Mending a broken heart.

[Gouryuuka]

Its hard to find somewhere to express feelings onto. Im usually a man of hidden emotions rather than expressed. But i've liked this girl for years now. We've been seperated by distance and I've never told her how I've felt. For over four years we would be going off and dating other people. Recently, we've been talking much more after about a two year silent period between us. After so many years of failed relatonships, I suddenly felt so in love with (lets call her Girl A) Girl A after we started talking again.

But shes found interest in another guy recently. Ive just been acting happy and giving her advice about going forward with him even though I feel a little destroyed inside. Ive always been a depressed person with a happy image on the outside. Ill probably never tell her my feelings now, for I fear it could ruin our friendship.

This thread is just to help me ease my pain for the time being. I honestly don't have too many ways to vent these emotions off. But for those of you who read this, please be understanding and keep negativity/harsh comments to yourself.

Just let this soul rest a weary heart.

 

[The Demonic Kazekage]

Hey man,when you have a chance tell her how you feel
you could lose her as a friend but love is a gamble
you either roll the dice or lose your turn
and +rep

 

[saaaaaadpanda]

Best of luck to you, I think many of us can understand where you're coming from.

 

[prakashkumar]

emotions are like oxygen if u not repeatedly put it in & out u will die and so as ur feelings

 

[AWSUM SID]

Its hard to find somewhere to express feelings onto. Im usually a man of hidden emotions rather than expressed. But i've liked this girl for years now. We've been seperated by distance and I've never told her how I've felt. For over four years we would be going off and dating other people. Recently, we've been talking much more after about a two year silent period between us. After so many years of failed relatonships, I suddenly felt so in love with (lets call her Girl A) Girl A after we started talking again.

But shes found interest in another guy recently. Ive just been acting happy and giving her advice about going forward with him even though I feel a little destroyed inside. Ive always been a depressed person with a happy image on the outside. Ill probably never tell her my feelings now, for I fear it could ruin our friendship.

This thread is just to help me ease my pain for the time being. I honestly don't have too many ways to vent these emotions off. But for those of you who read this, please be understanding and keep negativity/harsh comments to yourself.

Just let this soul rest a weary heart.

Continue being a good friend and never give up on her. Good things come to those who wait and considering the feelings you seem to have for her i advise you to wait and see how things unfold. Goodluck bro!!!

 

[miZu31]

Hoping for da best outcome!

 

[Colonel Armstrong]

Its hard to find somewhere to express feelings onto. Im usually a man of hidden emotions rather than expressed. But i've liked this girl for years now. We've been seperated by distance and I've never told her how I've felt. For over four years we would be going off and dating other people. Recently, we've been talking much more after about a two year silent period between us. After so many years of failed relatonships, I suddenly felt so in love with (lets call her Girl A) Girl A after we started talking again.

But shes found interest in another guy recently. Ive just been acting happy and giving her advice about going forward with him even though I feel a little destroyed inside. Ive always been a depressed person with a happy image on the outside. Ill probably never tell her my feelings now, for I fear it could ruin our friendship.

This thread is just to help me ease my pain for the time being. I honestly don't have too many ways to vent these emotions off. But for those of you who read this, please be understanding and keep negativity/harsh comments to yourself.

Just let this soul rest a weary heart.

(as a joke) by any chance is the girl your tryna get with named sakura and is your name naruto?? lol...
but nah man i feel you pain(literally) something wild just happened to me like that
just try to take your mind off it, listen to those songs that make you feel good or happy and keep them on replay...then try to talk to the girl and get her deepest feelings just to see if there is still hope

 

[Gouryuuka]

Thank you all for those who reached out to this. I honestly was not expecting many replies but Im glad to see that there are good people in this world. To the post above this one, hahahah i guess you can relate it to the way Naruto and Sakura are like in the anime! I honestly can feel the way Naruto feels about her in the same way I feel about this girl.


My ipod is all on replay right now with the best songs I have found to cheer me up.

 

['Toxic]

She's not yet with him, is she truly serious about him?.you know, you still have a chance. Don't wait till the day that she's getting married to him..then you will regret it. Try to win her over..she's not dating the dude.
anyways Nothing's fair in love and war...so best luck. Don't give up if you feel strongly about her.

 

[Gouryuuka]

She's not yet with him, is she truly serious about him?.you know, you still have a chance. Don't wait till the day that she's getting married to him..then you will regret it. Try to win her over..she's not dating the dude.
anyways Nothing's fair in love and war...so best luck. Don't give up if you feel strongly about her.

Right now she's seriously liking this guy from the way she talks about him to me. The way shes talking about him sounds like she really wants to be with him, considering on dating him in between college and whatnot.


I've been trying to win her as much as possible hahah. But alas, I think Im being friend-zoned or something. You are definitely correct, nothing is ever fair in love and war hahaha. I'm fine with suffering in silence and being there for her along the way. If i lose her as a friend it'd be more devastating than not winning her heart as my significant other.