when i was 14 until I was about 19... I was a bit of a hooligan. I would go to concerts just get into fights. then one time I got in a fight with this guy in his 40s. I beat his ass real good. as he was laying in the gravel outside of a concert I realized what a loser he was and what a loser I was gonna be (being a 40 year old guy getting beat up by a 19 year old kid) if I kept up like I did. I gave up drinking, went to college, and and have been in WAAAY fewer fights. not none. but fewer. and I started boxing to let the steam out.