[Discussion] Loving someone older

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MY wife and i are 8 years apart lol ...... fam just do you and follow your bliss
 

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whiteboy2345 said:
I'm fifteen as some of you know, and there's this woman that works at my school and I'm pretty sure she's in her mid-thirties. I have this massive crush on her and can't really stand the thought of her not being around.


I know a relationship is impossible, I'm not stupid. However, I want to know how other people would deal with this.

I feel like confessing is the only way to get it over with and off of my chest, seeing as though I am aware that it's impossible.
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either try and focus on a sexy grill your own age and get a girlfriend or watch enough porn until you forget about her
 
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Just masturbate a lot, Worked throughout my teen years XD
 
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Wow

are you really into her?

What you should do:

Avoid looking at her until the crush subsides. Or try paying attention to the girls in your classroom. You might've not been paying attention and there are some girls who might be interested in you.

Or, it always works bro

Wank to her; it'll get her off your mind

Explanation:

You think she's attractive and your fifteen year old mind wants a curvacious woman to dream on and you probably think she might like you. Crushes usually occur when your "dream girl" suddenly comes true, and in most cases, it's just your mind playing games at you, but really, it'll subside. It won't take long before you realize she has a pimple on her right cheek, and once you realize she's an "imperfect being" and not a girl out of dreams you'll get past it. Goodluck
 
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Scythe of Death said:
Wow

are you really into her?

What you should do:

Avoid looking at her until the crush subsides. Or try paying attention to the girls in your classroom. You might've not been paying attention and there are some girls who might be interested in you.

Or, it always works bro

Wank to her; it'll get her off your mind

Explanation:

You think she's attractive and your fifteen year old mind wants a curvacious woman to dream on and you probably think she might like you. Crushes usually occur when your "dream girl" suddenly comes true, and in most cases, it's just your mind playing games at you, but really, it'll subside. It won't take long before you realize she has a pimple on her right cheek, and once you realize she's an "imperfect being" and not a girl out of dreams you'll get past it. Goodluck
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She's obviously imperfect, but when I get close up to her face it's way worse, there are no blemishes or marks there. I'm sure there are plenty of personality flaws, but my mind is definitely telling me that she's physically flawless.

Wanking to her would keep her on my mind.

But I do agree with keeping my attention off of her, thanks for that.
 
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whiteboy2345 said:
She's obviously imperfect, but when I get close up to her face it's way worse, there are no blemishes or marks there. I'm sure there are plenty of personality flaws, but my mind is definitely telling me that she's physically flawless.

Wanking to her would keep her on my mind.

But I do agree with keeping my attention off of her, thanks for that.
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Sure, but don't confess to her. At least not in a romantic way. Just say nice things to her if that might satisfy your urge to let her know you like her. Even if you told her straightforwardly, she wouldn't take it the right way. Try putting yourself in her shoes. If a 7 year old girl walked up to you and said she had a crush on you, in all likelihood you'd brush her off because you don't want to be seen as the pedophile who takes advantage of kids, and mostly because you don't look at 7 year olds with the same eye you use to look at kids your own age. And that's exactly how it works. She may like you, but she may never look at you your in the same way. Unless on the off chance she's "insane". She'd have to be "insane" to reciprocate your feelings so it's not good on either sides
 
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actually i see nothing wrong and is not impossible. You have a crush on her that later can turn love, but you still can have *** with her or just know her better. If you are mature, the relationship can develop to something more serious, why not?

But as others said, if she has a family and husband/wife, keep it platonic.

edit: lmao i forgot you are 15 years, yeah... this is somewhat creepy. But my best friend is having *** with a 19 years old, and she's 26. So wait until you reach 18 lol
 
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