with me. I've seen the ugliest guys with smoking hot girls and they don't do anything but sit on the but all day and play ball (if you count that as a talent). I believe that this world is very superficial, you gotta meet height requirements, your face has to look a certain way and if look a certain way, I'm not gonna date you. Sadly, people don't know how to accept people the way they are so we have to act like people we are not. I disagree with the whole talent thing because if you are ugly and have talents 9 times outta 10 if you aren't that confident douche, chances are you aren't getting a girl

 

[Scooby Doo]

Meh, who cares, I wish I was born without that instinct...

 

[l Forgotten l]

I dont just pick any girl
I love bad b*tches thats my f*ckin problem XD

 

[-Punk-]

Yeah im one of those guys U_U

 

[YowYan]

Yeah im one of those guys U_U

Bish please! Punk be getting all them ladies in and out of the base

 

[YowYan]

I hate how some american guys are brainwashed to believe "men have to bring something to the table". Isn't it true that God created woman from man, and God created woman FOR man? Not the other way around folks.

Lol, that's a globally shared habit. Not an american thing perse. And why would you bring 'god' on the table out of the blue. Lawl.

 

[Cruciatus]

OH, THE IRONY.

You show up at the most opportune times. ^_^

Yeah im one of those guys U_U

Shadap. Just shadap. -_-

 

[Frankenstein]

Yeah im one of those guys U_U

Are you trapped in the friendzone?

 

[Zachfri]

Lol, that's a globally shared habit. Not an american thing perse. And why would you bring 'god' on the table out of the blue. Lawl.

Just to point out the fact that people are unpredictable. It is said that Moses had a transfigured body that didn't show age even on the day he died, and had all the power over the jews he could want. Not to mention he was one of the wisest people in the world. One of Moses' wives STILL left him.

 

[Isabella95]

Just to point out the fact that people are unpredictable. It is said that Moses had a transfigured body that didn't show age even on the day he died, and had all the power over the jews he could want. Not to mention he was one of the wisest people in the world. One of Moses' wives STILL left him.

That's nothing man. Hugh Grant cheated on Liz Hurley with an fugly prostitute. Liz Hurley dammit!! =D

 

[Aim64C]

Oh, I believe that's a bit weird; what I mean is, this is about getting girls, is it not? Not about getting around in this world, because you can do that without needing to be in a romantic relationship, thus eliminating the need of any such skills found attractive by a potential partner, no?

Addressing your point though; I do believe otherwise, because the notion of the society as uniform is kind of weird, or; there's a place for everyone, until you've found otherwise, which you probably won't in a lifetime as a place means being accepted by someone in this case, meaning you would need to check with everyone, and I'm pretty accepting myself~
I don't care for much of what today's society values, it's insanity IMO, but even so I still get around, can be valuable because the society isn't uniform, can survive because of that, but also thanks to some uniformity, I won't deny that, but it isn't really the same kind we're talking about I bet.
The world won't change for anyone? Depends on how you define change I would say. Can you elaborate please?

I think there's a fundamental truth to the OP.

In many animals - males compete for the rights to lead and/or mate with females. Depending upon the species - the males merely try and get a female to select one of them.

Being the "nice guy" is not necessarily wrong - but if you think about it, attractive women always have guys being nice to them within the general social context. They may be abusive douchebags, but they are willing to strut their stuff and draw a girl's attention in some way or another. And for all 'we' know - that girl has seen nothing but that type of guy, and doesn't know what a 'nice guy' is (or that they exist).

What this means is that you can't just be the "nice guy in the corner" - You have to interact with the girl in a way that lets her know what it is that you can do for her. That doesn't mean you have to 'hit on her' in the same way that all the other guys do - but that you have to be interesting.

Now - you do mention a point - some girls do find the nice guy in the corner interesting... but chances are that they find other behaviors interesting, as well, and you'll pique one of those interests before they realize you are just the nice guy they have always been looking for.