Are Black Women Beautiful?? (Most societies say black is ugly)
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Sakura Michiko
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I love how some people think dating preferences (specifically race preferences since this is what this post is about)are fine and not discrimination. Like last I checked I don't look like every other black female on the planet. I have yet to hear someone state a legit reason to have a dating preference besides some stereotypes,discrimination, or the close mind excuse of "I can't help what I like" I'm not saying you are going to like every human but to say "I don't like *insert race*" is stupid. When did you meet that whole race because I don't remember meeting you. Every race have attractive people.Bite me
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Adam Driver
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Natsu Shazneel
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And how many of em have you done?:Sparks:
In reality they are men without the wooing.
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You can't force people to like someone they don't. Maybe your skin color don't meet my standards of beauty. I'm sure you've rejected guys before so don't act morally superior. It's just preference.
Seventh Sama
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Of course it's all fine. It may not seem that way to you, but to me, it's more than okay. I was never attracted (even in the slightest) to a black girl and I doubt I'll ever be. Why ? Because that's how I feel at the moment, right or not.
But hey, they say that people change with time. So ask me again in 10 years, you might get a different answer. :yeah:
Sakura Michiko
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:wut: lol You clearly missed when I said this in my comment " I'm not saying you are going to like every human but to say "I don't like *insert race*" is stupid."
That's an interesting response.At least you consider the point that you probably would like a black woman in the future.
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MAN OF SIN
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I didn't think you were talking about physical attraction. As generally when you want to have *** with a person that means you found them physically attractive.
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Sakura Michiko
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It's a problem because for one not everyone looks the same in a race. Some people even mistake some black people as another race. There is a girl in my neighborhood who isn't mixed but some people assume she is half Asian because of her eye shape.There is a guy who works with me and a lot of people think he is mixed or mexican because of his skin color and hair but he is just black. Some people though I was Indian once when I was at an event with my mom and some of her Indian friends(I think it was mainly because of my sari and hair style I had that day)... So how can one blatantly say they aren't attractive to a certain race when some people features can be confused for that of another race?
ComplexCity
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Anecdote aside it doesn't really answer my question
What's the problem if one is not attracted to a certain race via their own preference?
Sakura Michiko
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Well what I previously stated it part of the reasons.Some people assume we have the same features and deem that ugly..Also some people go off stereotypes on why they choose not to date certain people.Some people don't even give certain people a chance because of a preference. I had a friend that was single and he wanted to date a white girl or Asian girl but only Mexicans and black women was flirting with him. He said they was hot but they wasn't white or Asian so he wasn't going to date them but he complains about being single a lot.
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ComplexCity
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Not saying I agree because I do too think it's stupid but the fact of preference cannot be ignored and not necessarily a bad thing. Some one in here said that not being attracted to someone because of their skin color is racist (something along those lines) which in my opinion is a stupid thing to say considering how flawed that is. Everyone has a preference and I was just interested on what you had to say about another's preference
Sakura Michiko
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Hmm I don't know.I don't think I necessarily have a preference to be honest. Like I generally don't care what size,color,height the person is just as long as we have that special spark. I don't know maybe it has something to do with me being laid back about the way people look.
ComplexCity
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I saw your input I didn't mean you XD
I mean what you think about people having a preference (I.E: Not being attracted to *insert race* women/men)
Jack Spicer
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Fascinating. You don't have a dream dude or dudet? No certain things that you are attracted to?
Cool mindset though. All that matters is the spark, but to not have any preferences is interesting.
Sakura Michiko
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I think it's silly. I can't wrap my mind around how someone can find a whole race unattractive.
I'm attracted to my boyfriend because he is an amazing person but it's not much because of his looks.He looks great but to me it does't matter what race,size,height,or features the person have. I've dated all types of people.
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CornyRainbow
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The problem with people's "It's just my preference" is they make it a rule.
Ex: I like tall guys because I am short and would PREFER to have a man taller than me. Now, am I going to EXCLUDE an entire group of men who happen to be 5'5 and under because "Oh... it's just my preference". No, because it's not the rule. It means if any short guy was to come to me and hope to start some type of connection with me and hopes we could be more that I'm not going to hit him with "Sorry, I only date tall guys".
See, I'd be on board with the whole "It's just a preference" if black women didn't receive SO MUCH crap for our appearance and still receive it till this day. I'd be on board if everytime I'm in the face of "beauty" it's almost rarely the image of a woman who looks like me. I would be on board if guys didn't tell me the reason I'm not as pretty as I could have been is because my skin is too dark and my hair is just too "nappy". Black women and preferences don't go well. It's usually just "I have semi-racist views on black women so I won't date them."
Note: The fact that the black community is having a very hard time with self-love is pretty clear why I get tired of the "It's just a preference". It's BS that black men aren't finding the female equivalent to themselves attractive. I RARELY hear other races of men say "I don't like my own race of women" but YOU HEAR BLACK MEN SAY IT ALL THE TIME. Does anyone honestly not see the problem with this? Don't get me wrong. I'm not some bitter black chick mad cause Tyrone got a Betty. I could care less but I have a problem when little black girls don't feel beautiful BECAUSE THEIR SKIN TONE and little black boys being taught that anything but black is beautiful.
Ex: I like tall guys because I am short and would PREFER to have a man taller than me. Now, am I going to EXCLUDE an entire group of men who happen to be 5'5 and under because "Oh... it's just my preference". No, because it's not the rule. It means if any short guy was to come to me and hope to start some type of connection with me and hopes we could be more that I'm not going to hit him with "Sorry, I only date tall guys".
See, I'd be on board with the whole "It's just a preference" if black women didn't receive SO MUCH crap for our appearance and still receive it till this day. I'd be on board if everytime I'm in the face of "beauty" it's almost rarely the image of a woman who looks like me. I would be on board if guys didn't tell me the reason I'm not as pretty as I could have been is because my skin is too dark and my hair is just too "nappy". Black women and preferences don't go well. It's usually just "I have semi-racist views on black women so I won't date them."
Note: The fact that the black community is having a very hard time with self-love is pretty clear why I get tired of the "It's just a preference". It's BS that black men aren't finding the female equivalent to themselves attractive. I RARELY hear other races of men say "I don't like my own race of women" but YOU HEAR BLACK MEN SAY IT ALL THE TIME. Does anyone honestly not see the problem with this? Don't get me wrong. I'm not some bitter black chick mad cause Tyrone got a Betty. I could care less but I have a problem when little black girls don't feel beautiful BECAUSE THEIR SKIN TONE and little black boys being taught that anything but black is beautiful.
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