When can I be free?

[HENI]

I'm 23, about to be 24 in a few months. I feel like I want to follow my own path and leave my family's home. I know I legally can. But if I leave, who will help my mom or my youngest sister? My mom is not good at reading. As English is not her first landuags. My youngest sister is naive, but she is smart with technology. At this point I don't know if I love my family or if I see them as a burden. I don't like living here at all. Because I have to live by the house rule. I can't make my own rules. I want to be free. What should I do and what can I do?

My family has done a lot for me and I know they care for me and love me. I'm grateful. But I don't want to be with them everyday for all of my life.

 

[Ansatsuken]

I'm 23, about to be 24 in a few months. I feel like I want to follow my own path and leave my family's home. I know I legally can. But if I leave, who will help my mom or my youngest sister? My mom is not good at reading. As English is not her first landuags. My youngest sister is naive, but she is smart with technology. At this point I don't know if I love my family or if I see them as a burden. I don't like living here at all. Because I have to live by the house rule. I can't make my own rules. I want to be free. What should I do and what can I do?

My family has done a lot for me and I know they care for me and love me. I'm grateful. But I don't want to be with them everyday for all of my life.

What is your ethnic group?

 

[HENI]

What is your ethnic group?

I'm Asian and white, and my family follows Asian traditions

 

[Ansatsuken]

I'm Asian and white, and my family follows Asian traditions

Half, half? So what part of Asian?

 

[HENI]

Half, half? So what part of Asian?

Vietnamese/Chinese

 

[SumnNarutoRelated]

We all have different hands dealt to us. Change is either going to come through force or gradually over time. And it's often never smooth or pretty

 

[123fire]

Wtf? Go marry a woman and have a family...

 

[Ansatsuken]

Vietnamese/Chinese

So you're my Asian neighbor but living in USA

To the question, maybe you still can live on your own outside of your family but if you think you still have a duty toward your family like helping your mom and sister when they need it. You still can visit your family house and helping in something they need.

I dont know where you want to go, far from them or just wanted to stay alone but still be near them.

 

[AllKnowingShinobi]

Hey man you dont want to know what it is like living alone. Paying bills can add up to 2000$ a month. Living alone can cause depression and anxiety. If you really need to escape go hangout with friends for a a night or two. Understand that family is all you got in life , the only ppl wholl even give a second shit/thought for your ungrateful ass.

All in all unless your starting your own family i would just stick it out with the one you have now.

 

[BenjerminGaye]

I don't want your apple pie, no
I don't want your apple pie, mami
I don't want your apple pie no more
I need my own pepper pepper, please, pepper, pepper seeds
Need my own reme-remedy, my own legacy
I need my own pepper please
My own legacy, my own recipe

 

[Rohan]

I'm 23, about to be 24 in a few months. I feel like I want to follow my own path and leave my family's home. I know I legally can. But if I leave, who will help my mom or my youngest sister? My mom is not good at reading. As English is not her first landuags. My youngest sister is naive, but she is smart with technology. At this point I don't know if I love my family or if I see them as a burden. I don't like living here at all. Because I have to live by the house rule. I can't make my own rules. I want to be free. What should I do and what can I do?

My family has done a lot for me and I know they care for me and love me. I'm grateful. But I don't want to be with them everyday for all of my life.

You can leave and support them externally? Like all you need to do is send money.

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[HENI]

You can leave and support them externally? Like all you need to do is send money.

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They make their own money.

 

[00Rinne]

Whatever you decide Heni just don't forget that at the end of the day they're family.. We need our families no matter how naive they can be..
If you leave, just keep in contact with them an help when you can.. It sounds like you love them otherwise you wouldn't be lookin for others opinions on it..
Do what you can for yourself & it will help you help those you love in the process..



Good luck dude!..

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

you need to change your outlook and perspective, focus on whats positive about you being there

I: you cant even be there forever, thats impossible and all in your mind. change is the only thing constant in the universe....

II: no matter where you go or what you do, youll have to follow someone else rules....unless you buy a magic island with infinite resources....

III: youre already on your own path, this is just part of it

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you wont be able to move on to next part of your journey till you handle whatever it is youre suppose too there, so you dont feel like youre leaving them to the wolves, just try your best is all anyone really can do. maybe help your sister learn to make better judgements, you are her big brother after all...maybe work with your sister to help teach your mom how to read in English since you can. these are things you can accomplish if you try and do it out of love for them. not only that but it will strengthen your bonds as a family and youll leave with them having a lot of respect for you and little regret because you tried your best

 

[Skorm]

Your dad?

 

[Kishi Uzumaki]

No one is free from many things in this world until they're dead .

maybe you could follow your own path though it would make you lonely most the time, it will be the cost you've to pay to own yourself .

and that doesn't mean you've to give up on your family you can take care of them way you can as they will be the ones who be there for you when you need the most .

 

[HENI]

No one is free from many things in this world until they're dead .

maybe you could follow your own path though it would make you lonely most the time, it will be the cost you've to pay to own yourself .

and that doesn't mean you've to give up on your family you can take care of them way you can as they will be the ones who be there for you when you need the most .

Is the afterlife like infinite taukuyomi?

 

[Lyke]

lmao this nikka again

 

[Ōkami]

Boy, don't you have a Facebook where you can post this?

 

[Our Lord Sasuke]

Wtf? Go marry a woman and have a family...

This is the second smartest thing that you said on nb, you make progress.

OT: What he said.