I used to "hate people" when I was 8-10 yrs old, back when I had a much more narrow view of the world and how people worked then I do now, but after undergoing many life experiences, gaining knowledge, and learning from my experiences, I came to the realization that humans live and exist in far more layers that anyone can determine in one absolute judgement. I came to the realization that I did not hate people, or any individual, but I hated their actions.
You could argue that people are defined by their actions, and I think this is true to an extent -- people are often times inseparable from the actions they take, but I think what matters more is the intentions behind people's actions matter more than the actions themselves. The way people go about doing things is greatly influenced by their environment, social and cultural upbringing, and the beliefs that were ingrained into their minds, so when people are molded to go about doing things according to factors beyond their control, can you truly hate them for it? Pathologically on impulse? Yeah, but realistically? I personally don't think so.
TL;DR I don't hate anyone, only their actions. To what extent people are defined by their actions is determined by the context and is a debatable matter
Lmao, that's funny, because I'm the exact opposite. I think realistically, you shouldn't "like" people, in general.That's IF you live a life in truth, or can see it for any matter.
My hate for them wasn't a presumption, it wasn't a preference...it was cause & effect. It's absolutely what to expect...however, I don't take any of them personally and I'm pretty respectful, cause I respect myself.I can "co-exist".
At the end of the day, they're incredibly infantile to me.
Through better understanding of them, I just became honest with my soul and totaled that I actually hate them. I cannot deny that...however, I won't mistreat them, just because of it...cause it's pointless. I just give people what they're subconsciously asking for.
What's even more funny, is that the people who claim to not hate people, usually are the ones who mistreat people or take advantage of people. It might just be self-contradictory.
"I don't hate anyone, only their actions"...is that RULE-BASED or is that genuinely how you feel? Cause that view sounds awfully familiar.
I don't choose to hate someone, lmao, I just end up hating them for the things they do.The very fact that people CHOOSE to do these things, is exactly why it is THEM you should hate.Cause it's THEM doing it.They're ACTIONS say a lot about THEM.
My hatred is intuitively a response to the things people do.
I'm built off of reasons why...want me to love?Give me a reason why...I'm not gonna "choose" to love/like anyone.I need substance. I don't believe in rule-based love.
However, I'm open to "love", it matters.True love matters, and is necessary.
