Why are girls so complicated?

[darth mik3]

We are just so oblivious and they expect us to understand their unspoken language and meet their hidden expectations.

hidden expectations. exactly! she wanted me to meet one of her hidden expectations of hers. pretty dum because when i nailed it she told me i nailed only half of it and got mad. like wtf am i supposed to be? i cant possibly know everything she expects but i try my best and i let her know that.
and it turns out this thing she expected of me didnt turn out in her favor and she got mad haha. well f**k isnt that dandy lol. that to me is some complicated stuff right there.

 

[benIncher]

Woman are more emotionally in tune than males, especially socially. The more emotion involved the more there is to think about. You're worried about your relationship, so is she but since she is effected by emotions more than us dead headed males she stresses and worries more.

It isn't that she can't come up with the right answer or that she's complicated, it's that she cares so much that she thinks so much and worries so much more.

Speak for yourself. I'm male and have no trouble understanding women, probably because I actually listen. generally men let there minds wonder and don't listen to what someone is saying.
Also, society punish's emotional males and men are taught not to release what they feel. This is a stupid practice, men should be allowed to cry and show emotion just as much as women. If you watch a film about a man losing a women, he'll usually go kill some idiots, whereas the same film with a woman losing her man, she'll go spend time with her friends and talk about how she feels. This gives us a bad ideology about how we should deal with an emotional situation.
Men need to man up and listen to what people say, instead of nodding your head saying yes, while in your minds you are imaging riding a lion into a medieval battle and commanding hawks to blind your super strong foes.

 

[darth mik3]

Speak for yourself. I'm male and have no trouble understanding women, probably because I actually listen. generally men let there minds wonder and don't listen to what someone is saying.
Also, society punish's emotional males and men are taught not to release what they feel. This is a stupid practice, men should be allowed to cry and show emotion just as much as women. If you watch a film about a man losing a women, he'll usually go kill some idiots, whereas the same film with a woman losing her man, she'll go spend time with her friends and talk about how she feels. This gives us a bad ideology about how we should deal with an emotional situation.
Men need to man up and listen to what people say, instead of nodding your head saying yes, while in your minds you are imaging riding a lion into a medieval battle and commanding hawks to blind your super strong foes.

BRO! i try to listen to her and sometimes i get where she is coming from. but sometimes she honestly does not make any sense. end result=:flaw:

 

[Ebi..]

"some time alone"

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[Shinobi Train]

So im with this girl and im in love. we have been together for almost a year now and a lot has happened. recently things got a little complicated and she said she needs a some time alone. she says she doesnt want to lose me at any costs but she needs this time away from me to think.
im a guy and this is tearing me up because i think pretty straightforward. why are women so complicated??

Sir, you've asked a question that not even the greatest male minds throughout history have been able to answer. It will always remain a mystery, but the key to any relationship is to simply let her be in charge; trust me, the boat floats a lot better that way. Am I right, ladies?

 

[zayYz]

baylife bro thats how they are

 

[Ashflura]

Then I suggest have the patience, it's like when you spend time with someone too much, and you just need a day or two away from seeing someone to relax. It can do wonders, your girl will hopefully come around - you have to learn to work with her on the same wavelength.
You sound like you really love your girl, and she sounds the same in return. Just hang in the background for a couple of days, show your still around with a few little things like offering to walk her to a place or call her after work or something...but keep it minimal and then surprise her with dinner or something after a hard working day?

 

[~Yubel~]

Girls aren't complicated dude, they're actually quite easy if you know what you're doing.

 

[monkeymasher]

she might just need some time to think and sort things out in her head if you push to much you might end up pushing her away tell her you always here for her when she needs you

 

[~Yubel~]

You know what dude? Just lock her in the kitchen and let her think there.

 

[NarutoFactoid]

i browsed through this thread and i'm not hearing any actual advice. aside from let it be, we really have no idea. So

First I wanna say i'm in no position to judge what is ACTUALLY going on with the 2 of you and i'm in no position to know what your trust level is.

Based on the info you gave us. AS GUYS. I can only speculate. Something is obviously wrong. What level of a problem it is. You have to ask and be up front. That is the mans approach. We conduct ourselves with logic and reason while they come up with reasons for how your not paying enough attention to them. (slight joke there). But seriously your only clue atm is "she doesn't want to lose you" and she "needs space".

She might be interested in another guy. Maybe she cheated on you. Or she's moving out of town. Or she's got a terminal illeness. It could be a lot of things. You have to talk to her about it.

I hope you don't do anything desperate based on online advice but thats the way it is when u ask online i guess. blunt. gl brother.

Sir, you've asked a question that not even the greatest male minds throughout history have been able to answer. It will always remain a mystery, but the key to any relationship is to simply let her be in charge; trust me, the boat floats a lot better that way. Am I right, ladies?

Hmmm yea i'll take a crack at it.

Why are girls so complicated? Lets add some context to that question
What are they thinking?
What do they want?

And since this is obviously a brainstorm for men/boys. We're gonna omit lesbians and other from this convo. the type of women you need. Follow these guidlines and advice.

What do women want?
They want orgasms. (who the **** doesn't)

They want a man. Lemme say that again. They want A MAN. So be a man. In every way shape and form.

What are they thinking?
I want A MAN.

The complicated part? it takes work.

(in depth analysis of the touchy feely things has been passed up for short crappy jokes because its 6am in the morning with no sleep.)

 

[Mr PLATINUM]

move on.... plenty of fish in the sea.

 

[Black Adam]

are they?

 

[darth mik3]

Hmmm yea i'll take a crack at it.

Why are girls so complicated? Lets add some context to that question
What are they thinking?
What do they want?

And since this is obviously a brainstorm for men/boys. We're gonna omit lesbians and other from this convo. the type of women you need. Follow these guidlines and advice.

What do women want?
They want orgasms. (who the **** doesn't)

They want a man. Lemme say that again. They want A MAN. So be a man. In every way shape and form.

What are they thinking?
I want A MAN.

The complicated part? it takes work.

(in depth analysis of the touchy feely things has been passed up for short crappy jokes because its 6am in the morning with no sleep.)

good post lol. but yea i meet all the requirements. all i need is the get to work part lol

 

[ZK]

There's so much testosterone in this thread, it's like I'm walking on a cloud of shitty advice and obliviousness.
Listen to the females, they know. Don't do the kitchen thing, it's not even funny anymore. Listen to your girl, contrary to popular beliefs she'll tell you what's wrong. Don't push, you'll end up being kicked in the balls either literally or figuratively.

 

[ChrisWolf]

So im with this girl and im in love. we have been together for almost a year now and a lot has happened. recently things got a little complicated and she said she needs a some time alone. she says she doesnt want to lose me at any costs but she needs this time away from me to think.
im a guy and this is tearing me up because i think pretty straightforward. why are women so complicated??

Threads like this really annoy me, I am guy ad fully understand girls lol no I'm not gay, you wanna know my secret? I kelp this simple fact in mind.....girls want emotional fullfillment as much as we want sexual fullfillment....use that comparison and you'll understand their not complicated to crazy, they just need love, real love, it becomes easy to understand them once you get that

 

[ZK]

Threads like this really annoy me, I am guy ad fully understand girls lol no I'm not gay, you wanna know my secret? I kelp this simple fact in mind.....girls want emotional fullfillment as much as we want sexual fullfillment....use that comparison and you'll understand their not complicated to crazy, they just need love, real love, it becomes easy to understand them once you get that

Listen to this guy O_O The smile means more than you think.

 

[hateful]

She might be seeing someone new(on the side), you must have said/done something really stupid. Or she doesn't fell the same way about you as she once did.

 

[NarutoFactoid]

Threads like this really annoy me, I am guy ad fully understand girls lol no I'm not gay, you wanna know my secret? I kelp this simple fact in mind.....girls want emotional fullfillment as much as we want sexual fullfillment....use that comparison and you'll understand their not complicated to crazy, they just need love, real love, it becomes easy to understand them once you get that

Being in touch with your feelings and a good listener. Understanding women. Is not the same as being successful with them. PANDERING to those needs is not exactly the anwser.

The more you know, and knowledge is power. But seriously.

It gets to the point where girls will be girls and boys will be boys. Don't overcomplicate it.

 

[NoMoreLove]

i'm pretty good with women to be honest my friend, I'd say show that you still love her and wanna be with her but only in a subtle way. make sure she doesn't forget about you