Do you like your family?

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Well, yeah, we happen to have a lot of common interests (we would get along well if we were unrelated, too). My younger brother is pretty much my best friend. My extended family isn't that big (I don't know my distant relatives), and I don't see them too often but we also get along fine.

...Might be the case of basically all of us being pretty easygoing, though.
 

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I love family, especially my parents. They are not perfect but neither do I.

Mom - she's superwoman, when Dad retired from work and we have no money to send me and my sister to college–she worked two jobs just to send us to school, pay the bills, buy food etc. She never gave up although there are times she'll just cry out of exhaution and stress. That breaks my heart, I'm helping her now because I have a job. But not all because of my brother.

Dad - well, he is a seaman. I basically grew with just seeing him for months and then he'll go again. But when he retired from work, he became a house husband. He's always there, cooking, cleaning, etc. even waits for me when I get home. I'm a Daddy's girl I think XD

Both parents are never strict, and always supports us what we want.

Older Brother - I don't know what happened to him, he's a good guy but when she met her wife, he can't live without her :| Even if we caught/knew her wife with another guy. Also, he can't have decent job to provide for his family and still living with our parents. I hate it because our parents is old.. he should have at least help them not to be a burden. They have two children, and I don't know what will happen to them especially their future with that kind of parents. :(

My parents can't and won't send him away because they are worried that he'll just end up broke more. And I think that's the reason he is so dependent to them.

Older Sister - Pretty much close, when I was a kid she would always tutor me and help me with my studies. I kinda got dependent on her. But the time she married and live with her husband, I felt alone and miss her. We see each other rarely but it's ok because we talk to each other everyday.

Relatives are far away. Either abroad or in the provinces. And they all have family on their own, I was the youngest in the family.
 

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Outside of close family members, no. I don't even know most of them.
 

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I'm good with my parents and my older sister even though their emotional rants ( especially those negative ones don't mind a good laughter or things like that i guess it's mostly because I'm been a thinker and everyone of my family been feelers ) and trying to make me adhere to social rules and expectations get on my nerves sometimes

and in my extended family other than few relatives i don't get along that well with them though i used to with most of them when i was younger probably those were times i didn't understood what their real motives are .
 

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Not necessarily if you care or love them.
Of course everyone cares about their family , but do you think they are nice people? Do you like to hang out with your parents and siblings, go in family gathering and have conversations?

I realised i can't stand my parents, and my extend family is hedonistic, too much focused in money, with some weird values. The only ones i really enjoy to hang out are my sibilings.

That is unfortunate that you can't stand your parents. Anyways, I love all 6 of my siblings and my parents very much, but I don't feel as though I call or visit them enough.
 

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yes, I do. But there are too many members living with us right now. But I love them.
 

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I love my mom and dad and can have fun with them too so yes I like them but just like all parents they can be a little annoying at times. My brother is a little turd but we do everything together, I wanna say he's a close friend but I don't wanna sound like a f*g (no offense, homosexuals are cool).

I also love being around my extended family. Idk, to avoid that depressing feeling one normally gets on Sunday nights, I need to be with family. I do need some space though.
 

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I hardly know my family sadly, so I can't really say. When I was younger I tried hanging with my older cousin, now older I find him annoying....Lel weird
 

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aaawww i'm happy most people here love their family

I know how you feel lol, you have kik?

what's kik? that smartphone app? lol

Speak for yourself.
why? don't you like your family? open your heart =D
yeah, i know that some people have really ****ed up families, and honestly i think the parents need to earn the respect of the children, that by the way, never asked to be born. So, have *** and make kids is easy but i don't think the parents need to inflict in the kids their own strugles, and some families are abusive emotionally, bue when someone complain about the parents or extended family they always seem ungrateful.

I saw my parents doing quite bad things in the name of money- not for me necesarily-, but when i complain people say that i should be happy cause i have everything and much more, and i know a lot of people who are voiceless in a similar situation. And i think that just share about things of the past just helps people feel better and acknowledged

so... i'm just following the common sense when i said that

That is unfortunate that you can't stand your parents. Anyways, I love all 6 of my siblings and my parents very much, but I don't feel as though I call or visit them enough.
thank you very much for the kind words in the rep, i'm glad to know that exist nice people like you. Anyway, i love them, but i don't think they are nice people overall.


oh boy don't know where to begin :|

* Mom: There is nothing I love more than her in the world, HOWEVER she is a failure bigot Christian Bishop who blames all mistakes to the devil instead of facing reality. She is the most bias thing I've ever seen. Part of me blames my old brother's death on her.
I can't help though because she is one of the strongest things I've ever seen, a beast who raised kids as a single parent.

* Little brother: I won't lie, I almost have no love for this thing. I try to lie to myself that he is my little bro and I love him BUT no every time I see him I just fume. Mom ruined this idiot, she spoilt it to the core, a drug addict that does nothing but finish whatever groceries I buy and still doesn't clean or do chores in my house :|

* Dad: Don't know what to feel about him, nIgga shot himself on the head while I was 3 years old, mom escaped with me and little bro before she was killed along. I am not entirely sure what was going on his mind so I can't really judge him.

*Extended family: Simply pretending to like one another :coffee:

I only truly love 1 cousin and she was the one who funded my promo 6 years ago

wow i think it must be hard to live with a fanatic religious family. Do you still live with them?
 
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Are you a orphan?
No I am not. Only know my mother, father, cousin, 2 aunts, and some half brothers and sisters (don't really speak to them), but other than those I don't know my other family.
 

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No I am not. Only know my mother, father, cousin, 2 aunts, and some half brothers and sisters (don't really speak to them), but other than those I don't know my other family.

Oh makes sense.
 

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If you're referring to an immediate family, such as only siblings and parents, then no, we're nowhere near on mutual terms, except for one of my siblings. If you are including the family we built around ourselves, like my own children and my wife, then I love nothing more than them.

I still however appreciate my parents and certain siblings influence upon me as I grew up. By their example, I know how a decent human being should not act, with them being prime examples.
 

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If you're referring to an immediate family, such as only siblings and parents, then no, we're nowhere near on mutual terms, except for one of my siblings. If you are including the family we built around ourselves, like my own children and my wife, then I love nothing more than them.

I still however appreciate my parents and certain siblings influence upon me as I grew up. By their example, I know how a decent human being should not act, with them being prime examples.
 
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