Broken Relationships

Why did you break up?

  • My significant other cheated on me.

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • They accused me of something I did not do.

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • My significant other was too controlling.

    Votes: 3 60.0%
  • They lied to me, and I couldn't trust them.

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • I'm afraid of losing them later on, so I just cut it short.

    Votes: 1 20.0%
  • I just didn't love them anymore.

    Votes: 1 20.0%
  • They hurt me too much.

    Votes: 5 100.0%
  • My significant other always talked of their ex's.

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • I went out with this person for the wrong reason.

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • Other.

    Votes: 2 40.0%

  • Total voters
    5
  • Poll closed .
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This is just my venting thread. Everyone's had their down days, their blues with relationships- how does one deal with one's break-ups? Or how are these relationships mended?

I had a fair share of relationships- plenty superficial, and some of them you sort of just start missing the person so much, even just a few hours later from when you broke up with them. To be honest, I cope by role playing, finding outlets to bring romance more into my life- by my simply finding someone or something else to replace that missing hole there. Some people are just oafs!​
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I've only had two relationships in my lifetime, one of which is still going, so I haven't had much experience with getting over bad breakups xD

My ex though, ugh. He was terrible to me. I didn't love him any more by the time we broke up, he's a disgusting human being :/ so that made things easier...it's like I was over it before it happened, sort of.

I had a sort of online relationship once as well, that ended badly >_> but I don't count that one. ;P
 

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I vouch for the video game method too. xD
Nothing like beating up a few monsters on the xbox to calm you down ^_^
 
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I've only had two relationships in my lifetime, one of which is still going, so I haven't had much experience with getting over bad breakups xD

My ex though, ugh. He was terrible to me. I didn't love him any more by the time we broke up, he's a disgusting human being :/ so that made things easier...it's like I was over it before it happened, sort of.

I had a sort of online relationship once as well, that ended badly >_> but I don't count that one. ;P

Aww, that's terrible! Yeah my ex's are creepy. One of them is still stalking me! I know how you feel!
 

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Aww, that's terrible! Yeah my ex's are creepy. One of them is still stalking me! I know how you feel!

Oh god, mine was stalking me for about 9 months after we broke up too >_>
It was all via Facebook though -- he wouldn't come near me irl because my dad had a "word" with him xD
I blocked him via Facebook, and he began using the accounts of mutual friends to creep on me...obsessive much? I'm really not that interesting, LOL.
I'm grateful that he doesn't bother me any more ;/
 
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I KNOW! My ex still e-mails me, so I changed e-mails. What's terrible is that he always tries to make me feel guilty by threatening suicide. ;w;
I told him, I mean- It's not fair for you to be putting such a burden on me, since there are other girls around that would go out with you too, and it's really not my fault. He's such a wuss though, so I doubt he'd do such a thing. He's not emo, which is good. I mean I wouldn't want to know if he died!
 

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I don't have break-ups or relationship problems;

I simply remove all traces of my ex's presence and don't recognize them anymore when the relationship ends or if there is a problem.

If all else fails, i call 911 and say they Spontaneously Combusted.
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What if multiple relationship were going on and some of the issues happened in the same time?
 

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Eh Same thing happened to me once, I really hated that, I told her that if she wanted to kill herself she could do it already what the hell was she waiting for, i wouldnt care if she did, it just proves how pointless their life is if they are willing to go that far for such a simple thing that they can find with somebody else. That was the last time she gave me that suicide crap.

If you're going into gaming i recommend xbox o_O! Resident Evil ftw D:> <3
 

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Well i must say this. I only ever really been completely in love with a girl once's and its the girl i am dating now. Yes we have had our share of arguments and mini separation, but at the end of the day we both realize that we are madly in love with each other, and being far apart just makes us sad in side. When we have a problem with each other we work it out and try not to let it get out of hand, then we compromise with each other.

Other girls i'v dated in the past, i never felt this much passion and love for them as i do this girl. Yes i have had my share of heart breaks but hey i was younger then what did i know then. Now i am older, Mature and very committed to the girl i believe with everything in my heart that she is the one.

I believe People who are in relationships no matter how silly they may get, if they really love each other, they can work out their problems like human beings so their relationship can develop in to a strong one...Just look at me, 2 and a half years and we still going strong.

And yes we met online through a Chinese mmo game.(ironic)
I do rec online dating, It works only as much as you want it to be. Our encounter was not

sought out, it just happens, and i strongly believe things happen for a reason. Living

together in our own places is simply amazing. So guys don't be discourage by online dating.

U_U When she lease expect it, i'll pop the question "shhhh"
 
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Broken relationships is also a result of broken condoms...yeah just further darkening the room..U_U
 

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Eh Same thing happened to me once, I really hated that, I told her that if she wanted to kill herself she could do it already what the hell was she waiting for

EXACTLY.
Drives me crazy when people try the guilt trip card :/ I'm like...move on and leave me alone...
 

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Broken relationships is also a result of broken condoms...yeah just further darkening the room..U_U

There are better methods of contraception though :rolleyes:
 
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Eh Same thing happened to me once, I really hated that, I told her that if she wanted to kill herself she could do it already what the hell was she waiting for, i wouldnt care if she did, it just proves how pointless their life is if they are willing to go that far for such a simple thing that they can find with somebody else. That was the last time she gave me that suicide crap.

If you're going into gaming i recommend xbox o_O! Resident Evil ftw D:> <3

Gee all my friends play that game! Darn, I'm still stuck on the Call of Duty stuff and the Dancing games. C:
 
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Well i must say this. I only ever really been completely in love with a girl once's and its the girl i am dating now. Yes we have had our share of arguments and mini separation, but at the end of the day we both realize that we are madly in love with each other, and being far apart just makes us sad in side. When we have a problem with each other we work it out and try not to let it get out of hand, then we compromise with each other.

Other girls i'v dated in the past, i never felt this much passion and love for them as i do this girl. Yes i have had my share of heart breaks but hey i was younger then what did i know then. Now i am older, Mature and very committed to the girl i believe with everything in my heart that she is the one.

I believe People who are in relationships no matter how silly they may get, if they really love each other, they can work out their problems like human beings so their relationship can develop in to a strong one...Just look at me, 2 and a half years and we still going strong.

And yes we met online through a Chinese mmo game.(ironic)

U_U When she lease expect it, i'll pop the question "shhhh"

Aww, bro. That's so sweet! I hope to find a relationship like that someday as well! They do say love is stronger than death. ^^
 

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There are better methods of contraception though :rolleyes:
People don't want it because it takes most of the pleasure away...or maybe they're amateurs.:cool:
 
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