Selfish in the sense of leaving people that love you in tears, if you have anyone caring for you to begin with.
On the other hand; I never asked to be conceived on this prison earth, yet my parents like many others are sheep and selfish. They want to see a child with their facial features so they enjoy my youth and now I'm stuck living a sorry life as a mere slave, working 40+ hours a week for 40+ years. I call that selfish. Simpletons should not reproduce.