Amanda Todd: Teenager Who Had Chronicled Her Bullying On YouTube Commits Suicide.

[ZK]

Do you have any idea what "Put on a show" means?
Those were the pictures that her friends saw. And it wasn't just her friends, it was everyone she knew.
How would you react to someone who has pictures of herself naked all over Facebook?

Also, I'm using the word "friends" loosely, because she didn't have any.

You act like getting beaten up by a mob is an easy thing to go through.

She can't seek anyone because no one would accept her.

I know the response to such a request: No.
If it was a CP picture of a pair of prepubescent boobs? I'd report it and never mention it again. Facebook tracks your IP; the guy wouldn't have been hard to find. We're talking a year old picture, at best, two years old at worst. It's a shitty thing to have in your book, sure, but that's all it is.
Friends don't come automatically. You seek people out, you don't expect people to seek you out.
It isn't; but it's called 'don't sleep with the guy who has a girlfriend'. 'I thought he liked me' is no excuse. If that was your train of thoughts, you voice your concern.
She never tried, so we'll never know.

 

[Hawker]

She had *** with a guy in a relationship O_O
A year old picture of her boobs was seen by her friends. In response to that, the girl gets a major depression, anxiety, etcetera, and she gets into both drugs and alcohol. Overreacting much?
She 'sits alone' during lunch. What did she expect? If you sit by yourself in the library, people don't come running. You seek people, you don't just expect people to seek your company.
She gets beaten up and drinks bleach.
Her two year old picture is seen by her friends; in response she cuts herself.

Bajebus, she dealt with her situation with all kinds of wrong.

Yes she did that but in comparison to all the other stuff she dealt with, that wasn't as reprehensible. Also to my understanding the guy made the first move in that case. So the girl was young and stupid, and followed the only person who was showing compassion towards her.

I think you are looking this from the wrong perspective. If a person changes schools etc., the reasons for that are probably not something to be taken lightly. All the things that happened between her friends (and others) seeing the pictures and her cutting her arms are probably very depressing events and something you or I can't relate to. Especially when you deal with it all by yourself. She was only in the seventh grade so her mental capacity for dealing with stuff like that hadn't developed enough for situation like that. She was too young to for that sh*t.

The key point for this is the help and compassion of others. Obviously she didn't have any of those and was ashamed of talking to others. Plus it seems many just abandoned her.

 

[ZK]

when a girl like that is in the state she is in and her parent and friends and hospitals leave her alone to her own divices that is the same as letting her die

you dont leave a girl or anyone like that alone you put her in the suicide ward int he hospital until she comes to grips with reality ive spent more then one day in the suicide ward

your words tell me you speak without the experience to back up your words you talk from the point of someone who doesnt know the pain of real depression and anxiety not just im sad for a day real lasting anxiety and depression is no joke

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Don't try to pull the 'experience' card on me, mate.
I coped.
I don't expect everyone to cope, but the self-destructive 'scream for help' is just that; self-destructive.
Most 'depressed' people I know just need space sometimes; it's that simple.

 

[Mischeif Maker]

I know the response to such a request: No.
If it was a CP picture of a pair of prepubescent boobs? I'd report it and never mention it again. Facebook tracks your IP; the guy wouldn't have been hard to find. We're talking a year old picture, at best, two years old at worst. It's a shitty thing to have in your book, sure, but that's all it is.
Friends don't come automatically. You seek people out, you don't expect people to seek you out.
It isn't; but it's called 'don't sleep with the guy who has a girlfriend'. 'I thought he liked me' is no excuse. If that was your train of thoughts, you voice your concern.
She never tried, so we'll never know.

hahaha you must have been one lonely lil sad kid if you never had a girl that age send you some tity pics

and your right it would have been easy to find so why did no one do it.....where were her parents and cops to stand up for her and tell her its all ok we will get through this

you say she needs to ask for help but guess what she did and i have experience in this i have gone to the hospital b4 and said i feel like kiling myself i need help and they turned me away and told me i have to see my familiy doctor so i try to make an appointment he cant see me for 3 weeks then i see him and he says we will send out to get you into a program that takes up to a year on a waiting list

don talk out your ass bro you have no idea who hard help is to get when no one supports you

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Don't try to pull the 'experience' card on me, mate.
I coped.
I don't expect everyone to cope, but the self-destructive 'scream for help' is just that; self-destructive.
Most 'depressed' people I know just need space sometimes; it's that simple.

most depressed ppl you know just space sometimes.......that mean most of the depressed ppl you know are not depressed they are sad... again i say dont talk out your ass bro its embarassing for the rest of us to listen to the things you think you have seen and been through when your words show otherwise

i read you words and it is more then clear that you are trying to speak from experience that your clearly do not have

 

[ZK]

hahaha you must have been one lonely lil sad kid if you never had a girl that age send you some tity pics

and your right it would have been easy to find so why did no one do it.....where were her parents and cops to stand up for her and tell her its all ok we will get through this

you say she needs to ask for help but guess what she did and i have experience in this i have gone to the hospital b4 and said i feel like kiling myself i need help and they turned me away and told me i have to see my familiy doctor so i try to make an appointment he cant see me for 3 weeks then i see him and he says we will send out to get you into a program that takes up to a year on a waiting list

don talk out your ass bro you have no idea who hard help is to get when no one supports you



most depressed ppl you know just space sometimes.......that mean most of the depressed ppl you know are not depressed they are said again i say dont talk out your ass bro its embarassing for the rest of us to listen to the things you think you have seen and been through when your words show otherwise

All I see is you saying "u dun kno wat u talk about cuz u no try urself fak u nd stop having diffrent opinon dan me!"
People cope. You couldn't cope and needed the ward? Fair. Some people, however, catch themselves before they end there O_O Society has dozens of safety-nets for you to use. If you don't use them, you're pretty much raging at society for not seeing through your mask by itself.

 

[SoupAddicttt]

Not trying to be rude or anything but people die everyday. Yes this story is very sad but stuff like this actually happens everyday, there's just a few who know about it. Everyone knows about this one because of the youtube vid. All of those people could really use help, yes, but everyone is making it seem like this girl is the first person ever to die.

 

[Mischeif Maker]

All I see is you saying "u dun kno wat u talk about cuz u no try urself fak u nd stop having diffrent opinon dan me!"
People cope. You couldn't cope and needed the ward? Fair. Some people, however, catch themselves before they end there O_O Society has dozens of safety-nets for you to use. If you don't use them, you're pretty much raging at society for not seeing through your mask by itself.

she didnt have a mask o it was no secret she was suicidal and do you have any idea how hard and long it takes to be granted access to these so called saftey nets

Not trying to be rude or anything but people die everyday. Yes this story is very sad but stuff like this actually happens everyday, there's just a few who know about it. Everyone knows about this one because of the youtube vid. All of those people could really use help, yes, but everyone is making it seem like this girl is the first person ever to die.

not one person anywhere on this page has tried to make it look like she is the only one...so what are you really talking about

 

[ZK]

she didnt have a mask o it was no secret she was suicidal and do you have any idea how hard and long it takes to be granted access to these so called saftey nets

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In West Vancouver born and raised
On the tinychat rooms I spent most of my days
Chilling out, maxing, relaxing all cool
And all showing some tits to see old men drool
When a couple of guys, who were up to no good
Started making trouble in my neighbourhood
I got in one little fight and my mom held a speech
And said "You're going up yo room now and drink some more bleach"

I started doing drugs while slitting my wrist
while people texted "be an hero, it's all that we insist"
If anything I felt the razor gave me pleasure
But I couldn't carry on, I couldn't stand the pressure

I got fed up of one little hater
And I yelled to the bullies "Yo, cunts smell you later!"
I sighed to myself, I had nowhere to go
so I pulled out some clorox and became an hero.

 

[Nova.]

Bullying is awful and I don't condone it. The bullies will get there just deserves. But at the same time I and most of you wont remember this girl in a months time. I don't know her and it wont affect me. This girl is one of the 1.8 people that die every second, or one of the 108 People that die per minute, or 6,461 People that die per hour or one of the 155,060 People that die per day. In that 155,060 people I am certain that there are much worse deaths, that weren't voluntary. Rape/murder/abuse. I can't be worrying about 155,060 people every day, now can I? If it was someone I knew then it would effect me.

 

[SoupAddicttt]

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In West Vancouver born and raised
On the tinychat rooms I spent most of my days
Chilling out, maxing, relaxing all cool
And all showing some tits to see old men drool
When a couple of guys, who were up to no good
Started making trouble in my neighbourhood
I got in one little fight and my mom held a speech
And said "You're going up yo room now and drink some more bleach"

I started doing drugs while slitting my wrist
while people texted "be an hero, it's all that we insist"
If anything I felt the razor gave me pleasure
But I couldn't carry on, I couldn't stand the pressure

I got fed up of one little hater
And I yelled to the bullies "Yo, cunts smell you later!"
I sighed to myself, I had nowhere to go
so I pulled out some clorox and became an hero.

This is really bad but i can't stop laughing. And @MIschief Maker no one made it look like that no, but all i've been hearing about today is this girl.

 

[~Sky~]

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In West Vancouver born and raised
On the tinychat rooms I spent most of my days
Chilling out, maxing, relaxing all cool
And all showing some tits to see old men drool
When a couple of guys, who were up to no good
Started making trouble in my neighbourhood
I got in one little fight and my mom held a speech
And said "You're going up yo room now and drink some more bleach"

I started doing drugs while slitting my wrist
while people texted "be an hero, it's all that we insist"
If anything I felt the razor gave me pleasure
But I couldn't carry on, I couldn't stand the pressure

I got fed up of one little hater
And I yelled to the bullies "Yo, cunts smell you later!"
I sighed to myself, I had nowhere to go
so I pulled out some clorox and became an hero.

It's one thing to disagree with what she did, but to make fun of what she went through, is a really pathetic thing to do.

 

[Mischeif Maker]

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In West Vancouver born and raised
On the tinychat rooms I spent most of my days
Chilling out, maxing, relaxing all cool
And all showing some tits to see old men drool
When a couple of guys, who were up to no good
Started making trouble in my neighbourhood
I got in one little fight and my mom held a speech
And said "You're going up yo room now and drink some more bleach"

I started doing drugs while slitting my wrist
while people texted "be an hero, it's all that we insist"
If anything I felt the razor gave me pleasure
But I couldn't carry on, I couldn't stand the pressure

I got fed up of one little hater
And I yelled to the bullies "Yo, cunts smell you later!"
I sighed to myself, I had nowhere to go
so I pulled out some clorox and became an hero.

well this shows the real person inside of you cant back up his words so he resort to horrible written trollish rap....

Bullying is awful and I don't condone it. The bullies will get there just deserves. But at the same time I and most of you wont remember this girl in a months time. I don't know her and it wont affect me. This girl is one of the 1.8 people that die every second, or one of the 108 People that die per minute, or 6,461 People that die per hour or one of the 155,060 People that die per day. In that 155,060 people I am certain that there are much worse deaths, that weren't voluntary. Rape/murder/abuse. I can't be worrying about 155,060 people every day, now can I? If it was someone I knew then it would effect me.

you dont condone bullying but the words you said on opb is i would have punched her in the face to....be real bro dont be a liar and as i said even if ppl dont remember which i will but even if others dont is is so wrong to show support for a few days and maybe take a look around you at the ppl it only takes a moment to save a life sometimes and if this can do that why insult it

say you dont support bullies you are one of the ones just like the kid or do you deny and say i would have punched her in the face toand you said this b4 you even knew the story .....as you followed this with i hope she lives a happy life like you didnt even know she was dead but you would have punched her in the face 2

This is really bad but i can't stop laughing. And @MIschief Maker no one made it look like that no, but all i've been hearing about today is this girl.

are you slow it is because this thread is about her obviously she will be the focal of the discussion......seriously bro your probably the least educated person i have seen on this thread yet...at least mercy give his opinions in perspetive no matter how much i think he is a fool for them

you just say words and hope they work out

 

[SoupAddicttt]

are you slow it is because this thread is about her obviously she will be the focal of the discussion......seriously bro your probably the least educated person i have seen on this thread yet...at least mercy give his opinions in perspetive no matter how much i think he is a fool for them

you just say words and hope they work out

I'm not talking about this thread only. If you'd really like to know i agree with Mercy (Not the camwhore part though). And gosh you should be talking. You're so obsessed with this thing that you yourself are starting to insult others.

 

[Mischeif Maker]

I'm not talking about this thread only. If you'd really like to know i agree with Mercy (Not the camwhore part though). And gosh you should be talking. You're so obsessed with this thing that you yourself are starting to insult others.

the only ones i have insulted are the ones making light of this situation like mercy and nova who call her a cam ***** and would have punched her in the face

and you said this

but everyone is making it seem like this girl is the first person ever to die.

but that is not the case she is just the most recent face of this problem so excuse ppl if they wanna hornor her in the few days after her death or did you not know this girl died 3 days ago

and you who try to act like

 

[Nova.]

I am tired of translating your posts in the quote, but anyway.

You don't "condone bullying" but what you said on OPB was "I would have punched her in the face too". Be real bro, don't be a liar. As I said even if people don't remember, (which I will) is it so wrong to show support for a few days and maybe take a look around, [you at the ppl it] <[COULD NOT TRANSLATE] only takes a moment to save a life sometimes and if this can do that why insult it.

You say you don't support bullies, yet you are one of the ones, just like the kid. Or do you deny and say I wouldn't have punched her in the face too? And you said this before you even knew the story, as you followed this with "I hope she lives a happy life"; Like you didn't even know she was dead, but you would have punched her in the face too.

I do not condone bullying. I still would have had a fight with the person who cheated with my spouse, although I wouldn't have a group of people with me. I stand by my statement. I did show my support I stated that Karma will have its way with the bullies. I am one of the bullies? So it is bullying to have a fight with the person that cheated with your partner now? The bullying part is doing it in a gang. If anything you are the bully, looking at your posts. Yes I made the mistake of only watching the video and I said that I hope she has a nice life. Now tell me how I am being insulting? It was a mistake.

RIP to the girl and RIP to other 155,059 people that died that day.

 

[AnimeFanGirl4Eva]

Re: RIP Amanda Todd

some of you are going to hate me for writing this but seriously no matter what your going through it shouldnt be enough reason to kill yourself

Personally, I fully agree with your opinion. I feel that you are here in this lifetime for a reason, and that even though you are going through hard times, who really isn't? :/ We all are only human, and yes, life can be stressful and weigh you down heavily, but ALWAYS remember you are stronger than that, and there WILL be people there to always help you in your time of crisis.I had a girl in my HS about 3 years ago commit suicide and it was the worst thing in the world. I felt like I could've done something to help her and it is just so odd talking with her days before she died. I wasn't close with her, but i still felt that, if i know what she was going through, I would have been there to help her. Believe me, committing suicide only causes MORE pain, for all of the love ones that you leave behind. Is is really worth it? Nobody knows what lies behind death and for that matter, I just hope that for those that did commit, find it was worth it. People will always be there for others to talk to, whether it be friends, family, even online friends are there! Never be afraid to speak and even if you feel like no one is listening, they are. Heck, even if you are not religious pray if you need to! it helps ease your mind in ways, just to let all that anxiety, sadness and stress out! There will always be safe havens, you just have to find it.

I feel that if a person is going to commit, I say that they should thoroughly look into the mirror at what you are leaving behind, for you will never get that again. For those that did love you, and for your family and friends that do care, even your pets. Is it really worth putting them through pain? Even after what they at least try to do for you? I feel it is a selfish and selfless act. It solves nothing. Just more pain, for not just that person, but for those that loved that person now. There will always be hard times in this world, but it is up to YOU to be stronger than them. never let life get you down, and never give into them. Don't prove you are weak, show them you are stronger and rise above! I know you can do it! If any of you on here want to talk, hook me up! I will be willing and will be more than happy to help you if it means for you to keep living <3 Someone is always there.

 

[Mischeif Maker]

I am tired of translating your posts in the quote, but anyway.


I do not condone bullying. I still would have had a fight with the person who cheated with my spouse, although I wouldn't have a group of people with me. I stand by my statement. I did show my support I stated that Karma will have its way with the bullies. I am one of the bullies? So it is bullying to have a fight with the person that cheated with your partner now? The bullying part is doing it in a gang. If anything you are the bully, looking at your posts. Yes I made the mistake of only watching the video and I said that I hope she has a nice life. Now tell me how I am being insulting? It was a mistake.

RIP to the girl and RIP to other 155,059 people that died that day.

again as i said your gonna go fight the guy who does not know you over the gurl who betrayed you.....that is a lil boyz perspective you aslo said you hope her life is good meaning you speak b4 you even know which is also just pathetic and insulting

also you wouldnt bring ppl my butt. you think your just so tough but your not

oh oh ya stating karma will get them is such support after you take your lil boyz perspective and lack of knowledge and say you would punch her in the face for trying to connect with someone she thinks likes her and she is unaware of the guyz staus witht his girl cuz he lies

so big bad nova gonna take his tough guy status and go fight an innocent person to prove how hard he is

you aint tough connor is it

 

[~Sky~]

Re: RIP Amanda Todd

Personally, I fully agree with your opinion. I feel that you are here in this lifetime for a reason, and that even though you are going through hard times, who really isn't? :/ We all are only human, and yes, life can be stressful and weigh you down heavily, but ALWAYS remember you are stronger than that, and there WILL be people there to always help you in your time of crisis.I had a girl in my HS about 3 years ago commit suicide and it was the worst thing in the world. I felt like I could've done something to help her and it is just so odd talking with her days before she died. I wasn't close with her, but i still felt that, if i know what she was going through, I would have been there to help her. Believe me, committing suicide only causes MORE pain, for all of the love ones that you leave behind. Is is really worth it? Nobody knows what lies behind death and for that matter, I just hope that for those that did commit, find it was worth it. People will always be there for others to talk to, whether it be friends, family, even online friends are there! Never be afraid to speak and even if you feel like no one is listening, they are. Heck, even if you are not religious pray if you need to! it helps ease your mind in ways, just to let all that anxiety, sadness and stress out! There will always be safe havens, you just have to find it.

I feel that if a person is going to commit, I say that they should thoroughly look into the mirror at what you are leaving behind, for you will never get that again. For those that did love you, and for your family and friends that do care, even your pets. Is it really worth putting them through pain? Even after what they at least try to do for you? I feel it is a selfish and selfless act. It solves nothing. Just more pain, for not just that person, but for those that loved that person now. There will always be hard times in this world, but it is up to YOU to be stronger than them. never let life get you down, and never give into them. Don't prove you are weak, show them you are stronger and rise above! I know you can do it! If any of you on here want to talk, hook me up! I will be willing and will be more than happy to help you if it means for you to keep living <3 Someone is always there.

^^^^All of this.

 

[Punk Hazard]

Re: RIP Amanda Todd

i suffer from serious anxiety and have 4 about 8 years now and i have almost killed myself many times as no one can explain the pain of it and how you feel like youc ant breathe and get dizzy and so much more

anxiety and depression is the worse thing in the world beyond any physical pain and sickness because there is nothing anyone can do to make it better and you cant make it go away

for the rest of my life i will do what i can to stay alive and fight this and do what ic ant o make sure no one else has to feel it because the ppl who feel it are usually the one who care the most for the world

its that care that lets you feel the pain and its not right

Feel for you bro.

I hate what has happened to this.girl. I've never been bullied, but I strongly hate it. I hope that the man that has caused this gets a faith worse than death. I hope he feels the pain Amanda went through, of watching your life fall apart, having all of your friends suddenly hate you, to fall into a place in your life where you don't even want to be alive. I've been there, and I'll tell you, it's hell.

I don't see why those people hated her and bullied her, especially when half of them are probably hoes themselves anyway.

The fact that that bastard was able to use a topless pic of a minor, which is considered child porn, and still walk free sickens me greatly.

 

[Mischeif Maker]

Re: RIP Amanda Todd

Feel for you bro.

I hate what has happened to this.girl. I've never been bullied, but I strongly hate it. I hope that the man that has caused this gets a faith worse than death. I hope he feels the pain Amanda went through, of watching your life fall apart, having all of your friends suddenly hate you, to fall into a place in your life where you don't even want to be alive. I've been there, and I'll tell you, it's hell.

I don't see why those people hated her and bullied her, especially when half of them are probably hoes themselves anyway.

The fact that that bastard was able to use a topless pic of a minor, which is considered child porn, and still walk free sickens me greatly.

thanks for the support and fully agree all these other kids are out doing what she is doinf but because some perv targeted her they mark her different all because her buisness was made public to the world when really i knew gurls at that age would do way worse stuff for alot less in bed ut no one followed then around trying to gt her to killl herself

and ya how this guy is still free is unbeliveable