If Marriage Didn't Exist?

[lswhyte123]

Would you invent it?​

Would you think to yourself...?
"This love that we have is so great,that I think we should get lawyers involved and both sign contracts n S***!!!!"​

To any Mods: Do not close this thread. It has valid points to make and hurts no one.​

 

[Swizzik]

Free love bitches or if you really like someone then just live in their house with them.

 

[Cassiopeia]

Marriage is entering into a contract. Contracts provide (at least a sense) some security for people. It is the reason contracts were invented. So, someone somewhere would create it or something like it.

 

[Swizzik]

Marriage is entering into a contract. Contracts provide (at least a sense) some security for people. It is the reason contracts were invented. So, someone somewhere would create it or something like it.

The only contract I could ever sign when it comes to marriage is a prenuptial agreement.

 

[lswhyte123]

Marriage is entering into a contract. Contracts provide (at least a sense) some security for people. It is the reason contracts were invented. So, someone somewhere would create it or something like it.

The question is,would you?

If you are/were in Love,would you think to yourself.

"This love is great but to make sure it never ends,even if we grow tired of each other,I want to pay lawyers to bind us into a permanent contract and waste roughly £10,000/$13,000...."

 

[CraigB]

You can get married to anything these days. It's lost all it's meaning to me so no.

 

[Cassiopeia]

The question didn't say create out of love.
Marriage was (and is in some places) still used as a means to unite families, create bonds and secure family lines.
So, say I wanted to do that, then yes, I would of course seek to secure something like it and therefore "create it" as you say.
In present day, as things are, I am cautious not to carelessly enter into marriage. Because I believe in marriage & I don't want to hastefully undertake such a engagement. ​

 

[Revyy]

Marriage is nothing but a title. If you really Love each other to hell with marriage.

 

[lswhyte123]

The question didn't say create out of love.
Marriage was (and is in some places) still used as a means to unite families, create bonds and secure family lines.
So, say I wanted to do that, then yes, I would of course seek to secure something like it and therefore "create it" as you say.
In present day, as things are, I am cautious not to carelessly enter into marriage. Because I believe in marriage & I don't want to hastefully undertake such a engagement. ​

I can't help but feel you are missing the point.

If Marriage didn't exist at all and never had and the concept hadn't ever been thought of. Would you create or think of it?

 

[Sasunarufan13]

I wouldn't. Simply for the fact that I don't believe in that. I don't see the point of it so I would never create it if it never existed ^^

 

[Cassiopeia]

Would you invent it?​

Would you think to yourself...?
"This love that we have is so great,that I think we should get lawyers involved and both sign contracts n S***!!!!"​

To any Mods: Do not close this thread. It has valid points to make and hurts no one.​

Maybe you should spell out exactly what you want to hear so people could tell you.
As is, this is not very thorough. You keep expecting "Fuji" apples when all you asked for were just apples. ​

 

[mcchikeneater]

I don't need to marry my woman, shes attached to the end of my right arm forever.

 

[Abysmal.]

Then slaverly will truly have been rid off...

 

[Universal Enlightenment]

Then slaverly will truly have been rid off...

xd :rofl:

 

['Kurapika]

Marriage is entering into a contract. Contracts provide (at least a sense) some security for people. It is the reason contracts were invented. So, someone somewhere would create it or something like it.

can't you see how hard it is to read this?
you're personality and style of writing should be the thing that set's you apart from the rest of NB, not the glow effect.

 

[lswhyte123]

Maybe you should spell out exactly what you want to hear so people could tell you.
As is, this is not very thorough. You keep expecting "Fuji" apples when all you asked for were just apples. ​

You're not the brightest...nevermind.

The question is simply and perfectly direct. You seem to not be able to understand it but that's your issue.

Don't try and find a hidden meaning,cause there isn't one.

 

[RAMENATOR]

xd :rofl:

can't you see how hard it is to read this?
you're personality and style of writing should be the thing that set's you apart from the rest of NB, not the glow effect.

SPAM ^^ :|


OT: I'm surprised it hasn't been abolished really (In the USA). In my opinion Marriage agreements were the result of the Churches so with separation of church and state, I'm surprised there isn't a heavy outcry. (Sarcasm)

In my eyes (mine, not yours, not someone else, but mine), the only thing that matters is that God recognizes the relationship. As far as legal agreements, I don't necessarily care. Should this opinion be placed on everyone else? No. It's my view and it applies to me.

 

[Hawker]

If marriage didn't exist there would be alot more happy men in this world.

 

['Kurapika]

You're not the brightest...nevermind.

The question is simply and perfectly direct. You seem to not be able to understand it but that's your issue.

Don't try and find a hidden meaning,cause there isn't one.

i wouldn't comment on other people's intelligence if i were you >_>
but if you must, try not to sound stupid in the process by saying "nevermind" then talking afterwards.

 

[lswhyte123]

i wouldn't comment on other people's intelligence if i were you >_>
but if you must, try not to sound stupid in the process by saying "nevermind" then talking afterwards.

The question is simple. There is no reason why anyone shouldn't understand or should try and look deeper.

It is what it is...

Hawker: I think men & women would be happier. This feeling we have that our lives or our relationship isn't complete without it,is ridiculous.
It is an outdated concept. One we should no longer cling to or try to find meaning in. When you get married,nothing physically or emotionally changes,nor should it.