Kai NB
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I notice I can only like girls that are out of my league. Ok, I know everyone does that, but I seriously see myself with a problem. The problem being that I do not like picturing myself with anyone less than those I imagine being with. Before any bashing on me happens, let me set a few things straight
Things to Straighten Up
My Views on Dating
Girls I Want to Date
So here's I guess my problem. I don't want to date, but I want to. The girls I want to date are out of my league (not necessarily, haven't actually tried to ask them out) And girls I can date I give them higher standards in my mind before getting a chance to let them show me. And I'm just not really asking for a solution, cause I know I can easily think a different way about it, but I just wanted to rant, so yeah.
What are your views on dating? I know this will receive many different answers so I'm very curious. Also, please try to respect other people's answers, and be open to more opinions.
Things to Straighten Up
About Myself
I'm still just a teenager, I realize that I still have much to learn. But I always try to look at things from as many perspectives possible, especially one by an adult. I have issues that I have to fix, and I also have many qualities that I am proud to have. In the end, I know for sure I am not perfect, but I ALWAYS stay true to a set of values that
I decided on and try my very best to excel in whatever situation I may be in.
Well, I think its pointless. I'm (extremely thankful for being) one of those guys that always looks for a meaningful relationship. I don't want to date someone because its fun, I can hang out with friends for that. I want to date someone so it can lead to something meaningful in the long run. Dating literally is looking for the person you want to marry in my eyes. However, since I'm only just a teenager, not only is it pointless because I can't marry, but because very few girls my age understand my point of view.
HOWEVER, and this is a big one, I really really REALLY want to have a girlfriend, even though I know it will almost certainly end after high school.
Again, I know this is stupid, because a relationship in high school is basically having a really close friend who you can make out with (I swear I am in control of my hormones... most of the times Haha
. I will NOT have *** underage) Like I said before, I have regular friends I can be close with.
So... yeah... kinda confusing
Again, I know this is stupid, because a relationship in high school is basically having a really close friend who you can make out with (I swear I am in control of my hormones... most of the times Haha
. I will NOT have *** underage) Like I said before, I have regular friends I can be close with.So... yeah... kinda confusing
Values
Looks
Brain
Anything else, but not sure if necessary, would be that she is funny and willing to be spontaneous
Above all else, she must have a set of values that she will not break under any circumstance. Obviously I want a girl with a good moral set of values (they don't have to be EXACTLY the same as mine) but as long as she sticks to them, that's all I really want.
Looks ARE important - They are NOT everything I'm not looking for a 10, but a girl cannot just not take care of herself. I'm not saying become I makeup guru on YouTube, but always try and look your best. You can't judge a book by it's cover, but you can completely have first impressions on it. That also means health. Keeping in shape is a priority. I view the body as a temple and that it should be treated as such.
Probably all that's left is that she be intelligent. No not book smart. No not street smart. Just someone with an active mind. Someone who is curious about things and actually looks for answers. Or someone who would talk to me about ideas, not gossip.
What are your views on dating? I know this will receive many different answers so I'm very curious. Also, please try to respect other people's answers, and be open to more opinions.
