Am I a loser? Because I am up a veteran. Girl who are used to like ended up getting a very bad looking guy who served in the Navy. I don't get what it's good about him. He's a cool guy in my opinion. I have nothing against him. But is she dating him because of military benefits? I feel like a lot of girls are after him because he was in the Navy. I am assuming so. Am I a loser because I have no job and I am not in the military and I only see things for my own self?