What Should I do about this girl?

NarutoLuffy313

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A few weeks I made a theard and i got great advice.
Here is the theard:

I asked the girl out but i got rejected lol xd. She never answered my question.
All she did was try to change the subject. I try to talk to her but she ignores me and doesn't respond anything I say. I don't even if we are still friends.

But I took all that like a man :scorps:

I still feel sad :(
So should I just ignore her also and never talk to her?
 

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Just ignore her... don't feel depressed and just move on with ur life.
Easier said than done tho ;)
 

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She obviously doesn't want to reject you.
Maybe she thinks that it could hurt you or something but people don't realize that waiting for an answer is even worse than getting rejected.
 

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Just ignore her... don't feel depressed and just move on with ur life.
Easier said than done tho ;)

Lol thanks, it is easier said than done. I have to see her everyday at school.

She obviously doesn't want to reject you.
Maybe she thinks that it could hurt you or something but people don't realize that waiting for an answer is even worse than getting rejected.

Yeah i think your right. I knew she meant no so i just played along with her to see where it went but she never answered.
 

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Maybe she doesnt want to hurt your feelings,maybe she is not into you,like this girl i asked out on valentine she completly ignored me,after a while i discovered that she had a boy to go out with on valentine, just move on or ask her why she is ignoring you.
 

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Hey dude what you need to do is just chill. You have already told her your feelings okay.
So now you need to wait becoz if you try to bug her again and again she will not think good of you so try to chill out if she has any feelings for you she will reply you even after 1 month and if she doesnt likes you she will not even bother rplyng you so its just upto you how you maintain your calm handle the situation and i can understand u love her truly but this is how girls are and you need to be patient
 

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Hey dude what you need to do is just chill. You have already told her your feelings okay.
So now you need to wait becoz if you try to bug her again and again she will not think good of you so try to chill out if she has any feelings for you she will reply you even after 1 month and if she doesnt likes you she will not even bother rplyng you so its just upto you how you maintain your calm handle the situation and i can understand u love her truly but this is how girls are and you need to be patient

Lol i guess your right. I really didn't bother her. Maybe i'll just ignore her for a couple weeks.
I already dated her before.

Maybe she doesnt want to hurt your feelings,maybe she is not into you,like this girl i asked out on valentine she completly ignored me,after a while i discovered that she had a boy to go out with on valentine, just move on or ask her why she is ignoring you.

I tried to ask her why but she ignored me so i just stop bothering her.
 
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Maybe she doesnt want to hurt your feelings,maybe she is not into you,like this girl i asked out on valentine she completly ignored me,after a while i discovered that she had a boy to go out with on valentine, just move on or ask her why she is ignoring you.
 

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You might have to join the Illuminati.

I would.



Also to the thread maker, it sucks, but the best thing to do is try to keep the friendship. Don't endlessly go after her, but keep the relationship like it was. Maybe she'll return the feelings one day, but it could be too late then. Tough situation, but just be friends with her and move on to other girls. In the end, you get a friend+a girlfriend, or just a friend, or maybe the friend will be your girlfriend. Many outcomes. Good luck!
 

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Man, listen to me and move on. single life rocks. Girls are so much drama..stupid romance U_U stupid love. F*ck it all. (just sayin')
 

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I would.



Also to the thread maker, it sucks, but the best thing to do is try to keep the friendship. Don't endlessly go after her, but keep the relationship like it was. Maybe she'll return the feelings one day, but it could be too late then. Tough situation, but just be friends with her and move on to other girls. In the end, you get a friend+a girlfriend, or just a friend, or maybe the friend will be your girlfriend. Many outcomes. Good luck!

Speaking of friendship, she just texted me right now lol. We are still friends
Lol i feel so happy like a boss.:scorps:

Man, listen to me and move on. single life rocks. Girls are so much drama..stupid romance U_U stupid love. F*ck it all. (just sayin')

I wouldn't go that far to say romance and love are stupid. But the rest i agree on.
 

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Close your eyes, take a deep breath. And then roll your shoulders and keep it moving, If she doesn't want to be with you, she doesn't want to be with you. There is not much (if anything) that you can do or say that will get her to change her mind or get her to tell you why. So, with that being said look around and try to get to know other females that go to your school. Go out on a date or ten, enjoy yourself (in every meaning of the word) and in no time this little event won't even register as a blip in your memory. As for your friend (?) chances are you two are no longer going as close as you once were. And if by some infinitesimal chance, she wants to start being in you life again, first thing you should tell her is anything involving your love life is none of her business or concern.
Whatever relationship you two had before in the past is going to stay exactly where it's at: The Past.
 
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