It's not Gaara's fault Naruto's Talk no jutsu is too OP.
Atleast he wasn't soloed as bad as most people.
They tend to kill themselves(Haku,Nagato,Obito,Neji)
Or
They are so scared they leave their family behind and begin their work as the Hokage's slave(Sasuke)
Gaara got the best end of the stick he became a Kage, making him Naruto equal instead of his slave.