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Tell him you're tired of his childish games and that you can do better. Don't let him get to you, he's the one messing things up. Kick his ass to the curb! Tell him it's over and if he can't except that then oh well, it's your decision to end it, just as much as he could do the same. Good luck with that :)
 

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he asked me to the movies so I went but he kept trying to kiss me and every time he did I pulled away then his hands were trying to go south so I moved two seats down...but anway after the movie (all his friends and my cousin was with us) I told him it was over and to never talk to me again. he thought I was playing and tried to kiss me and I slaped him (though I would have liked to kick him in his balls) and told him to F off and that I don't come second or in his case 100th to anyone. I took his phone out of his hand then threw it in the street (3 cars ran over it) after that I just walked off :) I feel so good right now!!
Great for you. I have a little advice if it's not out of my place. Don't let people make you feel how they want you to feel. In cases like these listen to your gut, if somebody tries to guilt you into something, take that into consideration because nobody who cares about you would try to put the guilt trip on you.

Next time hit him where it hurts, meaning the nads or the wallet. Either of those places will leave a man hobbled over in pain. +rep just for acomplishing your goal.
 

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he asked me to the movies so I went but he kept trying to kiss me and every time he did I pulled away then his hands were trying to go south so I moved two seats down...but anway after the movie (all his friends and my cousin was with us) I told him it was over and to never talk to me again. he thought I was playing and tried to kiss me and I slaped him (though I would have liked to kick him in his balls) and told him to F off and that I don't come second or in his case 100th to anyone. I took his phone out of his hand then threw it in the street (3 cars ran over it) after that I just walked off :) I feel so good right now!!
:rofl:


Nice.
 

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he asked me to the movies so I went but he kept trying to kiss me and every time he did I pulled away then his hands were trying to go south so I moved two seats down...but anway after the movie (all his friends and my cousin was with us) I told him it was over and to never talk to me again. he thought I was playing and tried to kiss me and I slaped him (though I would have liked to kick him in his balls) and told him to F off and that I don't come second or in his case 100th to anyone. I took his phone out of his hand then threw it in the street (3 cars ran over it) after that I just walked off :) I feel so good right now!!
lol that's awesome! :hug:
 

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he asked me to the movies so I went but he kept trying to kiss me and every time he did I pulled away then his hands were trying to go south so I moved two seats down...but anway after the movie (all his friends and my cousin was with us) I told him it was over and to never talk to me again. he thought I was playing and tried to kiss me and I slaped him (though I would have liked to kick him in his balls) and told him to F off and that I don't come second or in his case 100th to anyone. I took his phone out of his hand then threw it in the street (3 cars ran over it) after that I just walked off :) I feel so good right now!!

High five! :D

Advice: You did the right thing- don't have second thoughts on this. People like him do not change and become nicer.
 
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Break ups are hard to handle with but just completely ignore him in any possible way. If that doesn't work....then tell him off and walk away. idk if that'll help though o.o
 

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Thank you to everyone who gave me advice because it help alot :) I only whish you could have seen his face when the first car ran over his phone and after 3rd time he was on his knees ready to cry...but I think I would have cried to if someone threw my iPhone in the street
 

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Killing silently is a tall order, but a quick look at an anatomy chart will show that the larynx is an easy enough target—providing you can make a stealthy submerged approach, sneak up on your victim, and catch him unaware. Once that's accomplished, grasp his hair as close to the scalp as you're able to and yank his head back while using your Ka-Bar combat knife to make a lateral cut across his throat. Make sure you sever both the carotid artery and jugular vein while piercing the windpipe, and press hard; the larynx is a tough, rubbery piece of tissue.



Actually grabbed this from the Onion and is titled "Ask a Navy Seal" advice column.
 
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Killing silently is a tall order, but a quick look at an anatomy chart will show that the larynx is an easy enough target—providing you can make a stealthy submerged approach, sneak up on your victim, and catch him unaware. Once that's accomplished, grasp his hair as close to the scalp as you're able to and yank his head back while using your Ka-Bar combat knife to make a lateral cut across his throat. Make sure you sever both the carotid artery and jugular vein while piercing the windpipe, and press hard; the larynx is a tough, rubbery piece of tissue.



Actually grabbed this from the Onion and is titled "Ask a Navy Seal" advice column.
oh ok lol i was about to pm you and asked what you ment
 

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You're a girl!? And if you feel guilty, you're dumb. No offence. He cheats on you and you feel guilty? What kind of messed up world do we live in?
 

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he asked me to the movies so I went but he kept trying to kiss me and every time he did I pulled away then his hands were trying to go south so I moved two seats down...but anway after the movie (all his friends and my cousin was with us) I told him it was over and to never talk to me again. he thought I was playing and tried to kiss me and I slaped him (though I would have liked to kick him in his balls) and told him to F off and that I don't come second or in his case 100th to anyone. I took his phone out of his hand then threw it in the street (3 cars ran over it) after that I just walked off :) I feel so good right now!!
I already broke up with him :) just read the above everyone
 

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You're a girl!? And if you feel guilty, you're dumb. No offence. He cheats on you and you feel guilty? What kind of messed up world do we live in?
And the cycle begins again.:flaw: Don't you love how people feel like putting "no offense" in front of an insult somehow offfsets it? Dude, no offense your a d-bag.
 

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You're a girl!? And if you feel guilty, you're dumb. No offence. He cheats on you and you feel guilty? What kind of messed up world do we live in?
none taken...but you don't know the guilt trips he would take me on...it was one time he told me he would kill himself if I ever left him
 

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I honestly can't help but notice the immaturity some people bring into this convo. Echopain touched the subject, and although you're already through with him, in an arguably immature way, I believe you have made yourself an enemy, and it could have been prevented, or the effect minimized at least

He made you feel guilty when you showed doubt right? It's clear as day that he was then lying, since normally, one would try to explain himself, not transfer the feelings of having been in the wrong to his 'loved' one. Explaining all this to him and telling him how it made you feel uncomfortable and then decisively breaking up, would have probably been enough, were he mature enough to grasp it. I shan't dig any deeper into this, it was solved in your way, and it's not a way I want to become more familiar with.
 

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I honestly can't help but notice the immaturity some people bring into this convo. Echopain touched the subject, and although you're already through with him, in an arguably immature way, I believe you have made yourself an enemy, and it could have been prevented, or the effect minimized at least

He made you feel guilty when you showed doubt right? It's clear as day that he was then lying, since normally, one would try to explain himself, not transfer the feelings of having been in the wrong to his 'loved' one. Explaining all this to him and telling him how it made you feel uncomfortable and then decisively breaking up, would have probably been enough, were he mature enough to grasp it. I shan't dig any deeper into this, it was solved in your way, and it's not a way I want to become more familiar with.
Sorry this is Chatterbox thread the Patronizebox thread is two clicks over.
 

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I honestly can't help but notice the immaturity some people bring into this convo. Echopain touched the subject, and although you're already through with him, in an arguably immature way, I believe you have made yourself an enemy, and it could have been prevented, or the effect minimized at least

He made you feel guilty when you showed doubt right? It's clear as day that he was then lying, since normally, one would try to explain himself, not transfer the feelings of having been in the wrong to his 'loved' one. Explaining all this to him and telling him how it made you feel uncomfortable and then decisively breaking up, would have probably been enough, were he mature enough to grasp it. I shan't dig any deeper into this, it was solved in your way, and it's not a way I want to become more familiar with.
been there tried that and all he would say is "its a shame you don't trust me" and bring me into yet another guilt trip. If anyone is in the wrong it would be him for talking to other girls infront of me...if I couldn't tell him how I felt the other option was to show him "action speaks louder than words"
 
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