[Discussion] Abuse against men is also a thing

[Belserion]

If you're Physically abused as a man you're probably gay

What if that creature abuses me?
Does that make me gay? XD

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[-immortal-]

What if that creature abuses me?
Does that make me gay? XD

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Who would mind getting abused by such a glorious creation? :Sparks:

 

[BenjerminGaye]

What if that creature abuses me?
Does that make me gay? XD

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while i do find her legs quite sexy, her arms are a bit too big for my tastes. It makes her breasts look like pecks. Thats a nono.

 

[~WastelandSociety~]

What if that creature abuses me?
Does that make me gay? XD

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If she has more muscle mass than me....then it's safe to say I wear the dress in that relationship.

 

[Tantalus Thief]

What if that creature abuses me?
Does that make me gay? XD

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the snu snu is hella stronk with that one

props if you get the reference without aid

 

[Sauce]

Then when they say you won't hit them, and you knock that ass out, they start crying stfu

 

[ChicagoJhawk]

There is a double standard

 

[lndra]

If you let your girl abuse you, then you are a ***** ass. If you can't stand up for yourself, then you shouldn't be in a relationship where your significant other can take advantage of you.

Plus girls don't like weak men unless they have something to gain.

 

[YowYan]

That or the driver with the hawaiian bobblehead doll.

Link please?

 

[Lightbringer]

Ok and that too is a problem? So what's your point?

Just because males can also be victims of domestic abuse, that doesn't negate the fact that women are abused as well, if not statistically more so.

Both are problems that need to be solved. That doesn't mean one excludes the other, which is the sense I'm getting from the point of this thread.

 

[Don Drama]

Hi. While the majority of domestic violence victims are women, abuse of men happens far more often than you'd probably expect. Typically, men are physically stronger than women but that doesn't necessarily make it easier to escape the violence or the relationship. I think this really an injustice simply because Men do not complain as often as women do, without a doubt.

It's only abuse against men if you were.. Castrated or Circumcised against your better judgement or "will"..

 

[~WastelandSociety~]

Link please?

Ok and that too is a problem? So what's your point?

Just because males can also be victims of domestic abuse, that doesn't negate the fact that women are abused as well, if not statistically more so.

Both are problems that need to be solved. That doesn't mean one excludes the other, which is the sense I'm getting from the point of this thread.

The point is obvious: Males who are victims of domestic abuse shouldn't be overlooked or ignored as well. Both genders can be abused by one another or even the same *** relationship.
Most people won't even acknowledge the issue or assume just because they are males they should be stronger physically and mentally.
Those people failing to realize that men stay in an abusive relationship the same reason women do:

Fear: Fear of being alone, fear of losing their children, fear of being hurt in the process of leaving. Men are just as capable of being afraid of the unknown, single life as women. Fathers love their children and don’t want to be relegated to every other weekend and a Wednesday night pizza dinner, so they stay just to see their kids more. Men can also be hurt or killed when they try to leave abusive relationships—we’ll never know for sure, but that may be part of what triggered the murder of Travis Alexander.

Children: Men are often scared that they’ll never see their children again if they leave. The threat “I’ll never let you see them again,” is uttered in many a divorce and child custody case. Those words constitute abuse, and the abuser will often use the children as pawns by threatening to take them away if the father attempts to leave.

Promises of Reform: False belief in the ability to reform and stop abusive behavior is a common problem for men. They want to believe that a person can change without help—it’s part of the pull yourself up by your bootstraps mentality we all grow up with—but the truth is that without professional intervention, change is hard for everyone.

Guilt: The man may believe that his partner is sick and needs his help. Men are trained to think that they can and should save their abusive mates, that their partners can change. Thus, the idea of leaving a spouse can induce feelings of guilt.

Lack of Self-esteem: The man may come to believe that he somehow deserves the abuse to which he has been subjected (and has likely been told this repeatedly by his partner). Lack of self-esteem and the belief that he doesn’t deserve anything better can be paralyzing for a battered man. This lack of self-esteem cuts across racial, ethnic, religious, and socioeconomic lines. Men of all types and professions can be, and are, battered.

Love: Most people enter a relationship for love, and that emotion does not simply disappear. Most men want to stop the abuse but don’t know how to end it safely.

***-role Conditioning: A man “should be able to take a hit” is a common misconception among men and women as part of the ‘macho man’ ideology. The construct is that a man is supposed to accept abuse. No one is supposed to accept abuse, ever.

Societal Acceptance/Reinforcement of Marital Violence: From TV to movies to the family of origin, our society reinforces the idea that marital violence is acceptable. TV shows regularly use the comedic situation of a wife hitting her bumbling husband to get a cheap laugh. We then see this lived out in real life with the phrase “A little slap will keep him in line.”

Economic Dependence: The economic reality for men (particularly with children) is a bleak one. Two homes are much harder to support than one, and the financial burden falls primarily on the man in divorce and child custody cases. Economic dependency on the spouse, or fear of economic ruin as a result of divorce, is often a very real reason for men remaining in an abusive relationship.

Religious Beliefs: Statements such as “I don’t believe in divorce,” and “we took vows” are used to reaffirm a commitment to a bad marriage.

Cultural or Ethnic Background: American men often have a hard time admitting they have been abused or battered—it’s an attack on their masculinity and sexuality—both key components of the American self-concept. In a vain attempt to cover up and present to the world an image of “manliness,” they stay.

Stigma of a Broken Home: Outdated language such as the “broken home” concept attaches stigma to divorce, as if coming from an intact nuclear family is somehow intrinsically better even if violent than a safe single-parent home.

Satisfaction with the Relationship between Incidents of Battering: Abusers are often very charming and loving when not abusing the victim. “Make up ***” can be the best. How often have I heard that? It’s a poor excuse to stay in an abusive relationship but it often does happen.

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Spoiler

Nobody is denying the fact women are being abused . The issue should be viewed equally and not see it one way. That's the sense I'm getting from this thread. Unless there's a few individuals you're speaking too here in the thread that I haven't seen saying it.

 

[Wabbit]

Looking at replies "you lil ***** ****** if you get hit by a women" I did not so many people lived in middle east. In most non theocratic countries you get screwed by law and society. Society and the law will see her as the victim and your career will be over at her first accusation that you did something to her. Chances are if a women is in your place getting mad and shit and you call the police first thing they will do is that they arrest you.

 

[Kishi Uzumaki]

No woman gonna mess with me either I'm too intimidating or too charming and ofc stay clear from crazy ones those are the ones too violent