how do you fight this?

Queen of Bananas

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being raised by narcissists is debilitating; everything one does, one has not emotional stability to stand for themselves or what they believe. even recalling that the photosynthesis equation is a certain way, becomes we can't trust ourselves without external validation for being right.
 
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This is called "taking it personally" and being vindictive.

It's one-sided, just like the "narc father"...I'm hoping you're not the type of person that uses information to defend your ego and sabotage the other?Cause I'm noticing things.

When you do things like this, it's SPITE. You take it too personally, you're gonna notice that this type of behavior is COMMON.

You may dislike your parents for doing things, but you can't treat them like their some social experiment, or something, as if THEY aren't people too.THAT'S narcissistic, as well.
 

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This is called "taking it personally" and being vindictive.

It's one-sided, just like the "narc father"...I'm hoping you're not the type of person that uses information to defend your ego and sabotage the other?Cause I'm noticing things.

When you do things like this, it's SPITE. You take it too personally, you're gonna notice that this type of behavior is COMMON.

You may dislike your parents for doing things, but you can't treat them like their some social experiment, or something, as if THEY aren't people too.THAT'S narcissistic, as well.

I'm trying to understand them; trying to understand why they won't support me.
 

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I'm trying to understand them; trying to understand why they won't support me.

You don't need their support. I kinda don't care if my parents are proud of me or not tbh. I'm not like a family guy.
 
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