A bit of advice for the kind Dr

[Dr Octogonapus]

Ok guys the last few days i have been sort of a wreck not knowing what to do. At my school there is this girl that i have recently started to like since 3 weeks ago. She first added me on facebook which we talked a little bit and now i'm spending my lunch times with her talking to her all day over facebook and twitter. She's got everything i want in a woman literally she's perfect but theres only one HUGE problem.

She is in a relationship.

My problem is am i doing the right thing in spending so much time with her? I'm not one of those guys that tries to ruin a relationship by interfering but i seriously love her.

Thanks, it kind of felt good letting that all out.

 

[Sonne]

Situation known to me,don`t worry,i have a few tips.

First of all,never talk about relationships with her,you don`t want her thinking that you are trying to take over her,be more casual.
Second,try to know her boyfriend,befriend him,cause the best way to win over an enemy is to befriend him.

Talk to him a little bit,there is always something he will say,something like "I am not completely satisfied" or stuff,then,you act "expert",say stuff like "That has happened to me",and act like you don`t know who his gf is,just talk with him and persuade him that she ain`t the right one for him.

If he says he is satisfied,try again in about 5 more years when her bf is a junkie.

And no,i don`t mean "satisfied" in ***,in the relationship in total. :|

It is a little bit complicated,but you`ll get to the bottom of it very soon.

 

[Hot.Tendo]

if you love her... learn to set her free... :T_T:

 

[Kushan]

Ok guys the last few days i have been sort of a wreck not knowing what to do. At my school there is this girl that i have recently started to like since 3 weeks ago. She first added me on facebook which we talked a little bit and now i'm spending my lunch times with her talking to her all day over facebook and twitter. She's got everything i want in a woman literally she's perfect but theres only one HUGE problem.

She is in a relationship.

My problem is am i doing the right thing in spending so much time with her? I'm not one of those guys that tries to ruin a relationship by interfering but i seriously love her.

Thanks, it kind of felt good letting that all out.

Hey doc mind if I ask; how old are you cause, depending on your age my advice will differ...

 

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[Zombie]

Easy solution, jealousy rage murder her boyfriend. Elope to Mexico (or Canada, but Canada is too cold IMO).

 

[Raito Yagami]

Dear Doc Ock,
Welcome to my world. The best thing to do right now is hope that her boyfriend is breaking up with her. When he does, swoop in and make your move.
Sincerely,
Orange Flash 100

 

[Dr Octogonapus]

@SINK Thankyou for the advice.

@Kushan I am 18 and she has just turned 19.

@Orange Flash 100 Thanks and yeah that is true.

 

[Kushan]

@SINK Thankyou for the advice.

@Kushan I am 18 and she has just turned 19.

@Orange Flash 100 Thanks and yeah that is true.

Hmmm...this is one twisted situation I've been in this situation and it's not the easiest, and before I start, just remember non of this advice is a solid solution for your problem, you have to find your own solution that suits your situation.

I'm talking with personal experience, and I think it's safe to say every man/woman at some point has gone through something like this.

Now the main thing is to not get involved in their relationship, I suggest if you could help it; to completely stay away from her boyfriend, create a relationship that involves the just the two of you and don't rush to define it either (i.e. friends, lovers etc.) I think you're successfully doing this now, the reason I say this is because the moment you become friends with the girl there's an automatic barrier that comes between you which defines what you can and cant do and talk and not talk, and when you befriends the boyfriend you become a friend of the couple which redefine their relationship.

Then the next step is to cement your relationship build a trust element where she's comfortable with you, and after that the rest is how you play the game, if you have a killer instinct, you can slowly seduce her, and make her cross the line, and break them up, don't worry the opportunity for this will present itself, it'll be up to you to decide how you take it from there, when I had the chance I never took it... so yeah

 

[ZK]

Dear Doc Ock,
Welcome to my world. The best thing to do right now is hope that her boyfriend is breaking up with her. When he does, swoop in and make your move.
Sincerely,
Orange Flash 100

Copycat, don't take my post ending .

but make your move when they break up, it's the only legit way to do it.

Sincerely.
ZeroG

 

[Dr Octogonapus]

Hmmm...this is one twisted situation I've been in this situation and it's not the easiest, and before I start, just remember non of this advice is a solid solution for your problem, you have to find your own solution that suits your situation.

I'm talking with personal experience, and I think it's safe to say every man/woman at some point has gone through something like this.

Now the main thing is to not get involved in their relationship, I suggest if you could help it; to completely stay away from her boyfriend, create a relationship that involves the just the two of you and don't rush to define it either (i.e. friends, lovers etc.) I think you're successfully doing this now, the reason I say this is because the moment you become friends with the girl there's an automatic barrier that comes between you which defines what you can and cant do and talk and not talk, and when you befriends the boyfriend you become a friend of the couple which redefine their relationship.

Then the next step is to cement your relationship build a trust element where she's comfortable with you, and after that the rest is how you play the game, if you have a killer instinct, you can slowly seduce her, and make her cross the line, and break them up, don't worry the opportunity for this will present itself, it'll be up to you to decide how you take it from there, when I had the chance I never took it... so yeah

Yes everything is going alright at the moment. Yesterday i talked to her for like 7 hours straight and tonight i talked to her for about 4 hours. We definitely have a good connection she likes it when i flirt with her even sends those msn love heart emoticons to me.

Only bad thing is i've discovered her boyfriend seems to be a bit of an ******* forces her to get offline at like 10 pm even though she doesn't want to.

But a good thing is she's working at our schools library on monday and she wants me to come keep her company which of course i couldn't refuse. I'm not the type of guy that would come right out and seduce her i don't think so i guess my only option is to wait it out? Only problem is they have been in a relationship for just over a year

 

[Kushan]

Yes everything is going alright at the moment. Yesterday i talked to her for like 7 hours straight and tonight i talked to her for about 4 hours. We definitely have a good connection she likes it when i flirt with her even sends those msn love heart emoticons to me.

Only bad thing is i've discovered her boyfriend seems to be a bit of an ******* forces her to get offline at like 10 pm even though she doesn't want to.

But a good thing is she's working at our schools library on monday and she wants me to come keep her company which of course i couldn't refuse. I'm not the type of guy that would come right out and seduce her i don't think so i guess my only option is to wait it out? Only problem is they have been in a relationship for just over a year

Nah it'll be alright relax from the sound of it her boy friend sounds like an ass, controlling is the first sign of weakness!!!

Good luck !!!

 

[Zombie]

They've been in a relationship for only just over a year? As long as a year sounds, it's really not that long at all.

If everything you say so far has been true, there really is no reason you couldn't just steal her from her current boyfriend. Unless of course you're worried her current boyfriend could beat your ass?

If you happen to be afraid of said boyfriend. Don't be, just fight dirty. People always think these kinds of situations have to fought out admirably with honor. They don't, because victory tastes way better than your own blood.

That, or just find every flaw of her boyfriend, and have a friend indirectly expose them.

So many options here. My favorite idea though is still, jealousy rage murder, then elope to Mexico. Poison might work too (though I doubt you have the balls to kill somebody, wimp).

 

[Passion]

Situation known to me,don`t worry,i have a few tips.

First of all,never talk about relationships with her,you don`t want her thinking that you are trying to take over her,be more casual.
Second,try to know her boyfriend,befriend him,cause the best way to win over an enemy is to befriend him.

Talk to him a little bit,there is always something he will say,something like "I am not completely satisfied" or stuff,then,you act "expert",say stuff like "That has happened to me",and act like you don`t know who his gf is,just talk with him and persuade him that she ain`t the right one for him.

If he says he is satisfied,try again in about 5 more years when her bf is a junkie.

And no,i don`t mean "satisfied" in ***,in the relationship in total. :|

It is a little bit complicated,but you`ll get to the bottom of it very soon.

Says the guy who rejects girls that try to make out with him. You should ask Rei or Gamahiro. They're the love doctorz aronud here

 

[gamahiro]

Says the guy who rejects girls that try to make out with him. You should ask Rei or Gamahiro. They're the love doctorz aronud here

Me? :|

 

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[Dr Octogonapus]

They've been in a relationship for only just over a year? As long as a year sounds, it's really not that long at all.

If everything you say so far has been true, there really is no reason you couldn't just steal her from her current boyfriend. Unless of course you're worried her current boyfriend could beat your ass?

If you happen to be afraid of said boyfriend. Don't be, just fight dirty. People always think these kinds of situations have to fought out admirably with honor. They don't, because victory tastes way better than your own blood.

That, or just find every flaw of her boyfriend, and have a friend indirectly expose them.

So many options here. My favorite idea though is still, jealousy rage murder, then elope to Mexico. Poison might work too (though I doubt you have the balls to kill somebody, wimp).

Don't really know many flaws about him except he forces her to get off the computer at like 10. I've been coming on much stronger lately though we often talk alone or sometimes with her friend.

And no lol i dont have the balls to kill him xd

 

[Raito Yagami]

I'm kinda stuck in the same problem right now. I'm hanging out with this girl, who REALLY cute, and we have a lot in common. My girlfriend thinks I'm spending to much time with her and now she is about to breakup with me. I need help. FAST!

 

[The_Empire]

I say go for it. Take her away from that lame guy she goes with. Point blank period. Now take her kiss her and then *** her up

 

[Passion]

Me? :|

Yeah, you. :|