1 man three wives?

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You think it’s an an unhealthy relationship but what about stability, do you think such an arrangement is long-lasting or not?

What are you talking about? You go from unhealthy relationships to "stability"? What kind of "stability"...and between who, the people in the polygamist relationship?

If so, never heard of it...
 

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They did a study in Saudi Arabia about men and their wives; it turns out, the more wives a man had, the higher their chances of developing heart disease and other chronic disorders. It goes to show why most well-known Muslim scholars tend to have only one wife.



 
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Why are you still impersonating me :pick:

Not sure if i should be worried or flattered.
 
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They did a study in Saudi Arabia about men and their wives; it turns out, the more wives a man had, the higher their chances of developing heart disease and other chronic disorders. It goes to show why most well-known Muslim scholars tend to have only one wife.




Yeah, personal greed.

I'm sure they like children too...greedy and selfish.
 

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Nope. Its a sign of weakness. Strength comes from having many options but being loyal to one. Should it be legal? No.
 

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I don't think polyamory is optimal for a sustaining society and leads to far more problems that overtake any benefits it could offer.

While mulling over this topic over in my head, one issue that stands out above the rest is how complicated and damaging polyamorous divorce would be. Imagine a polyarmorous couple of 1 man and 3 women who had a family of 9 children (more wombs more children, 3 children per woman). Imagine the custody battle behind such a divorce. I'd imagine that the women would be attached to her "non-biological children" as well, so it wouldnt be as simple as "the biological mother gets her kids" -- or maybe it could. Imagine being a father trying to win custody over 9 kids from 3 women? Imagine being that man and having to pay child suport for 9 nine kids to 3 separate women.

Imagine if it were more complex; one of the women wanted to get a divorce. Do they only divorce the man, or are they also technically married to the other two women and would require filing divorce for them as well? Imagine wanting to divorce from one partner, while wanting to maintain marriage with another partner.

Jesucristo...
 

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I don't think polyamory is optimal for a sustaining society and leads to far more problems that overtake any benefits it could offer.

While mulling over this topic over in my head, one issue that stands out above the rest is how complicated and damaging polyamorous divorce would be. Imagine a polyarmorous couple of 1 man and 3 women who had a family of 9 children (more wombs more children, 3 children per woman). Imagine the custody battle behind such a divorce. I'd imagine that the women would be attached to her "non-biological children" as well, so it wouldnt be as simple as "the biological mother gets her kids" -- or maybe it could. Imagine being a father trying to win custody over 9 kids from 3 women? Imagine being that man and having to pay child suport for 9 nine kids to 3 separate women.

Imagine if it were more complex; one of the women wanted to get a divorce. Do they only divorce the man, or are they also technically married to the other two women and would require filing divorce for them as well? Imagine wanting to divorce from one partner, while wanting to maintain marriage with another partner.

Jesucristo...

The agreement is that the man married the woman and not the woman married the man and women. So all the marriage(each of it) happened only between single man and single woman. So one woman ties the knot with the man only and not with both(man and women(wives)). Thus when one woman wanted a divorce and she gets it the divorce only breaking the marriage ties of that woman and the man only. It doesn't breaking anything with other women and also the woman doesn't need to files a divorce with other women because it not works like that.

The fact that when every marriages happened the one that stands in front of priest or depends on the marriage culture/ritual is one man and one woman and if the man already have another wife before that wife will not following the same ritual again but sit there as a guest because her marriage establishment had already being done before.

Why you make it sounds complicated? lol
 

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The agreement is that the man married the woman and not the woman married the man and women. So all the marriage(each of it) happened only between single man and single woman. So one woman ties the knot with the man only and not with both(man and women(wives)). Thus when one woman wanted a divorce and she gets it the divorce only breaking the marriage ties of that woman and the man only. It doesn't breaking anything with other women and also the woman doesn't need to files a divorce with other women because it not works like that.

The fact that when every marriages happened the one that stands in front of priest or depends on the marriage culture/ritual is one man and one woman and if the man already have another wife before that wife will not following the same ritual again but sit there as a guest because her marriage establishment had already being done before.

Why you make it sounds complicated? lol

You've described (traditional) polygamy. All polygamy is polyamory, but not all polyamory is polygamy. Polyamory in and of itself doesn't have set restrictions and rules to the relationships that are established; some polyamarous relationships are bigamous (which is sort of what I'm describing), where people are married to two or more people within a polyamarous relationship.

And seeing as how most polyamarous relationships exist within the context of religious practice/theistic cultural practice, I think in secular state like America, most of the formalities that exist in traditional polygamy wouldn't apply. Also, things like homosexuality, and open sexual promiscuity aren't accounted for in traditional polygamy, so you could see a polyamarous relationship where there are 2 husbands and 1 wife, or 3 husbands, or 3 wives, where each member of the relationship are married to one another individuality. It was Fountain who set the limit of 3 members in his thread as well, and I personally believe there wouldn't be a limit to the amount of members permitted to exist within a polyamarous marriage, because there's no argument you could present against setting a limit once you accept surpassing the natural limit of 2. I could maybe see legal limitations and statutes being putting place limiting the amount of people you could marry (ex. you can have more than 10 husbands in the State of X), but on an abstract level, there really isn't much you can do once you've accepted polyamory on principle.

I don't think people would start going out there and marrying 50 people at a time, but it doesn't need to go to that extreme for things to be in arrive at a state of complete and utter chaos.
 
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You've described (traditional) polygamy. All polygamy is polyamory, but not all polyamory is polygamy. Polyamory in and of itself doesn't have set restrictions and rules to the relationships that are established; some polyamarous relationships are bigamous (which is sort of what I'm describing), where people are married to two or more people within a polyamarous relationship.

And seeing as how most polyamarous relationships exist within the context of religious practice/theistic cultural practice, I think in secular state like America, most of the formalities that exist in traditional polygamy wouldn't apply. Also, things like homosexuality, and open sexual promiscuity aren't accounted for in traditional polygamy, so you could see a polyamarous relationship where there are 2 husbands and 1 wife, or 3 husbands, or 3 wives, where each member of the relationship are married to one another individuality. It was Fountain who set the limit of 3 members in his thread as well, and I personally believe there wouldn't be a limit to the amount of members permitted to exist within a polyamarous marriage, because there's no argument you could present against setting a limit once you accept surpassing the natural limit of 2. I could maybe see legal limitations and statutes being putting place limiting the amount of people you could marry (ex. you can have more than 10 husbands in the State of X), but on an abstract level, there really isn't much you can do once you've accepted polyamory on principle.

I don't think people would start going out there and marrying 50 people at a time, but it doesn't need to go to that extreme for things to be in arrive at a state of complete and utter chaos.

Haha sorry dude I just replied to you without understanding your comment first.:sweat: Yeah now I see it. Sorry again and yup polyamory is very complicated situation. It not making any sense:mad:_@:
 

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dude its like so clutch, it like always clean dishes.
one always can make you a sandwhich
and one is always down to make the love.
And when there women live together their vaginas together and because 3 is an odd number they cancel each other out so no periods, and that mean no babies.
 

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dude its like so clutch, it like always clean dishes.
one always can make you a sandwhich
and one is always down to make the love.
And when there women live together their vaginas together and because 3 is an odd number they cancel each other out so no periods, and that mean no babies.

It's such a shame...

you have nothing to offer, anymore.
 

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Haha sorry dude I just replied to you without understanding your comment first.:sweat: Yeah now I see it. Sorry again and yup polyamory is very complicated situation. It not making any sense:mad:_@:

No need to apologize, I make the same sort of mistakes all the time.

I didnt mean to come off with animus either. I type in a stream of thought, so whatever comes to mind gets shats out on my keyboard with no informalities.
 
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