something ive come to learn about women in general

[shukuzu]

ok im sure all of you have heard the saying, 'nice guys finish last". Ya know ive never really understood what that meant till a few life experiences. For some reason women(most of them not all) love guys that seem like they dont give a ****. I know some of the nicest guys that do anything for their girls but they always leave them for the A-holes just to end up being treated like crap. that really puzzled me for a while. I think I know why. its all about the dominance factor. If a women feels like she has u in the palm of her hand she will lose attraction to you. You have to make her seem like, yeah i love you, but that don't mean you the only fish in the sea women. and something about that draws them to you. like they feel like they have to have what they feel like they cant have or may lose. which is why when a guy is just too nice they get bored and go to the A-hole that gives he more excitement and more of a chase. well thats what I think, what do you guys think?

And this post isnt for little kids because im pretty sure you are no where near close to figuring out women:kagutsuchi:

 

[Prime Rib]

very true better to treat women like crap then be alone

 

[Darthlawsuit]

Hell if I know, the only thing I can think of is this: Some women are smart and go with the nice guys. They end up happy and off the market quickly. Some women like the excitement or maby their just dumb. Others seem to just want to have a change of pace all of the time.

 

[shukuzu]

yeah but thats the weird part. i like being a nice guy, that is just me naturally, but in all honesty it hasn't gotten me anywhere-_-

 

[Darthlawsuit]

yeah but thats the weird part. i like being a nice guy, that is just me naturally, but in all honesty it hasn't gotten me anywhere-_-

Perhaps you are attracted to the women that like changing men or like bad boys?

Also it is sometimes good to let your instincts take over :noc:

Edit: Do you sit there agreeing and offering no challenges to women? I have heard often women hate people that do not challenge them...

 

[Rorasa]

weird...i think it's the other way around...

 

[Mandy]

I have to agree that a lot of them do go for the bad guys even in their 20's they're still going for the bad guys after a series of bad relationships and then they're in their 40's single with 10 cats wondering, "Where did I go wrong?!"

 

[shukuzu]

Perhaps you are attracted to the women that like changing men or like bad boys?

Also it is sometimes good to let your instincts take over :noc:

thats funny ud say that. I find myself always attracted to the women with the thousand one problems. if its they were molested when they were little, its they were abused, or no fathers, or whatever else the case my be. its always something that i wont find out till months later when the real person shows its face

 

[kiragaaraisME]

*doesnt know what to say*

 

[Jack Spicer]

Every person is different. There is the general idea and I don't like to roll with it, but that is the general concept overall. I just be myself. If I'm alone for that, then so be it, you know?


I agree with what CM Punk said, #IDigCrazyChicks.

 

[Darthlawsuit]

weird...i think it's the other way around...

Really? So it looks the same from the womens side....

Perhaps it is that the most active people in dating tend to be people looking for bad ones XD. Just speculation on my part.

I have to agree that a lot of them do go for the bad guys even in their 20's they're still going for the bad guys after a series of bad relationships and then they're in their 40's single with 10 cats wondering, "Where did I go wrong?!"

Any idea why? Or are they too dumb to comprehend.

 

[shukuzu]

its usually when the women get older they begin to realize that chasing bad boys wont get them that stable environment that they seek in their life. ya know a husband, house, kids(meaning all in one) but by that time.....its too late lol

 

[Mandy]

Really? So it looks the same from the womens side....

Perhaps it is that the most active people in dating tend to be people looking for bad ones XD. Just speculation on my part.



Any idea why? Or are they too dumb to comprehend.

Girls go for looks. We're shallow no matter how much we deny we aren't. Whether it's height, weight, or just little quirks, we are and a lot of them go for the looks. I would know I was like that too -.-

Some guys when they get a lot of female attention and they become a**holes and the ones that aren't exactly "popular" with the ladies don't get that much attention so they cherish a woman.

I say that guys are part to blame as well o:

(I'm not in any sides and nor do I believe those stereotypes, just saying what I've seen ^-^)

 

[Maboroshi]

Girls go for looks. We're shallow no matter how much we deny we aren't. Whether it's height, weight, or just little quirks, we are and a lot of them go for the looks. I would know I was like that too -.-

Some guys when they get a lot of female attention and they become a**holes and the ones that aren't exactly "popular" with the ladies don't get that much attention so they cherish a woman.

I say that guys are part to blame as well o:

(I'm not in any sides and nor do I believe those stereotypes, just saying what I've seen ^-^)

Not exactly true. I personaly know a guy who is not that atractive, but he treats women like shit, and they are all chasing after him. My brother, on the other hand, is much better looking than that person, but he is ultra nice and girls allways put him in the friend zone. Interesting story is that one day, my brother was in the bad mood ( which happens rarely ), so he behaved a little rude - two girls started to flirt with him ​

 

[Mandy]

Not exactly true. I personaly know a guy who is not that atractive, but he treats women like shit, and they are all chasing after him. My brother, on the other hand, is much better looking than that person, but he is ultra nice and girls allways put him in the friend zone. Interesting story is that one day, my brother was in the bad mood ( which happens rarely ), so he behaved a little rude - two girls started to flirt with him ​

Yes I've also seen lots of those cases and maybe I'm overestimating women o.o
and about your brother :sy: I guess girls can be pretty dumb. I'm not all into dating and all that but I gotta admit even my friends are stupid as hell U_U

 

[Tobione]

when you ask for advice on women in anaruto forum your gunna have a bad time.....

 

[Darthlawsuit]

Yes I've also seen lots of those cases and maybe I'm overestimating women o.o
and about your brother :sy: I guess girls can be pretty dumb. I'm not all into dating and all that but I gotta admit even my friends are stupid as hell U_U

How often does this happen? I have seen it often but I figured it was just a bunch of Ino's and Sakura's. Like a small subsection of women that you just see non-stop and jump ships all the time, not a large portion of the female population.

 

[Mandy]

How often does this happen? I have seen it often but I figured it was just a bunch of Ino's and Sakura's. Like a small subsection of women that you just see non-stop and jump ships all the time, not a large portion of the female population.

Very often, it kinda starts out in high school and then girls just continue it college and even after that and you'd think they get smarter after college... some do but some never learn and hahaha Ino's and Sakura's xd

 

[Uchiha Riyo]

 

[Hanabi legendary Kunoichi]

Not exactly true. I personaly know a guy who is not that atractive, but he treats women like shit, and they are all chasing after him. My brother, on the other hand, is much better looking than that person, but he is ultra nice and girls allways put him in the friend zone. Interesting story is that one day, my brother was in the bad mood ( which happens rarely ), so he behaved a little rude - two girls started to flirt with him ​

Insest fetish, had to say it. >.< any-who like Jack Spicer said, its all about preference. Girls and guys all differ in personality, emotion, life experiences, biology. There could be reason for that you could figure out by looking at you society area. Also it could just be that you tend to notice that more then normal relations. personally I could care less about gender, our biology is not all that different.