Last post but really its this reaction the government needs o crack down on internet freedoms. I'll bet that here soon the government will use this to put some sort of action in place that will take away our rights. Its sad that she's dead its sad that nobody could help her but honestly after watching what the school principle said she did have help. Maybe I'm an insensitive person but after being bullied, raped, and losing 90% of my friends n family after I have no sympathy for her only her family
Amanda Todd: Cybe Bully Identified
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She didn't slept with that guy... As far as I remember.
And stop making perfect scenarios about perfect couples.
What about that boy? Does he deserve respect of framing her? At that time she was already down with her psyche and vulnerable. Instead of framing her he could've actually helped her. But no, let's bring her down even more!
DeViliShChild
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As far as i knew we were talking about Amanda Todd, not some guy. I am not saying he is free from blame, but she made the decision to go to him, and sleep with him fulling knowing he had a girlfriend. That is just asking fro trouble. Once again, did the people take it too far? YES. However, she is not free from blame, because she put her self in a bad situation
P.S. At 4:57 of the video her notecard reads "he hooked up with me" meaning ***
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DeViliShChild
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I am confused at how you came up to that conclusion. Please elaborate on what you mean, and how you came to that conclusion based on my previous post.
According to you, she was gang banged because of her sleeping with a committed guy. Correct?
So, according to you, that makes gang banging ok.
Where did I get that from? You're defending the punishment she was given.
You act like she deserved what she got, even though millions of girls her age do the same thing with absolutely no repercussions.
Quit acting like she deserved it. She didn't.
DeViliShChild
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1.Gangbang = The successive rape of a person by a group of other people. (Merriam Webster)
Idk where you have the idea that a gangbang took place, but i can assure you it did not. A gang of people surrounded her and attacked her. That is all. No *** was involved in that attack. So you are misinformed about that.
2. And luck is on their side. If you put yourself in a potentially harmful situation, you should not be surprised if something comes out of it. You yourself knew it would upset people, and people are unpredictable. So the consequence could be anything. If i sleep with some dudes girlfriend, i have to be prepared that he will kick my ass, idk why that wouldn't be the same for her.
P.S. read my first post, i say nobody deserves to be bullied, but we live in an imperfect world where it does happen
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As far as I now, once again, she went to him but didn't slept with him.
Yes, she is not free from blame, however it 'itches' me to see people blaming only her, but all those people who did that to her are seen as guiltless, if I may say like that.
Plus, that boy called her over, didn't tell her at first he wanted to sleep with her. At first he was supposed to be the person who was comforting her given all that situation she was passing through.
How don't we know that the act itself might have been some sort of rape?
If he'd been that pure, why call her over? If I'd been that boy's girlfriend, I would've kicked him in his nuts and say bye in the next instance.
Did someone though that Amanda was basically double-crossed, to say it like this?
But of course, it's more important to take advantage of the other person's weaknesses and vulnerabilities, make fun of them and beat them so that we can show-off and be in the spot-light than actually starting to think a bit what made that girl go there, show a little heart and help the girl.
But of course, because never anyone applauds good deeds, no one helps because they don't get "the fame".
And because everyone is fascinated about the bullies and how cool they act and wow, what stars are they for making that stuff, everyone is just charmed by that, praise them and want to be like them, never actually blaming and caring about the fact that someone has gone through hell or even died because of that.
These acts make me wonder, what happened to humanity? Is it that hard to act humanely? Is the show-off more important than actually helping someone, do a good deed even if you don't get the fame? What happened with that spiritual contentment? That sensation is 10x better than any other bully crap excitement.
And a simple help could change someone's life for ever, but of course, we're trained in a society that teaches us to be individualists, not to care about others around us, to be as hyenas as we can be, to live like we are surviving in a jungle... Humanity is out of fashion, I guess...
DeViliShChild
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Well at 6:22 of the video the notecard says "but he just wanted the ***... someone yelled just punch her already" so she defiantly had *** with him.
As for the rest of your post I pretty much agree. The boy used and abused her. And she could/should have pressed charges, but she just wanted to forget. (which is a bad idea imo)
American culture is pretty screwed up, because I know people like this guy's girlfriend. They find their boyfriend cheating on them and they blame the other girl or themselves. For whatever reason, the guy just walks away from all blame.
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She's freakin 12 she shouldn't flash her boobs, we blame her because it's all her fault, she listened to a filthy pedophile wanting to see her naked and apperantly she wasn't taught manners cause her parents suck d1ck for not noticing a daughter drugged and under influence of alcohol all the time, and who even gave her the money to buy it, and you blame being curious about her curiosity? i understand that you feel her but please do not see her as a innocent victim because she's not.
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ITACHIUCHIA101
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She was 12.... She shouldn't flash her chest.....
Anyways you guys care way too much. Were you related to her? Did you know her on a personal level? I don't think so. You are making a big deal about this when it doesn't concern you all. Nobody blinked an eye when my father had emotional break down to the pint where he got drunk and crashed on a motorcycle. You guys upset me... You really do...
I couldn't care less about her, it's sad that it ended like this but i'm just here to tell people that they're wrong just like those people who lit candles for her so called ''friend'' they didn't help when she needed them the most and instead were bullieng her.
DeViliShChild
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Im sure if your fathers story was national news there would be threads about it on NB. Its just the luck of the draw whose story gets shown
And i'm sorry about your dad but these people here are getting ridiculous about this, she's just one of the countless people who've died probably that day around the world and this could've been prevented by 1000x ways but she was ignorant, kids get dumber every generation seriously.
ITACHIUCHIA101
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Exactly they act like they care now, but it is too little too late. They can drop the act nobody is watching U_U.
I know, it's sad it really is.
That's how humans are, it's on their nature to care about someone even though they don't know him/her. Your response "you guys care way too much" I totally disagree with this, isn't it strange for you someone died? you are showing how society has become nowadays "being heartless", and I asure you, many people cared about your dad!
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It's funny how you all have so much sympathy for her, but trust me, the kids that sit alone at the lunch table are going through the same experience.
Yasuko Sayomi
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I feel like a contradiction. I have some sympathy for her, but at the same time I don't give a f*ck....
ITACHIUCHIA101
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Millions die every day, people don't need to go this far for one person. Either go all the way with everyone, or not at all...