Are you a cheater?

Mystical Palm

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have you ever cheated on someone before? Would you? What was your motivation?

lastly... was it worth it?
 

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Nope. Cheating is for weak-willed individuals who simply can't muster up the courage to tell their significant other/quick fling that they want to see other people/end the relationship. I've never had that problem; when I'm done with a girl, I tell her. Simple.
 

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one thing that i know in life is that the only thing worth it to cheat on is when your ready to get aids
 

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Depends on what you consider cheating. I did cheat on my ex when I was 18 or so, but only after I had found out that she's teaching on me herself.
 

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If I answer that I'm not, you could still think I am a cheater who is lying
 

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Nope. I don't think so. I haven't had a serious relationship before, so i think i'm good.
 

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yeah i'm a cheater, i cheated on a test
i never regretted it tho because, what's there to regret, i got a better grade than I would've
 

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No. Cheating is for the weak. Cheating is for the people that can not control their emotions. No willpower.
 

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Nope. Cheating is for weak-willed individuals who simply can't muster up the courage to tell their significant other/quick fling that they want to see other people/end the relationship. I've never had that problem; when I'm done with a girl, I tell her. Simple.

It is never that simple. There are too many variables.
 

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It is never that simple. There are too many variables.


Wrong. It is that simple. There are no variables. It's either end the relationship out of loyalty/respect, or be un-loyal/disrespectful, and cheat. Cheating can't be justified.
 

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Wrong. It is that simple. There are no variables. It's either end the relationship out of loyalty, or be un-loyal, and cheat. Cheating can't be justified.

Really? Seems like you're living in a black and white world. Unfortunately, our world is gray.

There are variables. Cultures, types of girls you date and nationality, how you've been raised, your own self-esteem in relation to the other individual, their self-esteem in relation to yours, psychological repression, etc. The list goes on.

It is ignorant to say most people cheat because it is wrong.

Some men cheat because they want ***** and it is solely physical, no emotions. Some men cheat emotionally. Most men do not.
Some women do the former, some women do the latter. Most women do cheat emotionally.

What are you 14? Don't be naive.
 

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Really? Seems like you're living in a black and white world. Unfortunately, our world is gray.

There are variables. Cultures, types of girls you date and nationality, how you've been raised, your own self-esteem in relation to the other individual, their self-esteem in relation to yours, psychological repression, etc. The list goes on.

It is ignorant to say most people cheat because it is wrong.

Some men cheat because they want ***** and it is solely physical, no emotions. Some men cheat emotionally. Most men do not.
Some women do the former, some women do the latter. Most women do cheat emotionally.

What are you 14? Don't be naive.

You're over-complicating a situation that is simplistic. Cheating is cheating it doesn't matter how you slice it. You either end the relationship on the pretense of positivity, or you end it in negativity (i.e. cheating).
 

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You're over-complicating a situation that is simplistic. Cheating is cheating it doesn't matter how you slice it. You either end the relationship on the pretense of positivity, or you end it in negativity (i.e. cheating).

I agree, it's very simple. Add XYZ; as many variables as you want. If doesn't matter if you are cheating emotionally, or physically, or why you did it. It is unjustifiable and wrong.
 
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