Advice Please! (not about naruto)

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So.. Me and my girl just broke up after an 8 month relationship... someone give me
advice on how to get this heartbreak feeling to go away ): :(:(:(:(:(:(
any friendly advice will help
 

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I know those feels. Just PM me if you wanna talk bout it and what not. Try to do anything to get your mind off it, I usually drive around, listen to music, and eat Denny's.
 

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being sad about a break up is only normal but don't wallow in it try your best to move on but only when you are ready ive learned the hard way the longer you stay depressed over a break up the more unhappy you will be in general, best of luck to you
 

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Go no contact. Don't visit her FB, her other social networking sites, don't text her, call her, IM her. Nothing. Regardless of who broke up with who, it has ended. The last thing you need right now is to be reminded of her. Trust me, the more you dwell on her, the longer you're prolonging the agony.

Your priority is to yourself. Go to the gym, take up a new hobby, go out with friends. Take your time to heal. Eventually you'll move on. There's no definite time on how long you're going to heal. But if you try hard to focus on yourself instead of your previous relationship, you'll get there, buddy.
 
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I second what Genrou said. 1.5 year relationship ended for me a few months back (in hindsight for the better). I also took up swimming, as well as exercise in general to take my mind off of it.
 
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But in all seriousness, try to get your mind off it. Don't think about it, don't speak to her.

Later, you should at least try and see.if you can end on good terms, or cool down.
 

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It's a natural part of life. You just have to get out there; go out with friends and socialize with others, bruh. Otherwise you'll end up thinking about her in your boredom, which isn't good.

Time heals all.
 

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Well, I don't mean to be insensitive, but this chapter in your life is over. The only direction to move in now is forward. You went through an eight month experience whether for better or worst and now you have to be hopeful that you can find happiness again. Once again I'm not trying to be insensitive but 8 months is nothing compared to the rest of your life. there's plenty of time for things to get better or conversely worse if you spend your time hurting. Hope something in here helps.
 

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Get some coke and cheep sluts, this will help, I promise.

But being serious, you just need to get over it, you alone, without any help. It will help you alot in future.
 

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we all know the feeling mine was 2 weeks of 2 years dude there is no way just go about your day do something you havent done that you've always wanted to and learn from it because when we had no one we always had pain.. ah aha see what i did there but serious just do that
 
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