[Discussion] Loving someone older

[whiteboy2345]

I'm fifteen as some of you know, and there's this woman that works at my school and I'm pretty sure she's in her mid-thirties. I have this massive crush on her and can't really stand the thought of her not being around.


I know a relationship is impossible, I'm not stupid. However, I want to know how other people would deal with this.

I feel like confessing is the only way to get it over with and off of my chest, seeing as though I am aware that it's impossible.

 

[Our Lord Sasuke]

What is the age difference?

 

[whiteboy2345]

I don't know, I doubt it's a close one.

Some days she looks young, other days she looks old. And here's the real terror; she's married and has kids. She never wears makeup either, she's one of the natural beauties.

 

[Our Lord Sasuke]

I don't know, I doubt it's a close one.

Some days she looks young, other days she looks old. And here's the real terror; she's married and has kids. She never wears makeup either, she's one of the natural beauties.

Well bro I really I does not want to hurt you, but if she has a family and is happy you must leave if you love her, is not your fault. But try to find a girl more close you age.

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

mmm, its more like a crush. i will always encourage expression but keep it in perspective

realistically you have nothing for her at your age, you both probably know this. but all women love compliments, just tell her she looks really pretty one day. doesnt have to be intense, just a simple compliment that gets a point across

 

[Punk Hazard]

Original Topic, anyone?

There's nothing good that's gonna come out of you telling her, especially when you're only 15. You should let it go

 

[Aominecchi]

Here's the thing
If you do confess, she will see it as a cute thing, but I don't think there is a chance to be mutual, cause it will cause problems with her work, also the mentality is really different between you two because of the age difference
So at least do it to get it out of your system

 

[whiteboy2345]

There's nothing good that's gonna come out of you telling her, especially when you're only 15. You should let it go

I'm aware of that at this stage in the game, I just feel like confessing is the only way to get it away from me. I'm probably wrong, I've always had a talent for contingency planning but this isn't my ball-park. I definitely plan on letting go, but everyday that I do, some form of interaction occurs.

 

[Joker]

Original Topic, anyone?

This is pretty dumb, I think you're pretty dumb. For one, you're fifteen and this woman is in her thirties with a career. If she was a sane person, she wouldn't jeopardize her marriage, her family, her career, and her freedom for someone who doesn't even have their own tangible source of income. Drop the crush, get over it, lmao.

 

[Joon]

What is the age difference?

15-20 years apart.

I'm fifteen as some of you know, and there's this woman that works at my school and I'm pretty sure she's in her mid-thirties. I have this massive crush on her and can't really stand the thought of her not being around. She rarely talks to me and when she does everything get's blurry but her, and unlike my other crushes if I'm not there to see her it's very hard to remember her specific physical features.

My friends are telling me to confess, which I find to be a stupid plan with so many flaws's that it's ridiculous to even suggest. On the other hand, this is building up and I feel like confessing would be the only way to get this off my chest and away from me, seeing as though the chances of her rejecting me would hopefully be at 99.9%.

Would it make sense to confess? If she continues to work there into my senior year, I'm thinking of confessing then.

Is it wrong to love someone older?

It's not love, you barely know this woman. :|

Also, I wouldn't risk confessing to her. There is a possibility that she would: (a) lose her job or (b) she or someone will report you and the school will force a transfer if they deem the situation uncontainable.

About the this being wrong: Of course it's wrong.

My advice: she is not worth it. Find some other milf or whatever. Especially someone not from your school. Who wants that problem?

 

[whiteboy2345]

This is pretty dumb, I think you're pretty dumb. For one, you're fifteen and this woman is in her thirties with a career. If she was a sane person, she wouldn't jeopardize her marriage, her family, her career, and her freedom for someone who doesn't even have their own tangible source of income. Drop the crush, get over it, lmao.

She's not a teacher, she's a lunch-lady. She's an attractive lunch lady, which does in fact make this "dumb".

 

[Our Lord Sasuke]

This is pretty dumb, I think you're pretty dumb. For one, you're fifteen and this woman is in her thirties with a career. If she was a sane person, she wouldn't jeopardize her marriage, her family, her career, and her freedom for someone who doesn't even have their own tangible source of income. Drop the crush, get over it, lmao.

Even words can hurt, you know?

 

[whiteboy2345]

Just to clear things up, I'm only thinking about confessing just to get it off of my chest and away from me. Seeing as though I don't make money and the age-gap is massive, and she's married. There's no reason for a relationship.

But I'm curious as to what others think, or what they would do in contrast to my own opinion.

 

[ChicagoJhawk]

Lol you do know that if you get caught she'll go to jail and you'll have to go to court to talk abou it

 

[whiteboy2345]

Lol you do know that if you get caught she'll go to jail and you'll have to go to court to talk abou it

Lol you do know that you're missing my point right?

 

[Venomous Cobra]

Be a real one and tell her you tryna ****

 

[Reboryushon]

Tell her you have the avatar of Obito in a Naruto Manga forum, explain to her who Obito is and why he started a war, tell her that like Obito you might start a war for her after your best friend pierces her chest with his lightning hand. This will be profit.

 

[Marin]

Aim for someone your own age mate. If word comes out that she had anything with a 15-year old she could well lose her job or even end up in jail. You on the other hand would be in trouble yourself.

Just avoid these things and drop the mommy complex.

 

[whiteboy2345]

I felt the need to update the thread, seeing as though people weren't getting my point.

 

[Adam Driver]

Just to clear things up, I'm only thinking about confessing just to get it off of my chest and away from me. Seeing as though I don't make money and the age-gap is massive, and she's married. There's no reason for a relationship.

But I'm curious as to what others think, or what they would do in contrast to my own opinion.

Lmao I'd advise against this especially when she may feel very uncomfortable with this she can report you to your principal and have you removed from the class to a different teacher. Just leave it be, I had a crush on a teacher too once but you just know in situations like this it's never going to happen. Especially when she's a married 30 year old women with a career and children and you're a 15 year old kid, sorry bud.