[Discussion] How do you discribe the feeling to be in love?

Our Lord Sasuke

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Personally for me it's the best feeling in the world, I mean you can't stop thinking at your favorite person, just like a drug
 

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What is love ?

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Love is when you want a girl but not to get in her pants
 

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Here's why we have Google:

Love is a force of nature. However much we may want to, we can not command, demand, or take away love, any more than we can command the moon and the stars and the wind and the rain to come and go according to our whims. We may have some limited ability to change the weather, but we do so at the risk of upsetting an ecological balance we don't fully understand. Similarly, we can stage a seduction or mount a courtship, but the result is more likely to be infatuation, or two illusions dancing together, than love.
Love is bigger than you are. You can invite love, but you cannot dictate how, when, and where love expresses itself. You can choose to surrender to love, or not, but in the end love strikes like lightening, unpredictable and irrefutable. You can even find yourself loving people you don't like at all. Love does not come with conditions, stipulations, addenda, or codes. Like the sun, love radiates independently of our fears and desires.
Love is inherently free. It cannot be bought, sold, or traded. You cannot make someone love you, nor can you prevent it, for any amount of money. Love cannot be imprisoned nor can it be legislated. Love is not a substance, not a commodity, nor even a marketable power source. Love has no territory, no borders, no quantifiable mass or energy output.
One can buy *** partners and even marriage partners. Marriage is a matter for the law, for rules and courts and property rights. In the past, the marriage price, or dowry, and in the present, alimony and the pre-nuptial agreement, make it clear that marriage is all about contracts. But as we all know, marriages, whether arranged or not, may have little enough to do with love.
Sexual stimulation and gratification, whether by way of fingers, mouths, objects, fantasy play, whips and chains, or just plain intercourse, can certainly be bought and sold, not to mention used to sell other things. Whether *** should be for sale is another question entirely, but love itself can not be sold.
One can buy loyalty, companionship, attention, perhaps even compassion, but love itself cannot be bought. An orgasm can be bought, but love cannot. It comes, or not, by grace, of its own will and in its own timing, subject to no human's planning.
Love cannot be turned on as a reward. It cannot be turned off as a punishment. Only something else pretending to be love can be used as a lure, as a hook, for bait and switch, imitated, insinuated, but the real deal can never be delivered if it doesn't spring freely from the heart.
This doesn't mean that love allows destructive and abusive behaviors to go unchecked. Love speaks out for justice and protests when harm is being done. Love points out the consequences of hurting oneself or others. Love allows room for anger, grief, or pain to be expressed and released. But love does not threaten to withhold itself if it doesn't get what it wants. Love does not say, directly or indirectly, "If you are a bad boy, Mommy won't love you any more." Love does not say, "Daddy's little girl doesn't do that." Love does not say, "If you want to be loved you must be nice, or do what I want, or never love anyone else, or promise you'll never leave me."
Love cares what becomes of you because love knows that we are all interconnected. Love is inherently compassionate and empathic. Love knows that the "other" is also oneself. This is the true nature of love and love itself can not be manipulated or restrained. Love honors the sovereignty of each soul. Love is its own law.
 

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Love is amazing but when a great love is broken it may leave the person "lifeless" (losing the will to live) or depression
 

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I'm my favorite person. #WeDon'tLoveTheseHoes
 

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Makes you do stupid stuff
 

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It's not all that great, especially when the person that your feelings lie with doesn't reciprocate or when they're out of reach, as in an age gap or a marriage that they're all ready in.
 

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There are many forms of love. You have romantic love, platonic love, agape love, philia love, self love, etc. These all feel different. While most people consider these to be positive, there can be inherent emotional risk. It can even be frightening allowing one's self to love. If you are speaking about romantic love in particular there are different stages which may include infatuation, companionship, loyalty, passionate, etc (look up Sternberg's Love Triangle theory). Again these all feel different.
 

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There are many forms of love. You have romantic love, platonic love, agape love, philia love, self love, etc. These all feel different. While most people consider these to be positive, there can be inherent emotional risk. It can even be frightening allowing one's self to love. If you are speaking about romantic love in particular there are different stages which may include infatuation, companionship, loyalty, passionate, etc (look up Sternberg's Love Triangle theory). Again these all feel different.

Your education has hopefully benefited someone; but you haven't said anything about how it "feels" to love
 

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Falling in love is like you don't care about anything except for that one person. They are everything. It feels like he or she reaches into your heart and soul, only to warm it. You don't if the world burns, because....they are your love. And every touch, kiss, and stare feels like bliss.

It's Heavenly.

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It has nothing to do with ***, but when you do, it's like you're connected. And as you two writhe, nip, and kiss, you two are so synced together that when you reach that moment of climax, it's like thousands of fireworks and stars exploding inside your bodies.

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However, love soon leads down to a world of hurt.
 
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Falling in love is like you don't care about anything except for that one person. They are everything. It feels like he or she reaches into your heart and soul, only to warm it. You don't if the world burns, because....they are your love. And every touch, kiss, and stare feels like bliss.

It's Heavenly.

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It has nothing to do with ***, but when you do, it's like you're connected. And as you two writhe, nip, and kiss, you two are so synced together that when you reach that moment of climax, it's like thousands of fireworks and stars exploding inside your bodies.

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However, love soon leads down to a world of hurt.

The best comment in to a long time.
 

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Thanks.

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There's a lunchlady that works at my school, and oddly enough, she's gorgeous. I don't know why such an attractive woman would be a lunch-lady, but it claws at me that my feelings are lying with a woman completely out of my reach.

I saw her go to a PTA meeting with her husband, and her children go to the school, I don't understand why my emotions would reach out to someone like that.

When she smiles at me or communicates with me which is quite rare, my mind feels serene and calm, there's never been a more drug-like feeling that I've ever felt. But love is never perfect, it can't be created or stopped from coming into existence, it's just there. She's married, a Christian, and has children. I thought my mind was better than this, but I can't comprehend why it would choose her of all people. I thought she would have left this semester but she's still here, and it tortures me.

To be in love is amazing at first, but once your object of love constantly goes away, you start to become annoyed by it. Every girl I've ever had feelings for, is always gone the next year, I never confess, which is why I can't stand it anymore. It just feels annoying now if anything.
 

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There's a lunchlady that works at my school, and oddly enough, she's gorgeous. I don't know why such an attractive woman would be a lunch-lady, but it claws at me that my feelings are lying with a woman completely out of my reach.

I saw her go to a PTA meeting with her husband, and her children go to the school, I don't understand why my emotions would reach out to someone like that.

When she smiles at me or communicates with me which is quite rare, my mind feels serene and calm, there's never been a more drug-like feeling that I've ever felt. But love is never perfect, it can't be created or stopped from coming into existence, it's just there. She's married, a Christian, and has children. I thought my mind was better than this, but I can't comprehend why it would choose her of all people. I thought she would have left this semester but she's still here, and it tortures me.

To be in love is amazing at first, but once your object of love constantly goes away, you start to become annoyed by it. Every girl I've ever had feelings for, is always gone the next year, I never confess, which is why I can't stand it anymore. It just feels annoying now if anything.
That was very beautiful said and very true. * _ *
 

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There's a lunchlady that works at my school, and oddly enough, she's gorgeous. I don't know why such an attractive woman would be a lunch-lady, but it claws at me that my feelings are lying with a woman completely out of my reach.

I saw her go to a PTA meeting with her husband, and her children go to the school, I don't understand why my emotions would reach out to someone like that.

When she smiles at me or communicates with me which is quite rare, my mind feels serene and calm, there's never been a more drug-like feeling that I've ever felt. But love is never perfect, it can't be created or stopped from coming into existence, it's just there. She's married, a Christian, and has children. I thought my mind was better than this, but I can't comprehend why it would choose her of all people. I thought she would have left this semester but she's still here, and it tortures me.

To be in love is amazing at first, but once your object of love constantly goes away, you start to become annoyed by it. Every girl I've ever had feelings for, is always gone the next year, I never confess, which is why I can't stand it anymore. It just feels annoying now if anything.

This will sound rude, but don't be a wuss and confess. You have nothing to lose.
 
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