[Discussion] Actually forever singles might be the most happiest people on the world?

[Izou Xaxa]

One of the biggest false assumptions we make is believing we will live into old age. We save, wait, and plan for a future that we aren't necessarily guaranteed. It's good to find a balance between planning for the future, living in the present, and learning from the past.

Im differwnt i actually treat every day like its my last im prepared to die any minute
Right now i could die its possible

 

[GhostProject]

It's called the pursuit of happiness for a reason. You may be with someone and not be satisfied. You may not having anyone to share with and not be satisfied. Some have everything in the world, others may not have a crumb, yet all are unsatisfied.

Endure my friend.

 

[Omega]

Actually when i think about it someone who is forever single ok the only bad thing the person will never experience the love but there are much more things that are better you cannot be betrayed, no love rival so in fact the most people wont start a fight with you because they know you are not interested and you have freedom to be like you wanna be also you dont have to wear special clothes and actually more people will like you because you are no rival in love you will be completely neutral

Ok maybe a lot of you are gonna disagree but i just thought about it in that way and wanted to hear your opinion

1. the only bad thing the person will never experience the love
No lots of ****ed up stuff happens regardless if you are in a relationship or not. So to say this is the only bad thing is probably not a true assumption assuming this implies bad stuff happened because you are a couple.

2.but there are much more things that are better you cannot be betrayed

Half true. Anyone can betray you. Doesn't have to be your significant other. I said half true because you have a slight point. It does hurt worse if you are betrayed by this person and sometimes you constantly think about it.

3. no love rival so in fact the most people wont start a fight with you because they know you are not interested

Being single is not going to stop you from getting into fights. Most fights I been in weren't even about a female. Admittedly it is an added dimension to potentially start fights but its not like people want to suddenly fight you because you dating somebody. P.S how do THEY know you're not interested. I remember someone getting into an argument because they thought someone liked this girl but he really didn't but again how do they absolutely know that. In fact...the fact that you're single makes you more of a target for this. If you have your own gf then they will probably assume you happy with your life but if you are single they will think you on the prowl so you kinda got this backwards.

you have freedom to be like you wanna be
I agree with you here but if you are with someone and you cant be yourself then is this really the right person if you are acting? Its not really that bad. For the most part you can be yourself in a relationship as long as you don't do some off the wall crazy ish. If you absolutely have to set yourself on fire no questions asked In order to be fully happy then you need to see a doctor. (Example). All go ahead and give you a point for this one. I guess its the cliché (couples are shackled) but its over used and overstated.

you dont have to wear special clothes
This one made me laugh. Thank you for this. We're still debating happiness right? God forbid I have to wear a suit or I am going to kill myself. When I had a gf its not like we went to paris every weekend and ate at a five star resteraunt. I usually wear my regular attire because its just common to wear clothes. Idk who is wearing calvin klein everyday but if I did have to wear good clothes im sure Im not going to cry that night in overbearing sadness LMFAO. So no this one holds no value imo in the fact that we are arguing happiness. This really isn't bad.

more people will like you because you are no rival in love you will be completely neutral
eh no. Again...if you are single then you are still more of a target to be a love rival than someone who is actually with someone. I also doubt if its going to make you more likeable or not. If you are a prick you are a prick. I understand you are saying FOREVER SINGLE but we aren't mind readers and people wont take your word for it if you're like "oh yeah im not interested at all in relationships" guarantee you 9/10 people are like yeah right and that 1/10 person just wasn't listening. So yeah anybody who is single is fair game to the assumptions of good ol mankind. Ex I am a Christian and don't believe in adultery but dudes be clenching on their girl friends given me "the look". They don't know anything about me but yeah...that happened.


In my opinion a relationship with that one person who is a perfect match for you is >single everyday, all day. Some people just don't like the hassle. Some people pretend to be single and proud and then mop the bathroom tiles with their tears. Some honestly don't want a relationship but good luck. I don't think its good for man to be alone.
I'll somewhat retract and also say it totally depends on the person. If you can get along fine without any second thoughts about it then good for you.

 

[Funky Tiger]

op you need to go get a ****ing life

 

[Zexion~]

It can be good or bad, personally I think swingers got it best U_U

 

[Izou Xaxa]

1. the only bad thing the person will never experience the love
No lots of ****ed up stuff happens regardless if you are in a relationship or not. So to say this is the only bad thing is probably not a true assumption assuming this implies bad stuff happened because you are a couple.

2.but there are much more things that are better you cannot be betrayed

Half true. Anyone can betray you. Doesn't have to be your significant other. I said half true because you have a slight point. It does hurt worse if you are betrayed by this person and sometimes you constantly think about it.

3. no love rival so in fact the most people wont start a fight with you because they know you are not interested

Being single is not going to stop you from getting into fights. Most fights I been in weren't even about a female. Admittedly it is an added dimension to potentially start fights but its not like people want to suddenly fight you because you dating somebody. P.S how do THEY know you're not interested. I remember someone getting into an argument because they thought someone liked this girl but he really didn't but again how do they absolutely know that. In fact...the fact that you're single makes you more of a target for this. If you have your own gf then they will probably assume you happy with your life but if you are single they will think you on the prowl so you kinda got this backwards.

you have freedom to be like you wanna be
I agree with you here but if you are with someone and you cant be yourself then is this really the right person if you are acting? Its not really that bad. For the most part you can be yourself in a relationship as long as you don't do some off the wall crazy ish. If you absolutely have to set yourself on fire no questions asked In order to be fully happy then you need to see a doctor. (Example). All go ahead and give you a point for this one. I guess its the cliché (couples are shackled) but its over used and overstated.

you dont have to wear special clothes
This one made me laugh. Thank you for this. We're still debating happiness right? God forbid I have to wear a suit or I am going to kill myself. When I had a gf its not like we went to paris every weekend and ate at a five star resteraunt. I usually wear my regular attire because its just common to wear clothes. Idk who is wearing calvin klein everyday but if I did have to wear good clothes im sure Im not going to cry that night in overbearing sadness LMFAO. So no this one holds no value imo in the fact that we are arguing happiness. This really isn't bad.

more people will like you because you are no rival in love you will be completely neutral
eh no. Again...if you are single then you are still more of a target to be a love rival than someone who is actually with someone. I also doubt if its going to make you more likeable or not. If you are a prick you are a prick. I understand you are saying FOREVER SINGLE but we aren't mind readers and people wont take your word for it if you're like "oh yeah im not interested at all in relationships" guarantee you 9/10 people are like yeah right and that 1/10 person just wasn't listening. So yeah anybody who is single is fair game to the assumptions of good ol mankind. Ex I am a Christian and don't believe in adultery but dudes be clenching on their girl friends given me "the look". They don't know anything about me but yeah...that happened.


In my opinion a relationship with that one person who is a perfect match for you is >single everyday, all day. Some people just don't like the hassle. Some people pretend to be single and proud and then mop the bathroom tiles with their tears. Some honestly don't want a relationship but good luck. I don't think its good for man to be alone.
I'll somewhat retract and also say it totally depends on the person. If you can get along fine without any second thoughts about it then good for you.

Well with fight o mean useless fights of course i also have been infights that are about other things but those were thing worthfighting for unlike a realtionship which is not worth fighting for

Yes im just gonna tell them im not onterested and reject every girl easy solution
Ok i how should i say this now this with when you are single you are mir of a target
Ok if the person really tries to get a girl then yes
But if its someone like me that barely talk to any girls and who dont even talk that much then you are not a target because you are in fact doing nothing

 

[The Dreamer]

Disagree.

 

[Wabbit]

It is like you are saying I will eat this tasteless because if I try to add salt it might become too salty. It would suck it becomes too salty but love could hurt but it is well worth it, to live those moments.
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[Izou Xaxa]

It is like you are saying I will eat this tasteless because if I try to add salt it might become too salty. It would suck it becomes too salty but love could hurt but it is well worth it, to live those moments.
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Well whatvyou say might have meaning but i dont need it because i know it would sliw me down also love makea people crazy and they lose focuw o the most things

I respect other people who disagree but i will nevwr be like this and even if i would like to a relationship is not possible for people like me

 

[Izou Xaxa]

It is like you are saying I will eat this tasteless because if I try to add salt it might become too salty. It would suck it becomes too salty but love could hurt but it is well worth it, to live those moments.
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Well whatvyou say might have meaning but i dont need it because i know it would sliw me down also love makea people crazy and they lose focuw o the most things

I respect other people who disagree but i will nevwr be like this and even if i would like to a relationship is not possible for people like me

 

[Karna]

No happiness in this *world comes without pain, actually calling happiness is stupid, there are experiences much better then when you feel high and want to show your teeth while making hyena sounds.

 

[~WastelandSociety~]

You will later have those feels when you're a 80 year old men ,looking back wishing you had that special someone in your life along with kids.
Cause at that age you'd be to weak to have fun and sitting in your home all alone. Unable to do the things you once did and all your friends are either died or moved away.

No one to see you.
No one to talk to.
No one to love.

I ,on the other hand, am not as hard headed as I once was when I was a teen.
Once thought that being single is so much better but then in my early 20's I found love.

I have a fiancée that I love.
Who shares the same interests as me.
Who make me laugh.
Which we go out on dates to watch a movie and go to a party.

I have kids that I know will bring more joy in my life.

Not worrying about what the person wears.
Not worrying about trusting. Cause if you don't trust the person,then there's no love to begin with.

Sure it's troublesome to be with someone that is controlling but you should understand that you shouldnt be with that person then.

Not everyone is like that and in due time you will crack in the fate of love.

Otherwise in your late life you will regret it.

Think about it.
Have fun now,
Have even more fun once you found the right person to be with.

 

[Izou Xaxa]

You will later have those feels when you're a 80 year old men ,looking back wishing you had that special someone in your life along with kids.
Cause at that age you'd be to weak to have fun and sitting in your home all alone. Unable to do the things you once did and all your friends are either died or moved away.

No one to see you.
No one to talk to.
No one to love.

I ,on the other hand, am not as hard headed as I once was when I was a teen.
Once thought that being single is so much better but then in my early 20's I found love.

I have a fiancée that I love.
Who shares the same interests as me.
Who make me laugh.
Which we go out on dates to watch a movie and go to a party.

I have kids that I know will bring more joy in my life.

Not worrying about what the person wears.
Not worrying about trusting. Cause if you don't trust the person,then there's no love to begin with.

Sure it's troublesome to be with someone that is controlling but you should understand that you shouldnt be with that person then.

Not everyone is like that and in due time you will crack in the fate of love.

Otherwise in your late life you will regret it.

Think about it.
Have fun now,
Have even more fun once you found the right person to be with.

Well i understand you but its more like ihave morw fun without love somehow o feel like this

 

[Izou Xaxa]

You will later have those feels when you're a 80 year old men ,looking back wishing you had that special someone in your life along with kids.
Cause at that age you'd be to weak to have fun and sitting in your home all alone. Unable to do the things you once did and all your friends are either died or moved away.

No one to see you.
No one to talk to.
No one to love.

I ,on the other hand, am not as hard headed as I once was when I was a teen.
Once thought that being single is so much better but then in my early 20's I found love.

I have a fiancée that I love.
Who shares the same interests as me.
Who make me laugh.
Which we go out on dates to watch a movie and go to a party.

I have kids that I know will bring more joy in my life.

Not worrying about what the person wears.
Not worrying about trusting. Cause if you don't trust the person,then there's no love to begin with.

Sure it's troublesome to be with someone that is controlling but you should understand that you shouldnt be with that person then.

Not everyone is like that and in due time you will crack in the fate of love.

Otherwise in your late life you will regret it.

Think about it.
Have fun now,
Have even more fun once you found the right person to be with.

Well i understand you but its more like ihave morw fun without love somehow o feel like this

 

[Kirokill]

Life's empty without responsibility. At least

Be what you want. I know the path I will walk.

 

[Izou Xaxa]

Life's empty without responsibility. At least

Be what you want. I know the path I will walk.

Yesvindeed i want be a fighting sports and computwr person without relationship because i feel happy like that
Relationships are deatroying people from the inside

 

[chopstickchakra]

Actually when i think about it someone who is forever single ok the only bad thing the person will never experience the love but there are much more things that are better you cannot be betrayed, no love rival so in fact the most people wont start a fight with you because they know you are not interested and you have freedom to be like you wanna be also you dont have to wear special clothes and actually more people will like you because you are no rival in love you will be completely neutral

Ok maybe a lot of you are gonna disagree but i just thought about it in that way and wanted to hear your opinion

And when you die alone, no one will be there to remove your body so you'll sit there rotting until a passer by is alerted by the pungent odor of decay and alerts the authorities.

 

[Gintõki1]

I only hear that from people who didn't have a gf yet or chose the wrong girl and got their heart broken.
When you find that nice girl that cares about you, has the things you're looking for and as a bonus is good looking you will think different, believe me.

 

[Kishi Uzumaki]

Nope, i don't think it's fully true some of them crave for relationships even if there's lot of things happening in their lives there's a void that can't be filled by them, only another person can fill it but on the other hand, there are some people that lives happily been single mostly they're people that preoccupied with chasing their goals and been happy about their accomplishments .

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

I think people should be single but not forever single. There's no way you could live a happy life without ever having that experience with someone at least once. It's just human nature and apart of the experience of being human.