Quick question #Not about Naruto!!

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It don't work.. If I tell him he says "Don't be jealous" and "Trust me...They're nothing special" ...
Sometimes when I don't give him the attention he wants... It all ends with an angry face... Then he says I don't feel anything about him! But that's not true!!
He doesn't feel anything for me :(
But, I already make my decision! ..I'm gonna break our relationship today!
Thanks for helping!

Its no problem, i really feel sorry for girls in your position, its not nice to be used and i know guys and girls who are in the same boat as you. I think breaking up with him is the right thing to do, he cant get any mixed messages.

Its also worth noting that although you shouldn't gossip about him with others because not only does it give him more attention which he wants, it will actually encourage other girls to go with out with him because of the sympathy factor and him being single.

Just be careful that he doesn't give you the whole sad story, and say that he loves you and all that. Its clear that if he pulls that card this late in the game his is not really interested. A guy who actually wants a girl like you in his position would just want to know why you think this way and not suck up with the bullshit.

Just remember that relationships are a two way thing, he shouldn't be in total control and neither should you. You both need your say and you breaking up is giving you back that control of your life.

Welcome to the world of guys and girls, its tough but its worth it. If you need anything else you are welcome to message me.
 

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Hang on a second! Does the bold part mean that you're with each other in the internet? Or, you catch him behind the back when he's chatting in your room or something? There's a difference.
^^ That's and it wasn't in my room.. :s

@Maderator, Thankyou very much!!! :hug:
 
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That did sound pretty bad didnt it.. :sy:

I am not that bad man, it just helps to spread the love a bit. I would do the same :rolleyes:

I understand your intention man, though I disagree with "rep-seeking". I hate it seriously.
 

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I understand your intention man, though I disagree with "rep-seeking". I hate it seriously.

Thats okay man, i dont do things for the rep, i just appreciate it when its appropriate. The OCD within me just likes every number on the profile to be as large as possible.

Dont get to worked up on stuff like that though, doesn't help getting annoyed on other peoples habits
 

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Really, if he's going to tell other girls that he loves them, he's not worth your time. I understand you love him, but you can do better than someone who is more than willing to hurt you like that. =/
 

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Thats okay man, i dont do things for the rep, i just appreciate it when its appropriate. The OCD within me just likes every number on the profile to be as large as possible.

Dont get to worked up on stuff like that though, doesn't help getting annoyed on other peoples habits

I understand you man, it's just that I usually get worked up pretty fast . Though this seems to be different, so it's my fault. Sorry. :drunk:
 
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@Beca..Thanks, I think you're right :( ..
@Breed, is there something with you :s
 

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Yes, I know.. That's probably the best option :(
 

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Honestly he is an ******* and maybe the other girls feel the same way as you because he tells them the exact same thing
 

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Hmm, yeah that's right... I feel used :s
So everything.. every word he said... I can't stop thinking :(
 

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@Beca..Thanks, I think you're right :( ..
@Breed, is there something with you :s

Yes, the problem is you. You're acting very selfish, break up with him already since it's better this way, it's better to him not to continue the relationship with a girl of your type.
 

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Hmm, yeah that's right... I feel used :s
So everything.. every word he said... I can't stop thinking :(

I know that feeling(happened to me more than once) :( just remember to look for someone who you know is good for you and when i say i know that feeling, i mean that you start realizing that a lot of things he/she said where bullcrap and you feel lied wich is horrible there are not a lot of things to say to you in moments like these, remember or realize that the things he does to people like you, to hurt them is because he has issues and if you stay with him you will only suffer so just look for happines, want it and take time to get over the ******* :)
 

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Yes, the problem is you. You're acting very selfish, break up with him already since it's better this way, it's better to him not to continue the relationship with a girl of your type.

What, is your ****** problem?! It was you who said I schould break up with him and now I'm being "very selfish" ..Do you enjoy making me feel bad..
Please, don't talk about me like you know me! I'm not acting selfish and not being jealous like you said before U_U

I know that feeling(happened to me more than once) :( just remember to look for someone who you know is good for you and when i say i know that feeling, i mean that you start realizing that a lot of things he/she said where bullcrap and you feel lied wich is horrible there are not a lot of things to say to you in moments like these, remember or realize that the things he does to people like you, to hurt them is because he has issues and if you stay with him you will only suffer so just look for happines, want it and take time to get over the ******* :)

Yeah, you're right! Thankyou very much! :)
 

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What, is your ****** problem?! It was you who said I schould break up with him and now I'm being "very selfish" ..Do you enjoy making me feel bad..
Please, don't talk about me like you know me! I'm not acting selfish and not being jealous like you said before U_U

Calm down, Hulk. If you're not able to read other' opinions then don't bother writing. You're acting selfish and jealous since you don't want him to talk with other girls, just because he's your boyfriend. Close-minded.


Do you even know what a "playboy" is? :sy:
 

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Yes, the problem is you. You're acting very selfish, break up with him already since it's better this way, it's better to him not to continue the relationship with a girl of your type.

Calm down, Hulk. If you're not able to read other' opinions then don't bother writing. You're acting selfish and jealous since you don't want him to talk with other girls, just because he's your boyfriend. Close-minded.


Do you even know what a "playboy" is? :sy:

No, you got it wrong.. I don't act like that.. And you're the one who should calm down.. You making me crazy... I only asked one question :shy:..
 
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