[Discussion] Beauty: Do feminine features enhance or Help

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Guess I've never seen her without one XD
I still think she can go there and win it again. Miss World 2014 was from here South Africa. I saw her campaign after she won, the girl looks just like a girl next door :| juts plain. I guess the judges saw something I didn't :|:|:|
Yeah, that's what she looks like.
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Well, can't speak for everyone, but personally I like the looks of "more feminine" men. The less muscles, beard and body-hair a man has, the more attractive he is in my opinion. Long head hair helps too, but isn't necessary.

Screw Vin Diesel, Dwayne Johnson, Brad Pitt, Jason Statham etc. if there are beauties like this:
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Don't you dare claim that imbecile is better than The Rock
 

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The rock looks like a high school kid with over the top energy... XD
He looks normal with a "great" body even though it's too buff for my liking!
He's super charismatic, and while he's a superstar he still stays humble and nice with the others. And anyway bruh, he's the most electrifying man in the world :win:
 

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I so agree! You have taste baby!! :happy::happy::happy: The latter two don't come to Aishwariya's feet in terms of beauty. <3

Her husband is 3 years younger than her XD! I am not surprised XDXD I would marry her now she 20 years older than me!
Helena Bonham Carter, Sofia Vergara I would marry all three of them while they're 20 or more years older than me XDXD

I like fine wine! it gets better with age :blush: :score: :happy:
 
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There has been a lot of research on attractiveness. A few studies found that women are attracted to different types of men based on hormone cycle. Near ovulation they tend to prefer men with more masculine features (i.e., smaller eyes, bigger nose, square jaw, facial hair), and after their menstrual cycle prefer more feminine features. There are also cultural differences, though "Tall, dark, and handsome" still remains universal.

They have also found in some studies that women perceive men as more attractive if they see other women smiling at the man. In the same vein, if someone is told a person is attractive they are more likely to find that person attractive.

Many of these examples that are being given are also marketed toward young girls and women. More mature women who are looking for a marital partner to tend gravitate toward more masculine features which indicates higher levels of testosterone. I will also add that as a women matures she is less likely to be attracted to physical attributes as much as social and financial stability.
 
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There has been a lot of research on attractiveness. A few studies found that women are attracted to different types of men based on hormone cycle. Near ovulation they tend to prefer men with more masculine features (i.e., smaller eyes, bigger nose, square jaw, facial hair), and after their menstrual cycle prefer more feminine features. There are also cultural differences, though "Tall, dark, and handsome" still remains universal.

They have also found in some studies that women perceive men as more attractive if they see other women smiling at the man. In the same vein, if someone is told a person is attractive they are more likely to find that person attractive.

Many of these examples that are being given are also marketed toward young girls and women. More mature women who are looking for a marital partner to tend gravitate toward more masculine features which indicates higher levels of testosterone. I will also add that as a women matures she is less likely to be attracted to physical attributes as much as social and financial stability.
I remember they taught me those things when I studied communication. However, it referred more as the kind of man the woman desires than the kind of man she finds aesthetically beautiful
 

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There has been a lot of research on attractiveness. A few studies found that women are attracted to different types of men based on hormone cycle. Near ovulation they tend to prefer men with more masculine features (i.e., smaller eyes, bigger nose, square jaw, facial hair), and after their menstrual cycle prefer more feminine features. There are also cultural differences, though "Tall, dark, and handsome" still remains universal.

They have also found in some studies that women perceive men as more attractive if they see other women smiling at the man. In the same vein, if someone is told a person is attractive they are more likely to find that person attractive.

Many of these examples that are being given are also marketed toward young girls and women. More mature women who are looking for a marital partner to tend gravitate toward more masculine features which indicates higher levels of testosterone. I will also add that as a women matures she is less likely to be attracted to physical attributes as much as social and financial stability.

an interesting point I noticed as well is that females can be blinded by the personality/admiration: There's this girl who is my Facebook friend. She is from Uttar Pradesh Lucknow in India. Around where she lives many girls are not on Facebook, it's viewed as a taboous thing. In her Facebook there's not a single picture of her only celebs as pro pics. We chatted in Facebook for a while and I treated her as a guy since there was not a single pic. As a free sharing person who shares everything I shared about my relationship crisis etc. me and gf's pictures etc. The at one time I asked for her picture she hesitated and never gave it. Then following week she sent it, I could sense she was uncomfortable with what she was doing. She is a pretty Indian girl I must say.

Fast-forward 5 months We were a light virtual couple(WhatsApp and Skype), she was my girlfriend's friend as well. My gf found her cute.
Last night shit happened home, I was furious she sensed and asked what happened... In her way to calm me down before we knew it I had told her the story of my life and struggles. My deep darkest struggles, she cried and I quote "This comes from the bottom of my heart..." and said all those corny motivations.

It took her hearing my struggle to suddenly find me as a very "attractive" man. From being a "not bad" looking guy to being her obsession this morning :|
 

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naturally what make a man attractive to a women is not his good look as a principal trait but his strengh / muscles when she looks at a photo, and eventually money when she gets to know him.

if you look at animals the female is always waiting, and the male is chasing / fighting other males to get to the female.

that shows that the female attracts, and the male is the attracted. just like the composition of the genitals of the male and the female : the penis penetrates (action) and the vagina is penetrated (passive).

for animals that have the smell well developped the female has a smell that attracts the males (I take the exemple of dogs) but for kinds that relie on eyes and smell and touch, more than on only smell like the human the female attracts by her beauty, and also by her smell, by her skin, her boobs, etc.

while the male is attracted by the females beauty the female who doesn't have to do anything gets to choose between the competing males, just like animals.

she then chooses a male with power, so her kids are healthy. this is why they like strong guys and/or rich guys. beauty in a guy is not the principal trait. this is because the male has to protect (naturally, from the way he's body is made) and the women has to be protected (naturally speaking).
but he should not look bad eather because the kids will have bad genes then.


it is a well known fact that the females don't relie a lot in the eyes for ***, they feel more.

edit : my analyse is clearly incomplete as this problematic is complex ;)
 
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Well... I guess so XD, Well which faces do you consider look "good" as a guy and be honest. I just want to see if this is universal in guys:
Because I asked a girl on who they saw "Handsome" they gave me this:

Chris Hemsworth(Thor)
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Johnny Depp
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Charles Michael Davis (Marcel The originals)
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Ian Somerhalder(Damon Vampire Diaries)
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Frankly I saw them as nothing but normal guys who look like everyone... Yet the ones I chosed being "hansome" contained "feminine" features etc
Man.. Johnny Depp used to look very feminine. now he looks less cause he aged, but check pictures when he was younger :D
 

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Well, can't speak for everyone, but personally I like the looks of "more feminine" men. The less muscles, beard and body-hair a man has, the more attractive he is in my opinion. Long head hair helps too, but isn't necessary.

Screw Vin Diesel, Dwayne Johnson, Brad Pitt, Jason Statham etc. if there are beauties like this:
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Indeed he is very charming :3
 
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so these are the guys I like with feminine feats
Toby Regbo
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Wentworth Miller
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Justin Bieber
Johnny Depp
Jensen Ackles
Justin Chamber
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Jack Falahee
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and Sasuke, why not :3
And some with more masculine feats
Stephen Amell cause I watch Arrow for the story <3 lol
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Craig Parker
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Gerard Butler
Patrick Dempsey (most beautiful blue eyes)
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Justin Timberlake
Nick Wechsler
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Ok I'm done. This is my longest post so far XD
 
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naturally what make a man attractive to a women is not his good look as a principal trait but his strengh / muscles when she looks at a photo, and eventually money when she gets to know him.

if you look at animals the female is always waiting, and the male is chasing / fighting other males to get to the female.

that shows that the female attracts, and the male is the attracted. just like the composition of the genitals of the male and the female : the penis penetrates (action) and the vagina is penetrated (passive).

for animals that have the smell well developped the female has a smell that attracts the males (I take the exemple of dogs) but for kinds that relie on eyes and smell and touch, more than on only smell like the human the female attracts by her beauty, and also by her smell, by her skin, her boobs, etc.

while the male is attracted by the females beauty the female who doesn't have to do anything gets to choose between the competing males, just like animals.

she then chooses a male with power, so her kids are healthy. this is why they like strong guys and/or rich guys. beauty in a guy is not the principal trait. this is because the male has to protect (naturally, from the way he's body is made) and the women has to be protected (naturally speaking).
but he should not look bad eather because the kids will have bad genes then.


it is a well known fact that the females don't relie a lot in the eyes for ***, they feel more.

edit : my analyse is clearly incomplete as this problematic is complex ;)

I did a post like this in one of my previous threads, I was simply stopping the "gold digger" stereotype trying to explain that going for the man with money means safer future for kids. It's all natural.

OTT: but the thread is currently on "do having those feminine facial features make you universally accepted as handsome by both genders"
 

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So Yesterday during hiking(weekends are meant for you to be away from home =D), I was chatting with my friend. We hiked Boland. I started conversation about Harry Potter, before I even knew it, we were asking each other's favourites in the series...

Then we reached a gender barrier part, as always I tried to be flexible and accommodate both sides: She asked which woman/girl I find the most beautiful in the series then I listed my list: Balletrix, Narcissa, Cho chang etc.

Then she asked about guys:... first I hit a hiccup, I didn't answer immediately but I thought it thoroughly before giving her my answer, she jumped into asking about who I think is the most handsome in twilight too.

Typically she gave me:
Cedric Diggory and Edward Cullen as the most beautiful in both series followed by Jacob :| and Sirius Black.

My answer however got her telling me an interesting thought: She said my list was not handsome but it was pretty. Then I gave her more faces she continued saying these faces are pretty and girly not handsome. MAN SHOULD BE ROUGH AND HANDSOME!.

Here was my list:
1. Caius:
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2. Gellert Grindewald <= still the same guy above but in harry potter this time.

3. Tom Riddle/Voldermot
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4. Jasper Hale
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She says my list is girly man should be rough and have firm faces. In my case I guess these feminine features enhanced their beauty. Call me crazy! Justine bieber is a great example:
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Do you agree with her notion of beauty in the Masculinity or you think these feminine features really do enhance beauty in a man?

My opinion:
Justin Bieber is avarage, and is not pretty. I see guys like him everyday, and he's bland and generic. He has a good PR who keeps saying he's good looking, just it. But he's not.

Caius: he looks too young, is ok. Not my it dream, though

Gellert Grindelwald: It's funny, because i don't find this actor good looking, but he's decent there

Tom Riddle: Don't like him on that version, but when he was played by the other guy, Christian Coulson, i had a crush on him. He's the best looking guy on the Harry potter movies

Jasper Hale: is good looking, and a nice looking actor in general, but not gorgeous
I think this list is more for a taste of adolescent girls between 12 to 18 years.

if i could name the best looking guys on twilight and harry potter movies would be:
Carlisle, Jasper, James, Garret
And harry potter would be Cormac McLaggen, Tom Riddle. I find Sirius Black charming, but not beautiful in the aesthetic sense

Well... I guess so XD, Well which faces do you consider look "good" as a guy and be honest. I just want to see if this is universal in guys:
Because I asked a girl on who they saw "Handsome" they gave me this:

Chris Hemsworth(Thor)
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Johnny Depp
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Charles Michael Davis (Marcel The originals)
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Ian Somerhalder(Damon Vampire Diaries)
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Frankly I saw them as nothing but normal guys who look like everyone... Yet the ones I chosed being "hansome" contained "feminine" features etc
I prefer this list, and all those guys are good looking.

I Honestly, i think it depends of the girl tastes, but good looking men is... good looking in any place. I think women are more flexible and relativize a lot. I particularly care more for the face than the body. Makes no difference if he's muscular or not, for example. I also like facial hair, and love haired men. I can't find shaved head attractive at all.

That said I know women who hate muscular men. And I know others who like those muscular guys, shaved hair, angular face etc .. you'll find more women over 20 years with the second taste than teenagers. but it's never extremes, you know? so if the guy is good looking, most of the time girls like both.




Regarding Aishraya Ray, i used to think she was gorgeous when i was younger, now, i think she's ok and not that all. I don't know why, i think is just because a lot of people were tired of the generic skinny blonde hollywood stereotype, and when a prettier indian actresses got spotlight, she turned a "the most beautiful woman in the world", but there's a lot of other a not internationally known indian actresses that are prettier than her. A lot.
 
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