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Everybody’s fate has been decided when he/she was born, which can’t be changed. This is the outlook on life embraced by Neji, which is obviously wrong. Can people’s fate be changed? For sure, it’s feasible. Everybody owns Gai and Rock Lee’s weapon – endeavor. If not making efforts, Gai and Rock Lee would be laggards from childhood to grown-up. Obviously, they become excellent ninjas by endeavor. In the real life, you will have many plans on study, work and also life. But you may find they produce only small effects. Apparently, not everybody can be as studious as Gai and Rock Lee.
In reality, everybody tries to change others. Parents want to change kids. Kids want to resist parents. You expect to change others and make them have the same thought with you. But obviously, this is impossible because all people neglect this: it’s better to introspect than to complain. A certain well-known person said like this when introspecting his life: I had a massive ambition when I was young and wanted to change the world. But I knew this was impossible when I had strived half a lifetime.
People’s energy is limited. I should narrow the scope and change people around me. But when it comes to the twilight years, I found I was wrong again. Everybody has his/her own thought and features. I can’t change other people. What I can do is just to be myself. I should be an excellent example for young people around me and affect others by my charm. I find I can do this.
In reality, everybody tries to change others. Parents want to change kids. Kids want to resist parents. You expect to change others and make them have the same thought with you. But obviously, this is impossible because all people neglect this: it’s better to introspect than to complain. A certain well-known person said like this when introspecting his life: I had a massive ambition when I was young and wanted to change the world. But I knew this was impossible when I had strived half a lifetime.
People’s energy is limited. I should narrow the scope and change people around me. But when it comes to the twilight years, I found I was wrong again. Everybody has his/her own thought and features. I can’t change other people. What I can do is just to be myself. I should be an excellent example for young people around me and affect others by my charm. I find I can do this.