That's an opinion. Those who seek lust will in fact go for the physical attraction. Those who seek personality will only go for their personality. I've had many relationships, offline and online. Currently in one that's been going for 10 months and I've made plans to go see her in a few months. So all in all, it's worked out great, absolutely better than any relationship I've had physically. That's because I got to know her personality completely, not her body and us getting to know each other so well is what's made the relationship so strong. It's basically choosing love over lust, and that's what makes it such a great relationship. Not to mention, when you do meet that person, you feel great being with them because you know everything about them after all the time you spent getting to know them. Therefore, you can then be physical, while having a even more perfect relationship.
I don't think so. By physical contact I'm not talking about feeling each other up. I just mean talking to each other while being around each other. hatting with someone online doesn't give people the same satisfaction as chatting with people in rl. It's those moments that you share with each other that are really engraved in ones memory. two people who go out will have a deeper appreciation than two people who talk about going out.
Your attitude about this is very naive. The "fairytale" which you described in your earlier post is very rare in these cases. But the other example you mentioned is in fact what those internet datings really are.
I believe you do not realise the meaning of real relationship or you fail to see the context.
And it's not about love lol...that's also a thing that an inexperienced person would say. I doubt people actually love someone they haven't even met irl. They just create this fantasy about him/her but that's not love.
I don't think so. By physical contact I'm not talking about feeling each other up. I just mean talking to each other while being around each other. hatting with someone online doesn't give people the same satisfaction as chatting with people in rl. It's those moments that you share with each other that are really engraved in ones memory. two people who go out will have a deeper appreciation than two people who talk about going out.
Your attitude about this is very naive. The "fairytale" which you described in your earlier post is very rare in these cases. But the other example you mentioned is in fact what those internet datings really are.
I believe you do not realise the meaning of real relationship or you fail to see the context.
And it's not about love lol...that's also a thing that an inexperienced person would say. I doubt people actually love someone they haven't even met irl. They just create this fantasy about him/her but that's not love.
I agree with Swiz and that's what I'm going for here.
Internet relationships are just that. Nothing more, and it's very different irl.
lol, you have no idear what love is, the only thing you probably think about is having *** with a girl, and wanking all day long, unfortunately for you "most" Girls arent like that, they see more levels of Love, end of Discussion
lol, you have no idear what love is, the only thing you probably think about is having *** with a girl, and wanking all day long, unfortunately for you "most" Girls arent like that, they see more levels of Love, end of Discussion
If you enjoy talking with someone and like them, why not? I suppose most online relationships don't move past that, but there are plenty that do. If two people like each other they can make it work.
Ok.... I talk to girls without thinking about *** maybe because you can't control your sexual urges you're taking it out on people. Seriously though I hope you don't think this is true. You must be one hell of an idiot if you think all guys are looking for is ***. The true mark of desperation would be trying to hook up with a girl on the net and claim it's true love.
I personally don't like, and wouldn't do it, I don't know for me, it just feels a little weird. But for the people, that have found love online. Happy for each of them.
agreed.. falling in love from a far can be really odd, an really painful .. sometimes it can happen without you meaning too.. i don't like it because my heart would be in much pain
Ok.... I talk to girls without thinking about *** maybe because you can't control your sexual urges you're taking it out on people. Seriously though I hope you don't think this is true. You must be one hell of an idiot if you think all guys are looking for is ***. The true mark of desperation would be trying to hook up with a girl on the net and claim it's true love.
lol, you have no idear what love is, the only thing you probably think about is having *** with a girl, and wanking all day long, unfortunately for you "most" Girls arent like that, they see more levels of Love, end of Discussion
Listen kid, don't tell me that I have no idea of something. I wasn't talking about girls perspective of love. I was talking about what happens when internet dating is being put in a practical sense.
And relationships have always two persons so why are you babbling about what girls think? lol you aren't even a girl.
You seem to lack common sense and age so I understand why you didn't get this.
Oh, please, who are you to tell me what's wrong or right. And who are you to judge me. Everyone got their own opinion and that's why I left my personal comment without quoting anyone else, even if I wanted to do so. And I did that for the only reason that I didn't want to start an arguing with someone because I know this always ends up bad.
You started it mister. And I wouldn't mind it either if you'd just tell that you didn't agree with me but no, you had to to state in an outrageous way just to point out that you are right and I am wrong. Anyway what makes you sure that I am wrong? Who knows, maybe you're the one having it wrong.
And I don't know what love is, right? Well, to tell you sir, I was talking by my personal experience, because I had half-started a relationship in the net and guess what, it ended up in the worst way.
Each person has their own opinion on what love is, and based on that they take their decisions about their life.
Well, then again, if I am wrong enlighten me with what love is. But make sure that you know the difference between a real love and an online chatting in the net. Because, yeah, I know that there are many amazing people out there, that are great friends for me and support me in every moment I need them. But there are also fake people that have failed in their life, and what they do, come online and pretend to be someone they're not.
As a conclusion, I wanted to say that online love can exist but it really is hard to keep decent and be loyal to the person you love. If you love someone in the net, sure, chat and get to know well, but if you never meet each other in real life, then that relationship and that love is destinated to fail. And don't ask me why because the reasons are quite obvious.
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I sure didn't expect this from your part, quoting me along all those people that thought the same as me.
That is so wrong on so many levels. You do not have to have physical contact to be in love with someone. The difference between a friend and boyfriend is that you love your friend but can be in love with your boyfriend.
Hmmm~ If I am to compare, I think there are many differences between dating over the net and dating irl.
First it is obvious that physical contact plays its role when it comes to a relationship, as it is based on memories. I dislike being too scientific about it, but we tend to remember things more clearly when there are more than one sense being stimulated, thus I believe that we would be able to somehow create a feeling of 'being closer', by just physically being near someone. Be it through seeing someone or touching them etc., this can't be done through a keyboard and a screen.
This is just a feeling though, and what point I make is that I think it'd be easier to create this feeling through physical contact, though I can't say I think it impossible to be close to someone by contact over the net.
Appearances, for example, is one thing hindering closeness when it comes to the physical-contact kind of relationship. This barrier, as I see it, is far less present over the net as compared to real life interactions. All this facilitates for a closeness you wouldn't normally have with someone otherwise, since we have to consider a lot less when in front of a screen, regarding appearance.
About love, I don't really think I understand it, and as far as I'm concerned, about 99% of the things being said about love, I could explain to you why it isn't love.
Listen kid, don't tell me that I have no idea of something. I wasn't talking about girls perspective of love. I was talking about what happens when internet dating is being put in a practical sense.
And relationships have always two persons so why are you babbling about what girls think? lol you aren't even a girl.
You seem to lack common sense and age so I understand why you didn't get this.
lol, its often the case when one have nothing to say, they result to using the "kid" scenario, im not a kid, in fact im older than you, your misjudgement shows your own lack of common sense and the signs of prejudice!
lol, its often the case when one have nothing to say, they result to using the "kid" scenario, im not a kid, in fact im older than you, your misjudgement shows your own lack of common sense and the signs of prejudice!
actions speak louder than words, for instance your insults say a lot about your maturity level
and i could say the same thing about you, because if i had to judge you simply by your mental capacity, you do not seem 22, more like 15, but i dont, because im sure there is more to you than just this
actions speak louder than words, for instance your insults say a lot about your maturity level
and i could say the same thing about you, because if i had to judge you simply by your mental capacity, you do not seem 22, more like 15, but i dont, because im sure there is more to you than just this
2. Because you think I have, you lack common sense.
Yea yea, say the same things I said, real smart and original. You still haven't adressed any of the actual points made by me and Swiz, you just replied with some naive statements and the only backing up for them was some "fairytail" and some halfassed "truths" about girls perspective on love.
